Why is there so much more grandma with children than grandma with children now?

With the progress of society, many phenomena in life are quietly changing, and grandma has gradually replaced grandma's position and become the best person to watch children.

In the past, grandma took care of the children, and now grandma takes care of the children, one is that the man is the pillar of the family, the husband goes to work, the wife takes care of the children at home, the husband and wife live with the in-laws, and the grandmother can help take care of one or two at home.

In the era of equality between men and women, women have to earn the same income as men to support their families, and even better than men in work. There are more people who earn money as wives and office workers.

Taking care of the children mainly falls on the grandmother, and because there are many women in the family, the grandmother takes the child to communicate with her daughter conveniently, and is the most trusted person by the daughter.

There are not so many inconveniences and estrangements between daughters and their mothers.

In the case of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, communication is still a little unsmooth, coupled with the difference in living habits, the friction in life may be more serious.

Third, because in the past, a couple only had one child, so today's young people face the heavy pressure of raising four elderly people.

The wife has to go to work and take care of the children, the pressure can be imagined, the grandmother feels sorry for her daughter, and takes the initiative to share some pressure for her daughter, so there are many phenomena of grandma taking children.

Now the status of women in the family is becoming higher and higher. And the old people like children, and they also want to bring their granddaughters by themselves, so they will feel very proud. Therefore, the women of the family usually bring the children to their mothers, because they feel that this will reassure them.

Now the relationship in the family is not very good, so the women in the family generally do not give their children to their mothers-in-law, and they are also afraid of being bad for their children. And there are also some grandmothers with children on Weibo, which makes people feel a little funny, so today's mothers don't want their children to become like that. I will not choose to let my mother-in-law take it, and I will let my mother bring it.

Because sometimes when I talk to my mother, I can just mention any opinions. But what I say to my mother-in-law may cause unnecessary conflicts, and it may also cause family disputes because of the children's affairs, so they don't want to make things very troublesome, so they choose to take the children to their grandmother.

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Dear, a long time ago, my grandmother brought a little more, and I rarely went back to my parents' house when I got married, so my grandmother brought more, but also because it was closer, and it was convenient to take it. But now there are also many people who are brought by grandma, to see who is better, and who the child is closer to whom, it is <>okay to bring it

Now grandma takes more children or grandma takes children more.

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Dear, a long time ago, my grandmother brought a little more, and I rarely went back to my parents' house when I was married, so my grandmother brought more, but also because it was closer, and it was convenient to take it. But now there are also a lot of people in the town who are brought by their grandmothers, to see who brings it better, and who the child is closer to will bring it, it is okay [Xianwu Brigade Socks Flower].

Shouldn't grandma bring the question? After all, the child's and grandmother's family name are not the same as grandma's family name.

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Because grandma with a baby, it is easy to have contradictions, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will usually get along normally, let alone with children, different concepts, different parenting methods will cause fuses, once there is a contradiction is difficult to resolve, after all, it is not a mother, if it is a mother, even if there is a contradiction, it is easy to resolve.

Because the relationship between grandma and mother is very good, mother and child are connected, and it will be more harmonious in communication and dealing with problems, because now many mothers will also have depression after giving birth to a baby, so let him get along with his mother, so that he will not have so much pressure to relax his mood, which is also very good for mothers, so now many grandmothers want to take children for their daughters.

On the one hand, it should be that the family is busy and can't take care of it; There are also grandmothers who are old and unable to take care of their grandchildren; Another is that grandma feels sorry for her daughter and wants to help her share some of the burden.