Why do you let your child live in school when she is in primary school?

That's probably because of the parents! Different parents have different difficulties and considerations, and I don't think I want my children to leave me from an early age unless I have to.

Some parents do not have time to take care of their children, so if they let their children live in school, they can still let their children be taken care of, and some parents and husbands are busy with part-time work, and even work far away from home, and they can't come back to home several times a year.

Some parents are thinking about exercising their children's ability to survive independently from an early age, and now their children are very squeamish, leaving their parents to become incompetent, many parents do not want their children to stick to the home, they feel that they should be released while they are young, and the children will be independent earlier, and it will be good for their children in the future.

There are also schools that are private primary schools, requiring children to live in school from primary school, so that it is easy to manage, parents have no choice but to let their children live in school, anyway, primary school students only need to stay in school for five days, and they can go home for two days a week, although the children live in school, but parents can also visit their children at any time, and the children will not have a sense of loneliness.

Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of parents.

Many parents send their children to school when they are in elementary school.

I've seen a number of reasons for this.

First, some parents have too high expectations for their children, thinking that sending their children to school early and living in school to study will definitely be able to learn well and better ensure their children's learning time.

Second, some parents send their children to live in school, which will save a lot of trouble, they don't have to get up early and eat for their children, and they don't have to pick up and drop off their children every day, which saves parents a lot of time, and it is also a good choice for children to live in school.

In other words, the parents are smart people, and the children live in school from primary school, saving the cost of hiring a nanny to take care of them, which is much more cost-effective than hiring a nanny to take care of them.

Third, due to family reasons, parents have a low level of education and cannot help their children learn, so it is much better for their children to live in school and have teachers to supervise their learning, so they choose to let their children live in primary school.

The last point is that due to the source of students, there is a shortage of students in many places, and the education department has adopted the withdrawal of points and the merger of schools, and many villages have unified to go to school in the center of the town, which is also the reason why children live in primary schools.

Shouldn't. I have been living on campus since junior high school. I felt very good in those years, I was still very self-disciplined at that time, I could have ten yuan of pocket money left over a week, I had a good relationship with my classmates, and I didn't have to worry about my grades.

I really feel that I am freer than other classmates, and life is delicious. But the more I grew up, the more I felt that something was wrong, and many friends and parents who didn't live in school around me were not at fault, and adults could help them come up with ideas for anything, especially in terms of feelings. Look at yourself again, you may not tell your parents what happened.

I think it's a pity. I digested everything in school by myself, shared it with my friends, and told my family about it. The only warmth I could have when I came home on the weekend was my dad who drove me up early, went out for a good meal, and mom helped me wash some clothes and sheets.

Going on an adventure together? Everyday communication? Very few.

When you grow up, you will inevitably go out and explore, and you don't care about cultivating independence in the past three years. And these three years are precisely the three years when a person needs a sense of "home" and security. Sharing joys and sorrows with mom and dad and acquiring some mature experiences is the joy of childhood and great happiness.

Insecure independence is not good at all.

Children who are too young need the companionship and care of their parents, and with love, children can have a sense of security. Parents take care of it, grow up, cultivate children's independence should also be based on the age of the child, can not ignore it, just throw the child to the school, their own more than a crack point does not stand Zheng closed heart, that is not a qualified parent, when the child needs, the parents are absent, the parent-child relationship will not be very harmonious in the future, parents are kind to the child, the future will have the capital to educate the child, regardless of the child from an early age, the future will definitely harvest a rebellious child, in adolescence, parents and children have a battle to fight, is the child's rebellion, When I grow up, I want to make my own decisions, but my ability is not enough, the parent-child relationship is harmonious, and I can communicate well, and the child can listen to my parents, regardless of it from an early age, I don't need to do it anymore, and then I don't need to interfere, and the child ignores us, so I don't approve of letting the child live in school too early, and I'd rather work hard!

If you can't live in school, you won't live in school. Psychologically, it is recommended not to leave parents under the age of 14. If there is a special situation where you have to live in the school, there is no way to do it.

Because under the age of 14 is a very critical period for cultivating and building relationships with parents. And living in such a small school is also funny and insecure. So if you can't live in school, you can't live in school.

Children can live in school when they are older, but they should not live in school all the time when they are young.

With the development of society, residential schools have become the norm in many schools. Some parents believe that allowing their children to live in schools can develop better self-management skills, enhance social skills, and improve learning outcomes. Here are a few reasons why children should live on campus.

1.Develop self-management skills.

Boarding in the school allows the children to become their own masters, and they need to complete all aspects of daily life by themselves, such as: cleaning, food management, time planning, etc., all of which are done by the children themselves. Children are required to manage themselves during their stay at school, especially the class leader or dormitory leader, who must lead their classmates in managing their own dormitories, classrooms and common areas.

