Friends, let s talk about the husband and wife have no feelings, divorce or not?

Divorce is reluctant to daughter, their family does not agree to divorce, and now the two places are separated and do not meet, do not contact, so be it,

If you don't get divorced, as long as there is no domestic violence, it is family affection, and you will stay with you for a lifetime.

Don't be tempted, I know it's you, how good you have ever been to me. Whether it's attitude or tone, or material.

I am very disgusted with those who recommend divorce at every turn, except for a very few cases that require divorce, the vast majority of spouses are one of the spouses who likes the new and hates the old, and does not share joys and sorrows and file for divorce, you know especially for couples of a certain age, such as divorce will affect the future life of the other party and their children! Accumulate some virtue, don't suggest divorce at every turn!

I choose to divorce and have a long life to live, so why torture each other? Look at each other and smile, walk chic, this is the best choice.

Let's leave, let's leave, he and San have children, so I don't know if I can live well in the future.

I have been married to my husband for 14 years, and I have been noisy for 14 years, because of the contradictions in my life and he did not give me enough security, I secretly sued him for divorce twice, and then once he agreed to divorce, I withdrew the lawsuit under the persuasion of his family, and we made do with it after withdrawing the lawsuit, but he has always had a trace in his heart to remember that I sued him twice, and at the end of last year, we had friction and then a cold war, during which he admitted his mistake twice and I did not forgive him, because I was too angry, and as a result, after I got angry, I found that he went to secretly find a lawyer to sue for divorce, although I have not received the court complaint yet, but I know that his determination is already iron, I don't want to divorce, but it is difficult for a man to turn back if he is iron-hearted.

I chose to get a divorce. Because I couldn't stand her looking at me, but there was no sadness or joy in her eyes, as if I was like a clown jumping off the beam in whatever I did, it was really boring.

I often hear people around me say: "I've been in love for 5 years, isn't it all in vain to break up now?" "We're both married and have children, what else can we do?

I can only make do with it. "That movie was particularly ugly, but the movie ticket cost me 50 oceans, and it would be a waste if I didn't watch it!" "Is that right?

The answer must be no! But why? Let's take a look at a very common concept in economics:

Sunk costs. Sunk cost and opportunity cost are probably the two concepts that are most common in popular science.

So what to do? If you can't do it, don't do it, either divorce, or improve your marriage, you know, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, of course, improving the marriage relationship is not an overnight thing, if you don't have feelings, you should simply divorce it, let each other go, but you think about whether you have the capital to divorce, if not, do it and cherish it!

Marriage is not the same as love, marriage needs to be pragmatic and responsible. It's not that you don't need responsibility and don't have to be pragmatic when you're in love, but it's an indisputable fact that marriage can't compare to romance when you're in love. If there are no substantive issues, divorce must be cautious.

In daily life, husband and wife should also continue to enhance their relationship, such as cultivating common hobbies, traveling together, communicating with each other, etc., which can promote the relationship between husband and wife.

The reason why many people do not choose to divorce is not because of their children, but because they are not independent, because they are not angry, because they are cowardly, they can't be brave enough to choose divorce, and they don't dare to face up to their cowardice, so children have become reasons and excuses to cover up their cowardice, divorce is not irresponsible, some marriages that have died in name but are unwilling to divorce, is the most vicious and irresponsible!

What I want to say is that marriage is not child's play. When both husband and wife form a family, they are responsible for the family and for the marriage. Husbands and wives have lived together for a long time, and their feelings for each other will become more and more flat, and sometimes it does make people feel that they have no feelings for each other, but who has not had such an experience in every couple in the world?

Many couples want to divorce but don't divorce, they all say that for the sake of the children to maintain this family, the relationship between the husband and wife is also broken, saying that because the children do not divorce, saying that in order to give the children a complete home, this is a cowardly and courageless excuse for themselves, and it is a moral kidnapping!

Everyone knows that marriage is not child's play, divorce is not child's play, marriage is a kind of responsibility, we must know how to take responsibility, we must know how to cherish, do not impulsively divorce because the relationship is gone. But on the one hand, I think that before considering divorce, we should calm down and think carefully, and don't bring harm to everyone because of impulsive divorce. On the other hand, divorce is really unbearable, maybe divorce is a relief for both parties.

1. Should a husband and wife divorce if they have no feelings?

1. Whether the husband and wife should divorce if the relationship breaks down is up to the parties to decide independently. Because the law clearly stipulates that the precondition for a judgment to be divorced is whether the relationship has broken down, of course, if the parties do not file a lawsuit for divorce with the people's court or apply for divorce by agreement under the circumstances of the relationship breakdown, then there will be no such situation of divorce.

2. Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) Bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

2. Will the bride price be refunded after the divorce?

Whether the bride price can be refunded after a divorce is determined on the basis of whether the conditions for returning the bride price are met, and the bride price is a dowry or gift money given to the woman by the man in accordance with custom, and is conditional on the marriage of both parties. Conversely, if the parties have already gone through the marriage registration formalities and have lived together, the people's court will not support the husband's request for the return of the bride price at the time of divorce. Therefore, Guan Feng was troubled by the issue of the bride price, either if the husband requested the return of the bride price at the time of divorce and met the conditions for support stipulated in the above-mentioned judicial interpretation, the woman would return it, or because the conditions for support should be met in the prescribed judicial interpretation, the woman would not return it.

In the latter case, what the woman buys with the bride price money is the woman's personal pre-marital property and should belong to the woman at the time of divorce.

Legal Analysis: Divorce by mutual agreement is possible. Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration authority in person.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' intention to divorce voluntarily and their opinions on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Of course, there will definitely be such couples, but they do not have feelings after the divorce, but they have no feelings before the divorce. However, there are still some couples whose divorce is a last resort, although they are divorced in the situation, but the relationship between them is still there, and they are silently paying attention to each other, looking forward to a day of reunion.

If the two parties do not have children, there will basically be no more relations in the future. Unless neither side has let go of the other, and then gets back together. But if you have children, it is absolutely impossible to have anything to do with them, after all, the raising of children and going to school need to be borne by both parties.

If there is really no affection between husband and wife, it is best to choose divorce. After all, marriage is free, and divorce is also free. When it comes to divorce, you can choose between a divorce by agreement and a divorce by litigation.

Divorce by agreement requires both husband and wife to reach an agreement on whether to divorce, child support, division of joint property and other issues, and both parties can apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration department where the household registration is located, and then carry out a 30-day cooling-off period. If there is no agreement on the custody of the child and the division of property, then it is necessary to take the form of divorce by litigation, and one party must go to the court to sue for divorce and submit evidence that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, and the court will first conduct pre-trial mediation, if the mediation fails, or if it is determined that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a judgment will be made to grant the divorce.

Article 1076 of the Civil Code: If the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' intention to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.