What are the reasons for children to become more and more precocious?

Children watching some programs in electronic products, the Internet, and television sets can cause children to be precocious. When my daughter was in the first grade, she suddenly asked me a question, why did the boys in their class like her? I said:

Why do you ask? She said that this is how it is played on TV, and I realized that during that time she was watching emotional dramas such as the TV series "Flower Thousand Bone", which entered the child's mind, which would inevitably have an impact on the child's growth and easily lead to the child's precocious maturity. When I realized this problem, I immediately blocked TV shows like Kid**. ‍‍

Now some children's electronic products are often recommended on TV, and these products make children use them at a younger and younger age, because electronic products are very novel for children, and the content is very rich, the picture is exquisite, the child is very intuitive when he is young, I feel that this is very beautiful, the color is very rich, I will like it or even indulge it. And some parents are also very dependent on these electronic products, such as children sometimes pester their parents, let parents play with them, some parents will be impatient, will let their children play with these electronic products, in order to reduce the number of times children pester, so that children become quiet, less crying, noisy. And the words in electronic products, the things expressed in them, children will quickly imitate, all the time you will feel how children understand so much.

Food, the previous pregnant women felt like a queen, they could eat whatever they wanted, drink whatever they wanted, no one would care, but pregnant women who really wanted a healthy baby would not do this to themselves, take myself as an example, during my pregnancy, including the first few months of pregnancy, I avoided carbonated drinks, puffed food, fried food, fried food, all sweets have nothing to do with me, I can't eat cold food, and for my body, I can't overeat, Who said pregnant women are queens? Under such masochistic "care", can the baby born be smart? And today's parents of children no longer know nothing as before, they will buy what their children want to eat, and they will choose something that is beneficial to their children, such as junk food, and they will buy it, but the frequency will not be too high.

In the social environment, I don't think it's bad to be precocious, and reasonable guidance can make children know how to prevent it.

Psychological precociousness, because now is the electronic information society, through the mobile phone Internet, can be seen in advance of things that should not appear in front of the child's eyes, resulting in children's psychological cognitive changes, if parents do not find and communicate in time, it is easy to go astray, and this so-called precocious is only pseudo-maturity, but also the foundation of building a person's soul, the so-called world view, values, the cornerstone of the outlook on life! At this stage, children are not able to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and will only blindly receive information to construct their own concepts. Because I know more, it seems to be very mature, but it is not.

The living environment can also create a child's precociousness, because there is no playmate at home, there is no love, and the child is only accompanied by inner loneliness, and can only release himself through some ways, and the Internet is just a good platform. ‍‍

There is still a certain reason for nutritional products, but any expectant mother with a little economic foundation will eat nutritional products when she is pregnant, whether it is recommended by the doctor or told by the people around her, what calcium tablets, milk powder, walnut oil, DHA, trace elements, these will make the child become smart after birth. After birth, children will also eat health supplements such as cod liver oil to promote absorption. This was not very common in our childhood.

Prenatal education, now expectant mothers are more and more educated, and more and more know how to raise a child, so children should start from prenatal education, according to the survey, babies who have received prenatal education can recognize the first thing when they are 4 and a half months old, and can recognize hands, mouths, fruits, bottles, etc. at 6 or 7 months. Such babies can understand the meaning of "no" earlier, and children who learn to obey "no" early are more sensible and obedient. He will also learn to use gestures to express language earlier, and can do actions such as "welcome", "goodbye", "thank you", etc., and can also understand other people's expressions earlier, so he is particularly smart and cute.

The advantages of prenatal education for children's ideological guidance are also reflected in the later stage of children.

Since there is a lot of information out there now, children start coming into contact with things that they shouldn't be exposed. This has led to an increasing number of children becoming premature. Early maturation can be divided into precocious maturation and physiological premature maturation. So, is this a good thing for children?

1.The personality of the good and bad child is mature, there are existing strengths and weaknesses. Advantages, compared to the same period, they tend to be more sensible and better understood, and parents tend to work less these children.

At the same time, children can also be more aware of their parents' hard work and try to avoid adding trouble to their parents. The disadvantage is also just a sense of opinion because it is too clear and children tend to cause a lot of trouble in their minds and the pressure is more than their peers. To a certain extent, they may have too many worrying age stuff that causes them to lose their children.

2.How should parents guide their children properly? When parents discover their child's personality, they must communicate with their child in a timely manner.

First of all, let your child have a correct psychology, tell him that it is not a bad thing, and do not put too much pressure on yourself. No matter what happens, mom and dad will be there for the kids and make the kids feel your worries and love. At the same time, let them know what to do, and more importantly, what not to do, not to do some things that should not be done.

The prematurity of a child is actually incredible. As long as parents can guide the right guidance, they will not affect the healthy growth of their children.

The child prematurely, I think it's beneficial. The disadvantages I can think of are more than: it is now the information society where children can learn, grow, mature in countless ways.

Of course, in addition to excessive exposure, it is also influenced by the site environment, social environment, and peers. In the process of precocious maturity, transcendence, is very detrimental to the child's own growth. Manifested in:

I want to solve the problem and not my parents: when a parent has a problem, he will use various ways to ease the conflict between the two parties, or as a parent and thing. I want to make up for my parents' shortcomings :

Faced with his parents' upbringing, he hopes to fulfill his parents' expectations by sacrificing or suppressing their dreams. I would like to share the pain of my parents: he will unconsciously "imitate" the pain of his parents, "copy" in his own body, and "copy" his parents, including physical pain, or tragic fate in life, thinking that it can reduce the pain of his parents.

Therefore, there are many fates to generate many families.

I think the biggest danger to them is to make children lose their innocence prematurely. Children in childhood are the happiest because they have a narrow cognitive spectrum. But the more precocious it is, the more unhappy the children become.

It may be that the child's mind will become more complicated, the psychological burden will become heavier, and some words of the parents may be inappropriate, which may make the child depressed.

The reason for precocious maturity has a certain relationship with food, and it also has a lot to do with social development. Because today's children are exposed to more people and things, and they are exposed to a wider range of electronic products, they naturally know more.

Now more and more children are beginning to pubert. There are actually many reasons for precociousness, there are external reasons and the external reasons of that person are because the current social atmosphere is very bad, and the internal reasons may be caused by the family environment.

Family living conditions have now become better, nutrition has improved, diseases have decreased, and child growth and development have accelerated, leading to an increase in sexual development and sexual maturity.

Causes of precocious puberty:

1. Blind tonic. Many parents often give their children health products that increase appetite or nootropic brain health. These supplements usually contain hormones that can lead to an increase in hormone levels in your child's blood, which can lead to precocious puberty in children.

2. Contraceptives and cosmetics. Parents should take good care of contraceptives to prevent their children from ingesting them, as contraceptives and cosmetics contain hormones.

3. Hormone-containing foods. Many vegetables and poultry contain a large amount of hormones, and sex hormones can indirectly enter the human body and cause precocious puberty in children.

4. Nutrition improvement. As a result of social progress, family living conditions have become better, nutrition has improved, diseases have decreased, and the growth and development of children has accelerated, resulting in an increase in sexual development and maturity.

5. Environmental pollution. Nowadays, the industrial pollution of the society is increasing, and the food also contains a large amount of pesticide pollution or hormone pollution, and these pollution residues will induce precocious puberty after being eaten directly through **.

6. Sexual information. Today's society is an information society with highly developed media. Children can not only get a lot of sexually suggestive images from TV, but also can be exposed to sexual information from newspapers and the Internet.