Is it difficult to find your true love in college?

The probability is relatively low, and the proportion of college students who get married is less than 7%. But try to find a partner in college, because when you graduate and work, the life circle will be small, and there will be only one office person who comes and goes, and there is no bigger life circle than the university... The newspapers say it!

Encourage college students to find a boyfriend or girlfriend before graduation.

I think it's perfectly fine, and my wife and I are living happily.

We met when we were about to graduate, and now we're about to get married...

I think it is possible to find true love ... But it depends on whether you have a fate with "him" (her). Will.

Tancheng, will they all cherish each other?

If you could, you wouldn't have true love anywhere, even if you weren't in college.

It all depends on the efforts of both sides.

Trust me, friend.

It's hard to say hard, it's easy to say easy, it's up to you to make it.

My question may be inappropriate, because I didn't go to college, but I still want to say that I think college should study hard and not think about falling in love, and after college, are you still worried about not being able to find a good girlfriend?

Less, 10 out of 100 is too much! But as the saying goes, "There is a fate to meet thousands of miles!" ”

Do you know what it means to meet thousands of miles away?

To find love in college, this hard work is not enough, it depends on fate.

Love is a natural emotion of human beings, and when you meet your favorite object by chance, you may have strong feelings of mutual attraction, which is the beginning of love. But there is no simple scientific standard and method for beautiful love and healthy love, but more of life experience. As a newly enrolled college student, it is normal to have the idea of falling in love, but you should observe and communicate more, and you don't have to be as restrained and depressed as middle school students.

You know, others have the right to accept and refuse.

But students need to pay attention to not seeing others have friends of the opposite sex, and they have to "catch up with fashion". When you fall in love in college, just go with the flow, neither deliberately pursue it, nor refuse the right fate. Experience tells us that college freshmen who are eager to get into a love role may show that they lack family warmth, need to find a psychological support, or need to find a person to vent their sexual impulses.

In fact, college freshmen who enter a relationship situation too early can easily become "lonely", and the circle of friends will become narrow. What's more, the study task of university is not light.

College students should look at the matter of falling in love rationally, because it is almost related to the happiness of their lives, and they should pay the most attention to the character of the other party when falling in love, because often good character can be consistent and never give up. The sentence that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan may not be so serious, because everyone will inevitably stumble when they fall in love, and in the end, both parties are likely to break up if they feel that their personalities are incompatible, which is also quite normal.

1.Find a target to expand the source.

In some colleges and universities, the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, and college students know the opposite sex mainly on campus. Therefore, if you want to find a love partner in college, you must expand your source, such as developing in other colleges and universities, or developing in other classes. Only when you know more and more friends and brothers and sisters, can you choose the best among them and choose the object that pleases you the most.

2.Find a partner and don't follow the crowd.

The current social atmosphere is not as clean and pure as before, and college students are easily affected by some bad atmospheres, which affects their own view of love and is not innocent enough to treat love. If our love is drifting with the flow, and we don't have our own heartbeat and like, then it is very likely that we will not be able to taste the beauty and sweetness of love.

3.Finding a partner is not deliberate.

As a contemporary college student, you can't deliberately find a boyfriend or girlfriend of the opposite sex in order to satisfy your own face or satisfy your yearning for love. If the other party does not make you feel excited and liked, it is best not to deliberately interact with the other party, which is a manifestation of irresponsibility for feelings.

4.When looking for a partner, you have to pay attention to the time of day.

If you are very busy in the short term, need to take a certificate or take a postgraduate examination or something, and do not have more time and energy to fall in love, or you are afraid that falling in love will delay your "business", you may as well put your personal emotions aside at this time. If you have the help of the day, it is easier to succeed in love.

5.When looking for a partner, you should pay attention to the location.

The geographical advantages mentioned here are often for long-distance relationships. If the man and woman are in a long-distance relationship, it is very likely that the other party is often not by their side, and the relationship will be estranged. Sometimes it's even easy for others to take advantage of it, and eventually their love partner and someone else come together.

Therefore, it is better to have the advantage of geography in love.

6.When looking for a partner, you should pay attention to people.

The point is that two people are happy together, like to do the same things, and have common topics. If two people are together and don't speculate for more than half a sentence, what is it like for such a person to fall in love? Unthinkable.

What I want to tell you here is that finding a partner is like looking for a job, you should be careful and cautious.

7.When looking for a partner, we should pay attention to character.

No matter how beautiful a girl is, no matter how handsome a guy is, if the other party's character is not good, this kind of person must not have a deep relationship with him. You know, a bad character is worse than all other external conditions. Therefore, when looking for a partner, college students should remember to keep their eyes open and learn to look at the world and this person with their eyes and hearts.

There are several ways to find love in college:

1.Actively participate in activitiesThere are many kinds of clubs in the university, according to their ownHobbies, find a club that suits you, and the students in the small group must be able to chat about hobbies and be easier to get along with. Club activities also increase the time to get to know each other, which is a good choice.

2.Express yourself to the fullestIf there are students with special talents, they can be held at the schoolShow your talent at the partyIt is also easier to arouse the concern of classmates and increase goodwill. Interacting with the teacher during the class can also deepen the impression of your classmates.

3.Students' UnionFor example, in the process of working together, we can learn more about each other's ways of thinking. If you have a classmate who is very willing to help you, communicate with him and make progress and grow together.

It's hard to find pure love.

This is mainly because once people enter the society, they will be influenced by various thoughts, and they will involuntarily give themselves a view of love.

