broke up and still cared about her

My boyfriend and I are like that, I'm just more nervous, I'm always arguing with him, so because of my willfulness and some misunderstandings, we separated for more than a year, and we were separated for half a year, and he still cares about me very much, and of course, I do my best to care for him, and I once thought that we were the most inappropriate, and it was a mistake for us to continue to be together, and I often felt glad that I broke up with him, but when he said that he was going to give up on me completely, I felt very uncomfortable, in fact, I had become dependent on him unconsciously When I am the most frustrated, helpless and lonely, the person who thinks of him is him, I don't say this about myself, but I want to tell you that he is not necessarily not suitable for you, and there will be some problems when the relationship progresses to a certain stage, and these problems will have to be run in with each other, and it will take time, but it can't be wasted, and we are also growing while love continues, and this process is the most wonderful, even if there will be unpleasantness, but as time passes, memories will give you the most beautiful memories of love, and we are all learning and growing Learn how to love others, don't you, think about what your crux is Think about what you'd do, what she'd do, and if you want to continue your story, be brave and take action like my boyfriend if you need to, and talk a lot of nonsense, but I still hope you can be happy!

Alas, it may be that you have been getting along for a long time, many things you are not used to, you are not used to the days without him, it is a normal phenomenon, I believe that time can dilute all this, or keep a good mood of yourself! Actually, you can still be friends! Friends can also take pictures of each other!

Hehe, perhaps, a habit. Maybe the psychology still cares about her.

But I guess you still care about her, right?

After all, we all get along, and forgetting will not be so simple.

Then please put this concern in your mind

Don't rush it too much

You care now.

It's because of reluctance.

But. Compassion is not love.

1. If you want to care about each other, you can also use your friends. Thinking about who you are now, it is more of a feeling of embarrassment. I want to care about the other party, but I am afraid that that person will cause misunderstanding, so I don't care about myself and sit on pins and needles.

I believe it is also a very good way to send condolences and solutions to things through friends.

2. Sending a simple text message is also a challenge for your own heart. But since you are destined to be a thing of the past, then you can also have a normal heart. It is not impossible to be the friend around him who is most worthy of his cherishment, and then I believe that he can bear it.

2. Is it appropriate to care about the other person after a breakup?

1. Many people are also worried that if they care about each other after the breakup, they are afraid that the person will cause any misunderstanding, and they are afraid of bringing some unnecessary trouble to that person's life. Since you have such worries, you must let yourself hold back the kind of concern in your heart. You might as well be a person who is soft on the inside and strong on the outside.

2. I want to care about a person, and I think about whether I can do such a thing. Since you are worried about the right fit or not, you might as well let go of your mentality. Let yourself endure this kind of torment, and don't bother the other person.

Since that person doesn't have any suspense about you, and there are no illusions, I believe that they will gradually forget you.

The most painful ending between lovers is to break up, after the breakup, many people actually have no dead hearts at all, and want to send blessings to each other, send care at the same time, and feel that they have some superfluity. How do lovers who have broken up care? After reading it carefully, I realized that I needed to consider each other's feelings.

Think about it, since you broke up, and there is one more person by his side who loves him, there is no need to cause trouble for the other person. Think about how much you care about someone at the same time, but what other people think in their hearts, have you ever thought about it? Everything is two-sided, and when you don't want to have emotional entanglements with someone again, and don't want to cause trouble to that person, you have to learn to come out of the other person's world.

Since you can't give her happiness, then don't have any entanglement with her, maybe it seems ruthless, but in fact, it is really let go.

If you still want to care about her after breaking up, it means that you are still disconnected from her and have not given up the pursuit of her, this kind of care will easily affect your future love life, so if you want to care about her, you can only care about the difficulties he encounters at work, and you can't help her in other aspects.

After the breakup, you don't have to care about her anymore, after all, you have already broken up between you, if you don't plan to continue. What's the point of caring for him? If you care about him at this time, it is only possible for the other party to misunderstand you, and even the other party to hate you.

Since they have all broken up, they should let each other go.

If you want to care about her after a breakup, you can start with her friends, but don't send her a direct message, because she may also need to calm down during this time.

To be honest, there is no need, if you really want to care about the other party after the breakup, then it is enough to greet the other party politely and appropriately, because excessive concern will only make the other party more sad. Be sure to pay more attention to yourself.

After the breakup, if you want to care about him, it is recommended that you pay more attention to the dynamics of his circle of friends, like him, and then ask him for a message from his friends.

You can ask him if he's feeling bad and how he feels now. If you want to go further, you can give her what she likes to buy, so that you can make it more clear that you care about him.

After the breakup, in fact, you can still care about him, and you can still shush him as before, but the way you use it is different.

After the breakup, you can often go to the girl to fight **, or often buy some gifts for the girl, buy some snacks that the girl likes to eat, so as to show that you care about the girl, and the girl will thank you very much.

Hello! Hello, dear user friends, I am happy to answer your questions! That is to call her more, ask her if she is full, pay attention to her health, and often ask her about things, so that you can If you are insufficient, you can continue to ask, if you are satisfied, thank you

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After the breakup, if you want to care about her, don't mention the reunion, you forget about it, and get along with her as an ordinary friend, so the care should be just right, and it's okay to chat occasionally.

After the breakup, if you particularly want to care about this girl, you can directly take the initiative to call this girl, and ask a girl what kind of life situation she is now, as long as you take the initiative, then you will definitely be able to show your concern for this girl.

After breaking up, you can send a message to ask for warmth, send her a gift on a holiday or birthday, and he will know that you can't let go of him and will get back together with you.

