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I think there are two things that can make you completely and completely confident. One is outside, the other is self-controlled; One is hard to find, and the other can be obtained with your efforts.
First, self-confidence at the emotional level. This comes from being unconditionally loved when you grow up, and no matter what you do, you know that your parents' love will always be there, which will make you very stable and confident on an emotional level. Unfortunately, very few children can have such a perfect family environment, so this is unavoidable, and the most we can do is treat our children in this way.
Second, and most importantly, self-confidence at the level of reason. This comes from a thorough understanding of life, a thorough understanding of the ultimate truth, which is completely graspable for yourself. Of course, this requires you to keep learning.
I suggest that when you are young, you must learn more philosophy to understand the truth of the world.
When you are a little older, please be sure to start learning about life, about life and death. At this time, you may really understand the answers to the ultimate questions such as where you come from, where you will go, where you can go, the meaning of your life, and so on.
I myself seem to have found the answers to these questions in my constant research after a car accident. In my opinion, the most important meaning of life is to realize that we keep coming back to this world in an attempt to achieve a state of unconditional love.
When you can get to this point, you have already surpassed the first point, and you no longer need to be confident because you are loved, but giving love and being love will make you confident all the time.
At this point, your self-confidence will melt into your bone marrow, and you will give birth to this unconditional love from the depths of your heart, for all living beings. You no longer need external forces, you no longer need the approval of others. No matter who he faces, no matter what nationality he comes from, what beliefs he has, how high his knowledge is, and how high he is.
position, how much wealth you have, you can take it easy.
Even no matter what tribulations you encounter in your life, even if you are sitting on a falling airliner, you can calmly meet the last moments of your life.
There is no doubt that this is really achievable, at least I have seen a lot of high-ranking people already here, and I am working on it. Happy Mid-Autumn Festival to you!
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Every day I get up and look in the mirror and say, "You're the best!" Then give yourself a smile.
It's a simple method, but it has to be consistent to be effective!
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When you don't have the confidence to do something, think it's for someone else, hehe.
Try it next time!
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Say to yourself in the mirror: I believe I can do it.
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