The concept of marriage adds its own subjective factors, so pure love is difficult to encounter again. Pure love may only exist in the student days, stepping into the society, often love is no longer pure, but mixed with some practical interests, which is also where human nature lies, and it is also a very normal thing.

Love is very important to everyone, and it is also a point that many young people crave in their hearts, is to find the ability to have pure love, but such ideas are often beautiful, and society is often very cruel. When I was a student, as long as two people liked each other, they could see each other's shining points in the silver file, then two people can hold hands with each other, but after stepping into the society, their thoughts have not been completely finalized, then the whole person's concept of love will be re-established, in the process of establishing and shading, there will be some realistic factors, such as cars, houses, family background, etc.

Although these factors make people feel very annoying, they are also problems that have to be considered, and many people often look at the conditions of the family when they go on a blind date, and then look at their own conditions, and then decide whether to have a relationshipThis is also the main reason why many people fail on blind dates. Love becomes more and more material and more realistic, then the whole person will also change a lot, before everyone believes that love is innocent and beautiful, but after a period of time and experience, it will often be affected by the reality of the situation.

If there is no bread in love, then your marriage may become a mess in the end, so it is not everyone who is changing, but the whole society allows everyone to change everyone's worldview together, and change with the times.

Yes, the great filial piety, because after going out of the society, the love of Zen rent is two people who weigh the pros and cons, and whether anything will happen after being together has been repeatedly analyzed and scrutinized, and will decide whether to be with you, and whether you are suitable for the other party He Fangzhao.

This is not necessarily, but there are very few such loves after leaving society. Because people are becoming more and more mature.

01 All inexplicable beginnings will end inexplicably.

There are many tragedies on college campuses because of the failure of love, and such immature love psychology affects the surrounding students. For a little thing, quarrel and contradict. Please correct the love attitude of the double Zen calling party.

When two people are together, it's like building the Great Wall, it's not that simple. In addition to love, there are many important things in our lives that we need to discover.

02. Don't be around people who are not motivated and can only talk empty words.

Getting along with each other is the process of getting to know each other. Promote each other, encourage each other, love should be the spice of learning, and love in college is more sincere and simple. In this material age, college love is also more romantic.

When the love after work is much less simple, more material and conditional. Correct the relationship between love and career, and academics are the main pillars of college students' sense of value. If you spend too much time in love, it is a manifestation of irresponsibility, not only irresponsible to your parents, but also irresponsible to yourself.

03 Everything is unknown, cherish it if you can be together.

Love is an intimate relationship between people, and this relationship soon exposes the shortcomings of both parties. It is difficult to make changes for the other person in a relationship and learn to be tolerant. It is said that love makes people more confident, and love can also make both parties know how to be tolerant and considerate.

Meeting the right person at the right time can last a long time, and these two points are too difficult.

Love is an inevitable problem we have to face since we enter college life, a good love can make both parties progress together, make their golden years more meaningful, a healthy love during college is also what many of us are pursuing, so how to talk about a correct and healthy love, I summarized the following points.

1.Love needs to go both ways, whether it is a boy or a girl, in a relationship is to pay, a long-term only one party to pay and the other party's indifference will lead to the relationship imbalance and status in this relationship, that is, the so-called one party has been pleasing the other party for a long time, which is not right, a person in love, the lover and the love are needed.

2.has a good mood, in fact, in the love during Hengdong Jue's college, the most value that can be reflected is the emotional value, and the positive impact that a good emotion can provide can make this relationship more stable and reliable. And having a good and stable mood can not only make you have a cold and calm mind when you encounter things, but also make the emotions of the people around you be soothed.

3.Pay attention to communication, communication is a bridge that connects people's hearts, and the basis for solving any problems that arise between couples is to communicate well, express your thoughts sincerely, and I believe that the person you love will also understand you.

4.Financially, do what you can, because they are all college students, basically the economy is the living expenses given by the family, so they must be relatively weak in terms of economic ability, so it is not recommended to compare the material consumption of campus love, pay attention to what you can.

1.True love is a two-way street.

Details are two-way, love is mutual, and efforts are also to get closer to each other.

Shu Ting wrote in "To the Oak Tree": "We share the cold waves, wind and thunder, and thunderbolts; We share the mist, the stream, the haper. ”

The meaning of two people being together is to encourage and support each other, nourish and grow each other, not to make you lose the belief in loving life. Mutual accommodation is the longest, and two-way travel is meaningful! May we all find our most beautiful appearance in a two-way relationship.

2.If you don't encounter a TA, please enrich yourself first.

Falling in love is not because you want to talk, but because that person happens to be ta.

Love in college is an elective course, not a compulsory course, don't be impulsive because of occasional loneliness, and don't be shaken by the happiness of others, happiness is not defined by other people's lives, and there is no absolute standard when to fall in love.

The pattern is relaxed, there are many things worth learning in college, when you don't meet love, remember to enrich yourself to meet a better self, don't rush to find.

But when love really comes, give all your courage and say out loud "I like you!" ”

3.When you encounter the right ta, stay sane.

The end of love is two better people.

Love is not the whole of life, don't give up your life because of love, and don't expect yourself to be the whole of your life, a good love is to love her while still loving yourself.

As Shu Ting wrote in "To the Oak Tree": "I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of a tree." The roots, clinging to the ground, the leaves, touching each other in the clouds".

Falling in love is about two people growing up together and getting better together, rather than using the internal friction of "do you love me in every way" all day long.

In college, in addition to love, you should also have studies, student union work, club activities, physical exercise, social practice, and volunteer service.

Don't let love affect your academic performance and overall performance.