The change in the relationship must understand in your heart that you are no longer the other half of the other party. If you want to care, you should occasionally make a ** or text message in a simple way, but don't chat frequently. Knowing how to say simple words is less, so that person will be able to understand that you don't care enough about yourself, and at the same time that he feels this way, he has already proved that you are friends.

The best way, then you are to prove it with practical actions. Because if you really want to care about the other party after the breakup, then you can only take the initiative to prove it to this girl with practical actions, then it is possible to move her.

After the breakup, there is no need to care about the other person anymore, your silent attention is the greatest concern for him.

You can often say some nice things to this girl, or often say hello to this girl, or often say good morning and good night, or say this kind of concern for yourself, I think it is a very correct approach.

After a breakup, try not to take the initiative to disturb each other's lives. This is a minimum of respect. You can silently care about it in your heart. If there's something she can't solve. But as a friend with appropriate help.

Since they are no longer together and have broken up, there is no need to care about her anymore, it is useless to care about her, he doesn't have you in his heart, and your concern for him will cause him to be more disgusted, so the best thing to do is to calm down, stay away from him, don't think about him anymore, and no longer care about his feelings and contact with him.

If you want to care about him after a breakup, you can send him a message through WeChat to care for him. If he wants you to care about him, you can care about him, if he doesn't want to, you care about him, it's a burden for him, and you don't care about him anymore.

Don't care about your former girlfriend after you break up, after all, the two of you have broken up, you are both free, pay attention to your future love life.

After breaking up, there is no need to care about her anymore, because the two people have no feelings, let alone intersection, if they still care about each other, it is a kind of secondary injury, in fact, there is no need to give her good wishes, I hope she is happy, and she can live her own life.

If you want to get back together after a breakup, you can care about her, for example, when you come to your aunt in your life, when you are in a bad mood, you can care about her, take care of her, and pick her up when you go to and from work. It's all a sign of concern.

After a breakup, as long as you care about your ex-girlfriend, you can text occasionally or occasionally interact with the two of you. But I personally suggest that you don't think too much about it after you break up, so that it will be difficult for the other party to accept.

No matter how much you once loved each other, once you separate, you will leave regrets. And different people will deal with broken love differently. So much so that in the end, they will face a different situation.

To put it simply, if you face it positively, you will be brave enough to face up to all those who have fallen out of love. Carefully analyze this relationship and figure out why it has come to the point of falling out of love. Then, after you have experienced this lovelorn, you will have a better understanding of feelings, and you will gradually form a mature view of love.

The opposite result is that you fail to "eat a trench and grow wise", and you will make the same mistake in the future. Of course, this is a situation that we are all reluctant to see.

It's just that for many people, missing after a breakup can't stop in a short period of time. After all, they have loved each other deeply, and there will still be some attachment in their hearts.

It is precisely because of this longing that there will be some manifestations. For example, after a breakup, I will still secretly look at my ex's circle of friends. This is a very common way of manifesting itself.

So, why such a move? Generally speaking, if you are unwilling, you still want to know the bits and pieces of the other party.

Although he is "unwilling", he also knows in his heart that he has broken up. Therefore, I had to choose to secretly go to the side to watch.

I hope that in this way, I can learn more about each other. It's as if the other party is not far from him, and he can still feel his life.

Generally speaking, doing so is actually a comfort to one's own heart. For many couples who have just broken up, most of them will have such a move. And choose this way in order not to add trouble to the other party.

Yes, they have broken up nominally, but I still can't let go of it in my heart. And if you break up, you can't take care of each other as before. You can only choose this way and care secretly.

From a certain point of view, such a move can also be understood.

I think many people who have fallen out of love have experienced this. Because at the beginning, it was really hard to let go of my heart. And you can only give yourself a little comfort in this way.

While this would be a bit inappropriate, there seems to be no other way.

And this "unwillingness" in the heart, although it will fade over time. But in the beginning, it really needed to be alleviated in this way.

I think that's probably why many people choose to do this after a breakup.

1.Dependency

It takes 21 days to form a habitIt's like brushing your teeth and washing your face. You have to do it every day. Over time, you will get used to this behavior. If one day you don't brush your teeth or wash your face, you will feel uncomfortable.

The same goes for love. You've been in contact for a while, and you're tired of being together every day, and you're used to it in your life.

He says that he doesn't like you as much as he used to be, and that he may have a sense of dependence on you. After getting used to one thing or one person, he will have this delusion and feel that he does not like the other person.

After you broke up, you suddenly started to move away from him, and he always felt that he was not used to something without him. Do rock.

2.Retreat and move forward

That's your reasoning. When he is with you, he finds you very unbearable. When he's with you, he's bored, tired, and can't see the future.

So when I continued to date, I felt out of breath and could only choose to escape.

After the breakup, continue to care for you, be nice to you, and see if you will change. If you change, you will choose to get back together with you. If you observe for a while and find that you are still the same, angry, and vexatious, he will not hesitate to leave you.

3.He is a person with a sensitive personality and a lack of love

Sensitive and loveless people are usually very sensitive, especially emotionally, and can be particularly sensitive to changes in feelings. There is a very important characteristic: he needs a person or object that can place his emotions.

Although you have broken up, he still needs someone who can put his rich feelings in his heart. If there is nothing to contain, he will feel embarrassed, lonely, and unsatisfied.

There is no place for the rich emotions in my heart to output, and they will get bigger and bigger like balloons, which is difficult to bear!

4.Treat you like a spare tire

While taking care of you and being good to you, we look for new prey. When you meet the right person, you'll be together. Anyway, even if you are dumped, you will always be hung up, don't let the relationship fade, don't let you meet new people, make you always feel that there is still hope between you, but I won't give you the answer.

Raising a spare tire is like raising a pig, fattening it, and then slaughtering it.