My husband is in contact with my ex girlfriend, what should I do?

If you have a child, don't divorce impulsively, be responsible for the child!

Of course, you can't maintain a broken marriage just because of your children.

First of all, you have to think carefully about whether you still love your husband, how much you love him, and what do you love him?

If you are sure that you still love your husband, you must think more about his advantages and start from his soft spots!

Then, if you still want to save your marriage, you must mobilize the power of your elders, and hope that your mother-in-law, who is your husband's own mother, will stand on your side, and let your husband understand that he is a person with old and young, and should be responsible for the family! Moreover, you are willing to forgive him for his previous mistakes and are willing to accompany him to make amends! You yourself have to make it explicit; If your husband still doesn't change, you propose to separate from him for a period of time, calm down, and hope that he will think clearly about whether the family is important or the ex-girlfriend is important.

Remember, don't trust a man's oath!!

Then, strike while the iron is hot, and if your husband shows signs of repentance, relive the events of your relationship and help him forget about his ex-girlfriend. In this process, you have to be patient enough, and when appropriate, you must also be soft, and let your husband know that you have been wronged. It is sometimes difficult for men to grasp themselves, and you have to help your man to be a good man.

Also, don't go to his ex-girlfriend for the following reasons:

1.That woman knows that your husband is married, and she still wants to entangle, indicating that she is a person who will not reason with you;

2.If you go to her, she will be able to sue the wicked first, and your husband will only hate you even more.

3.A smart woman will deal with her own man, and only a stupid woman will deal with a woman, because there are many ,,, you can't deal with a man, so it's better to clean up your man at home.

Finally: no matter what the woman says or does, even if it is the truth you least want to know, you have to endure it first, and you must not fall into the trap. Husband and wife work together to get rid of the vixen, to be consistent with your husband, and wait for that woman's status to disappear completely, and clean up their own man behind closed doors!!

Threaten him with divorce.

Just hit a ** to say.

I don't think we're a good fit, let's get a divorce.

Is it hard for him to be a white lie? Your husband is really If you are still very ambiguous with your ex-boyfriend I think your husband will be stupid Even if you are reconciled now, there must still be a shadow in your heart that will feel uncomfortable If you don't know how to cherish it, then you can only make him regret it!

To be honest, you have to think about the baby Your husband may be a person who values feelings After all, you have loved each other Even if it is not love, there will be family affection or friendship If you keep making trouble like this, it may lead to a rift in your relationship Since I am married to you and choose to spend my life with you, I will be responsible for you You pay attention to the baby first, let it be.

If you still want to be with him, you should abide by one center, two basic points: health-centered, a little open, and a little confused. Otherwise, be decisive.

What about men? It's not good to push him too hard, give him some space, let him do whatever he wants, give him freedom to the extent he can bear it, believe that he will understand your mind and will stay by your side, think maybe he didn't tell you the truth when he loved you and was afraid that you would misunderstand? Give yourself some confidence!

I believe that your man knows that he is married, has children, and has a sense of responsibility, and his current behavior is what you do only when he is occasionally lonely, give yourself some confidence, you are the best, otherwise you will not marry you and will not have children with you! Is it?

You go and contact your ex-boyfriend to see what he has to say. Nothing good to do.

A woman's war is that whoever declares war first is doomed to be the loser of this war. Do what you have to do as you did before and put your heart away. To love someone is to believe in them.

Don't blame others, and think about whether you are not doing a good job while blaming others. Everything is knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent, and one cannot be defeated in a hundred battles. Quietly observing the world, the way to become a person.