This self-management ability will not only be a good performance in school, but will also be a very important skill in the future, work and life.

2.Enhance social skills.

Living on campus gives children more opportunities to communicate with their classmates, live and learn together. Children are able to build strong friendships, learn how to get along with people with different personalities and backgrounds, and further strengthen their communication skills. In addition, the residential school also gives the children many opportunities to help each other with problems in learning, living and management.

3.Improve learning outcomes.

Living in school allows children to have more time for learning and avoids wasting time going back and forth every day. At the same time, the boarding school can also use the evening self-study time to allow children to concentrate on their studies, so that children can have a quiet and comfortable environment to study. In addition, in the dormitory, children can also discuss with each other, answer questions, and help each other improve their academic performance.

In summary, living in a school can help children develop self-management skills, enhance social skills, and improve learning outcomes. Of course, there are some disadvantages to living in a school, such as the lack of family warmth and companionship, and the lack of sufficient private space and time, so parents should balance the pros and cons and make decisions based on their own situation and that of their children.

Whether children need to go to junior high school or not, we mainly have to start from the pros and cons of day school, and then make a judgment based on the actual situation of their children.

Let's start with the benefits of day reading. First of all, it must be convenient for parents to take care of their children, junior high school students are actually still children, and they have a certain ability to take care of themselves in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Parents can also keep up to date with their children's situation.

Secondly, day school can enhance the emotional relationship between parents and children, junior high school children are in the early stage of puberty, personality and other aspects are changing, emotional instability is very easy, if parents are always around, it will help both parties to communicate emotionally.

This is especially important, because many people choose to let their children live in school at this critical time, and then fail to establish a strong parent-child relationship with their children, and this far-reaching impact will last for the child's life.

On the other hand, there are certain advantages to accommodation. Allowing children to choose accommodation will cultivate children's independence and social skills as early as possible, which can help children integrate into the group as soon as possible and accelerate children's growth.

Secondly, choosing accommodation can further ensure the safety of children and improve their learning efficiency. It does not allow children to waste time on the way to school, and allows students to maximize the use of time, even if it is used for play, it is better than wasting it on the road.

It can be seen that students have their own advantages in choosing to live or go to school, and how to choose depends on what kind of child the student is and what kind of life is suitable for. It is the safest to judge the advantages and disadvantages in combination with yourself.

It is recommended that children start living in junior high school, so that they can exercise their abilities, and it will be of great help to adapt to the residential environment of high school and university in the future.

First, the residence of junior high school students is conducive to improving students' ability to live independently.

For a variety of reasons, many junior high school students choose to live on campus. Most of the students in many schools are rural children, because it is inconvenient to go to school, they can only choose to live in a bad school, which is convenient for them to study on the one hand, and can provide convenience for their lives on the other hand.

After a period of living in the dormitory, the self-care ability of boarding students will be greatly improved. Many students do not have how to manage and plan their own lives when they are at home, and after living in school, these are things that need to be learned, and many parents will find that their children become diligent and sensible when they come home from school. The teacher suggests that parents and students can send their children to live in school if conditions permit.

Second, junior high school students living on campus can better exercise students' ability to communicate with others and improve students' enthusiasm for learning together.

Living on campus can increase communication between classmates, and classmates will have a better relationship. Students who do not live on campus usually spend time only between classes or after school, which has limitations on the establishment and development of friendships between classmates. If there will be more time and opportunities for students to communicate with each other, communication with classmates will help improve students' ability to interact with others and deal with others.

1.The child will enter adolescence, and there will be fewer and fewer topics around the parents, and with the upgrading of their studies, the content that parents can tutor is gradually decreasing. It is necessary to let him have a little bit of his independence, lay a good foundation for going out to study or work in the future, so that he can better adapt to independent life.

So simply arranging for him to live on campus, be with other classmates, and have more topics, maybe it will play a role in promoting.

2.Nowadays, many schools will have such a policy: in the first and second years of junior high school, students who live in the school will have evening self-study in the evening, in fact, the class teacher or classroom teacher will take the homework to do the dry digging, and those who do not live in the school will not have evening self-study.

In this way, parents will think in their hearts that not only can someone watch the homework, but also have a more professional and responsible teacher to tutor, which is more reassuring and can save the cost of the tutoring class.

3.The third point is the selfishness of parents, the child is really disobedient, noisy, at home homework grinding and refusing to write, a while watching TV and playing with a mobile phone, a toilet and a meal, simply let him live in the school, out of sight and out of mind, just free up time to do other things or take care of the two treasures at home.