Is it a good thing or a bad thing for a child to be precocious and like a little adult?

I think it's a good thing because they are more easily integrated into society. "Precocious children are more sensible, they understand the hardships of adults, and they appreciate the opportunity to learn more. "The world is very realistic, too naïve, and easy to be deceived.

Children who are "precocious" are beneficial to their future entry into society, and "such children are more likely to integrate into society". ‍

I think it's a good thing, often such children will be independent and not dependent on the family. That's how my uncle's children are, so I think it's a good thing. ‍‍

It depends on what the child is precocious in. In fact, precociousness also has a good effect. Children who are psychologically precocious think more, are more mature in dealing with others, and can suffer less losses on the road of life.

But in the same way, precocious children will lose more childlike fun. There are gains and losses, everything has two sides, and Seon knows whether he is blessed if he loses his horse. This requires more guidance from parents, precocious children need more attention from parents, do not think that children are precocious and stocked, although children are precocious, but after all, they are still growing, and many aspects need parental guidance to enter the formal. ‍‍

I don't think it's good, becoming a "little adult" will cause the child to lose too much, "The child should be like a child." "Having a "little adult" in the family will make the child lose his childlike interest, and we parents will also lose the fun. "Every parent wants their child to be stable and sensible, but if it is at the expense of the childlike innocence of the child, it is more than worth the loss.

Children should be childlike, laugh and laugh, cry and cry, children should be innocent, even stupid. ”‍

If it is only mature in behavior, it will definitely not be good, after all, it is better for the child to be innocent and splendid; If it is psychologically mature, then parents should consider whether it is an educational problem or a certain amount of pressure on the child. It is not conclusive to criticize, but to be treated on a case-by-case basis. ‍‍

Personally, I don't think it's a good thing. Because in a sense, children lose their innocence, which may be detrimental to their future lives. ‍‍

Everything has a law, and premature maturity will inevitably lead to premature aging. However, due to various social and family factors, children are generally precocious. If this becomes a common phenomenon in society, we can only face it, receive a good education, and guide the children correctly, as long as they enter the right path and have good thinking, there is nothing to be precocious, so there is no need to panic. ‍‍

I think it's okay, because precociousness can make children more adaptable to society and avoid some harm; Being naïve allows children to maintain their childlike innocence and grow up happily. It's good and bad, it's hard to measure. ‍‍

Today's children are all human spirits. Influenced by his parents, influenced by TV series, and even influenced by some games, he is much more precocious than his previous parents. For children with precocious puberty, I advise parents: go with the flow! Both precociousness and naivety have their own benefits. ‍‍

It's a good thing that you don't know everything so that you won't be taken advantage of.

A child's premature understanding of things often has his own unique point of view, and his point of view may be a little different from that of the parents, but as parents, they cannot kill their children's independent views. There should be a lot of communication to make him realize for himself whether his point of view is right or wrong, after all, the point of view of parents is sometimes untrue. I think the child is maturing, and if the education is directed, it's a good thing for the child, which allows him to enter the social environment more quickly.

If you let go, the child will follow his thinking, so it is easy to walk, which is a bad thing.

I don't think I can't talk about bad things. I have to look at the level of prematurity, and if all children at this age are almost mature, then if your early maturity is beyond your peers, people feel coordinated. This is actually the reason of the times.

For example, in this day and age, you say a couple of yellow parts, and everybody doesn't think there's something because a lot of people say, but if they go back to many years and everybody is very positive and you always say the yellow part, you're different from others, then that's not great. People, always obey the times, follow the majority of this era, there is nothing wrong with it, if you are too advanced, if you are too old, you can't.

Saying that the current child is very early, the small era seems to understand, not the time, the current child thief, some live to be 80 years old, but not the last dressing. Now that science is developed, the Internet, television, children touch too many adults, the age of dental language, imitation I don't remember how many times. This is also the reason why children mature.

Now living conditions, children drinking alcohol is the best, nutritious, perhaps with a higher IQ than children, coupled with the ease of living in the convenience of a new era, has created the premature birth of children. You're shaking, a lot of smart and cute kids on the short film, it's a ghost and a horse, and sometimes even adults can't even think of it. Fang dance was originally a hobby of a big mother.

You watch some children follow their grandmothers, like decent models, even better than your grandmothers, and sometimes I have to appreciate the children's ability to imitate. Nowadays, it is very early, and it has a lot to do with the development of the times. But I don't know if you found it, the child seems to know, why did you grow up with so many mommy treasure men and can't drive your mother?

Nowadays, children are getting more and more precocious, I think this may be a bad thing, so precocious children, maybe he knows more things, but his childhood memories will be less, but there will be a lot of fun.

I think it's a bad thing, because it's dangerous for children to understand things too early.

Sensible children can also be happy, but children who are too sensible may not be happy.

Because for children, his thoughts in all aspects are immature, children's nature is noisy, playful, excluding a few quiet and envious children, but their hearts are still simple and admiring nature, a better life.

If there are some children in it, he is particularly sensible, especially able to know the faces of adults, look at the eyes of adults to do things, know when to do something, when not to do something, so that he is more well-behaved and sensible than Mengzhiling, but in fact, it is not good for the children themselves.

Because what kind of things should be done at what stage, at the child's stage, it should be mainly about learning and playing, and should not let yourself always become so mature, because then you have lost your child's nature.

