Should I return the gift I received at the breakup?

Updated on educate 2024-06-16
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You don't have to pay it back, in fact, even if it was sent when you broke up, what can you do, he gave you something at the time, just to show that he is not dead to you, and to send you something to express his feelings for you, since he wants to show his feelings for you, then what does it have to do with you, at most you see his attitude, but you don't recognize him! That's all! That notebook is just one of his attitudes, and what you accept is also his attitude, as for whether you approve of his feelings for you, and whether you are willing to be with him has nothing to do with directly!

    It's like I say "I like you" to you, a notebook and a "I like you"! Nothing special!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    With all due respect! Eat other people's soft mouths, take other people's hands short, since they have already broken up, I don't want to have anything to do with it, it was really a mistake to accept the gift at the beginning. Now others gossip, and they can't complain.

    When it is broken, it is broken, I think that the computer matter is still better to settle the account. If you don't want to make a fuss, it's better to find your current boyfriend to come forward and return the money for the computer.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's too indecisive.,Actually, if he's still pestering your friend, just give the money.,There's no need to pay back the computer.,After all, it's not your friend who asked him to ask for it.,But he gave it himself.,Personally, I think that the man's friend is a bit troublesome.,After all, it's none of his business.。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Breaking up is to cut off everything, since it was given by someone else, it can only be returned, and the next love will come soon Bless you Give money to the computer You decide for yourself It's best to even buy a new one It's embarrassing to give money or you drag someone to give him money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It should be returned, just say that it is not needed, it is very simple.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give people money, and make it clear that they will not interfere with each other after a knife is cut off!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I don't pay it back, I won't give it back, and if it were me, I'll give it a gift to my ex, which means a lot.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nowadays, people can't escape the matter of "giving gifts" when they fall in love, generally speaking, the man gives more gifts to the woman, but there are exceptions, that is, the woman sends more gifts to the man when she hails, which is mainly related to the fact that the woman's economic conditions are much better than the man's. A netizen said that after breaking up, can I get the gift back? Of course, you can ask for it back, as long as you want it, the other party will definitely not rely on it, after all, many people don't want to be involved with their ex because of this gift.

    Let's take a good look at this problem, and I hope you can understand some truth from it.

    I think that gifts that are given out can be returned after a breakup as long as you can ask for them. Since you can propose to return the gift you sent, then it is definitely not the breakup you mentioned, since the other party took the initiative to break up, then if you want to return the gift, she will definitely return it immediately, after all, she is afraid that she will not return the gift and be entangled by you.

    Of course, if the other person insists on not returning the gift you gave, you may not want to return it either. Even if you go to court, you may not be able to recover the gift. Because the law stipulates that gifts given during a relationship, as long as they are not large luxuries, they are generally considered to be your gift to the woman.

    In fact, most people will not choose to return gifts even after breaking up, after all, it is fate for two people to fall in love. There are also some people who will throw away all the gifts given by their exes or sell them on second-hand platforms after breaking up. So if you want it, the other party will generally pay it back.

    It is recommended that you ask for it early, and she will sell it. In fact, some people will fold the gift into money and return it to the other party when they break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that after breaking up, I still have to return the gifts that the other party gave me, but for example, some daily use, what lipstick, etc., I don't think it's necessary to return it, but for example, some valuable, but you have already used it, etc., you can convert it into money and give it to the other party, so that it is like you bought it back, and it is better to return it to the other party if it is too expensive such as jewelry.

    Many girls in love, always habitually looking for boys to ask for gifts, I always feel that two people are just in love, usually the other party please have a meal, or a small gift during the holiday is already very good, you should no longer think about the other party should also give people their own luxury goods, after all, those things you let the other party send, there is a feeling of wanting, and in love should not spend too much money on each other, you want too valuable things, it seems that love is not simple.