Every child is playful, noisy, and fun-loving by nature, and if there is a child who seems particularly mature, then something must have happened to him, or the education he is currently receiving that makes him have to pretend to be an adult. However, I would like to say that when a person is young, there are only a few years, and that time will be very unforgettable, and when a person grows up, it is inevitable to undertake too much.

If a child can grow up normally, then at least his psychology will be normal when he grows up, but if a child receives a special environment and a special education from a very young age, then how can you guarantee that his mentality will not be distorted by some things that he encounters?

For example, some children are particularly afraid of the dark when they are young for some reason, even if they grow up, this shadow in their hearts still exists; Or some children are very lonely when they are young, so they will still have palpitations when they grow ......up

To sum up, when a child is just a child, if he is too sensible, it is not good. And life is like doing things, everything is staged, and everything has antecedents and consequences.

Therefore, a sensible child may not necessarily be able to obtain happiness, on the contrary, an ignorant child can sometimes obtain more happiness. Therefore, we can't always help children grow, but follow the law of natural growth.

Every child comes to the world as a unique angel, and time has carved a unique one on each person's body, and every unique one of them has contributed to each other, which together has made our unique and wonderful world.

Hello friend. The act of learning ahead of time in a way sacrifices the happy time that children deserve.

Children are always running away from the sedan chair, so they forget to observe and experience the scenery around them. They just keep moving forward, unable to take care of the rest of their lives. So one day, when they get tired of running, they stop and find that life is not what they see, and everything related to their age seems out of reach.

Therefore, parents sacrifice the happy time that their children should have at this age, which is very detrimental to their children's growth. Let the child live and experience the life now.

As a result, the child is always impatient and desperate to move forward.

The result of parents' advanced education is that children always want to be ahead of others and surpass others, so that they will be eager for quick success. They are always learning ahead of their time and don't want to be on par with others. However, when one's ability is not necessarily achieved, it will be irritable or continue to rush forward.

Therefore, when you can't keep up with your own pace, you will be anxious, which is very detrimental to your child's physical and mental development.

In advanced education, parents pay too much attention to learning, but ignore the cultivation of character.

Paying too much attention to learning, ignoring the quality of children, and having a learning machine without any emotion and empathy is the result that many parents do not want to see. It is indifference and selfishness, because many parents neglect the education of their children's character, which leads to their children's indifference. Therefore, when learning, we should also educate children about their own qualities, especially some good qualities and habits at this age, rather than blindly pursuing the so-called learning effect, academic performance, and moral cultivation.

Advanced education may exceed the ability of others in the short term, but in the long run, it is very detrimental to children's development. Parents should rationally let their children enjoy the present life, cherish the present, experience the present, and live in the present!

As we all know, a good or cracked habit can be used for life, and when children are young, it is the best time to develop the habit. Children at this time don't have a lot of bad habits, but they are all a blank slate. As long as parents cultivate their children's learning habits and let children form their own methods and habits, this is a foundation for future learning, especially in reading.

It is especially important to cultivate the habit of reading from an early age.

Circumstances dictate. If you compare today's children with your childhood, what do you think is the difference that makes today's children learn things so quickly?

Now children have more exposure to things when they are young, are open-minded, and have more toys given by their parents, so they can open their minds in games and be smarter than before.

It depends on the child's talent, if the talent is good enough, then it is smarter than the adult, but the acquired learning is also very important.

Children regardless of whether they are smart or not, they should develop a good habit from an early age, some parents think that their children are very smart, so they usually neglect to discipline, so that children often behave nonsense, that is definitely not good, children should be cultivated from an early age Some specialties, if children are interested in something, then let children learn, but also to educate children how to get along with others, cultivate children's sex from an early age, don't always spoil children too much, that is not conducive to children's growth, to respect elders, love the young, If the child does it right, parents can praise it appropriately, and if they do it wrong, parents should also correct it in time, so that the child knows that it is wrong and corrects it.

Honestly? habitual. Children who are used to coming out have several characteristics: First, they are not afraid of the sky and the earth.

Second, I always feel that people revolve around me. Third, no one can do without me. And many more.

In short, such children are used to it. Because the doting of parents makes the child's character improve not the place.

Today's children are smart, probably because they are now well nourished. The ability to acquire knowledge is much faster. It shows that the current standard of living has greatly improved compared with before.

The living conditions are good, and the children are exposed to a lot of things, so most of the children are relatively smart, and it is very normal for my baby to be able to distinguish between boys and girls when he is one and a half years old, and he will memorize more than a dozen children's rhymes and Tang poems. It mainly depends on how to cultivate in the future, and it will be counterproductive to restrain him too early, and it is important to give children space to grow freely.

Children have quick thinking, clear minds, and rich associations, while adults have degenerative brains as they grow older, a little Alzheimer's, rigid thinking, stubbornness, and inflexibility. It can't be like a computer, after a long time, all kinds of hardware are aging, and it is not as fast as a new computer. Hope.

The education of parents is important. The second is that modern society has catalyzed this phenomenon.

It was to let go of the three-year-old child kissing him in the second season of my North Nose, jokingly saying that this was the "first kiss on the screen".

There are many reasons why today's children are smart, it may be that today's children are really smarter than the children of the past, or it may be caused by the degree of attention that adults pay to children now. The environment in which children lived in the past was different from what they are now, perhaps because children in the past did not receive the attention of adults for everything as they do now. Then there is now that children begin to receive prenatal education when they are not born, and the nutrition of adults is also very concerned.