    Of course, if you want it, when you break up, either you return the items to the other party, or you give the money to the other party, otherwise I believe that these things accompany you, and you will also feel very embarrassed, after all, this is given by your ex-boyfriend, every time you use it, you may also think of your ex, and the next boyfriend may also be unhappy if he sees that you still use the things sent by your ex, so either you buy it out, it is considered to be your own purchase, or you return these things to the other party, so that you do not owe each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, as long as it's not an overly expensive gift, it's already someone else's if it's given out, and it can be kept as a souvenir after the breakup, and it doesn't need to be returned.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think you need it, since the other party gave it to you. If you break up, you should keep it, it can be used as a souvenir, and it won't embarrass the other party too much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need, since it was sent willingly at that time, naturally there is no reason to return it after the breakup, if you really don't want to see it, you can ask the other party's opinion, if he still wants, return it, if he doesn't want it, we can just throw it away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is actually not necessary, since I gave out a gift, why should I come back if I broke up, I seem to be very stingy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it depends on you personally, if you want to pay it back, if you don't want to see it, throw it away, in fact, it's nothing, I will throw it away before, out of sight is clean but now I think it's good to stay, you can record your feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The bracelet given by my girlfriend and braided with her hair was naturally returned to the other party after breaking up.

    How to deal with the rough gift of breaking up and breaking up?

    1. Keep it as a memorial or lesson.

    Some people will choose to treasure one or two items sent by their ex to prove that they have loved, after all, everyone's encounter is hard-won, since they have loved each other, it means that two people are destined, and leave one or two gifts to recall the good memories that are treasured in their hearts.

    2. Throw it away or sell it, out of sight and out of mind.

    Most people generally don't choose to keep it, either throw it away or sell it on second-hand platforms. I don't want to keep it because I have more or less emotional sources of Hu Jie's fetish, and it is also to avoid some unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings when I meet the next one. But more often than not, it is the need for a sense of ritual to wave goodbye to the past.

    Throw away all their things, forget them, forget this memory, and say goodbye to this town completely.

    3. Send it to your predecessor and dispose of it with him.

    After the breakup, I will pack the gifts that my ex gave me and express them to him, and he can deal with them whatever he likes, and it is none of his business, so that we don't owe each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it is valuable, then it is necessary to return it to the other party, and if it is not valuable, then it is not necessary to change it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. Whether it is a gift relationship.

    1) Can't be returned: Some transfers with special meaning are generally considered to be unconditional gifts to express friendship, such as "520", "1314" and other transfer behaviors.

    2) If it is determined that the gift is a gift with a condition of dissolution for the purpose of living together or entering into a marriage relationship, the property acquired as a result of the gift shall be returned after the parties break up.

    2. During the relationship, it is very common for both men and women to pay each other money, in order to show their unswerving commitment to love, when one party is in difficulty, some pay money directly, and some pay property. There are generally two types of such payments, one is a gift and the other is a loan.

    From a legal point of view, borrowing money during a relationship legally forms a creditor-debtor relationship between a man and a woman, so the loan should be returned during the relationship, even after the loan is married during the relationship. Unless the premarital debts are used for the purchase of marital property during the marriage or for matters after the marriage, there is a post-marital set-off or partial set-off of the debts. Men and women remain independent individuals after marriage, which also excludes the possibility of confusion of claims and debts.

    3. Whether it is a marital property relationship.

    The bride price is paid for the purpose of marriage, and if evidence can be adduced to prove that the transfer is indeed a bride price, the court will clearly support the return of the bride price in the following three circumstances.

    Circumstances in which a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom:

    1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

    2) The two parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but have not lived together for a banquet;

    3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

    First, during the relationship, you should be cautious about buying a house in partnership, sign a capital contribution agreement, and keep the capital contribution certificate.

    Second, the written agreement on the share, the purpose of the purchase, whether it is a gift on the condition of marriage, etc.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After a breakup, there is generally no need to return the gift The gifts are given to the two people when they are together.

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