A friend who I haven t been in touch with for a few years asks me to borrow 300 yuan, what should I

Let's score this first of all.

If you have a good relationship with him, but it seems unlikely, after all, I haven't been in touch for a few years. But if the relationship was good before, and the three hundred dollars are not so important to you now, then you can lend him it. It doesn't matter if you don't pay it back, if you have a good character, you won't want to pay it back to you, maybe you can still make a good relationship because of this, if you don't have a good character, you may not pay it back, then we will end a relationship, and we won't come back in the future.

But if you didn't have a good relationship with him before, and you haven't been in touch for a few years, then there is no need to lend him it. I only think of your words when I use money, I can't say that I am a real friend, right? Of course, it's not absolute, but I think that this situation must just be out and there, although three hundred yuan is not a big amount now, but why bother?

With those 300 dollars, you can actually do a lot of things, right? It's also good to buy some fruit and vegetables for the family.

So it's actually still with you, and you can borrow it if you think you can, but I think since you asked the question, it means that you don't firmly think that you can borrow it, and you can't lend it to him. Of course, what to do in the end is still up to you.

Good luck with a smooth solution and a happy life!

First of all, if the relationship is not good and there is no contact, don't contact it, and be decisive if you refuse, or you will ask him to borrow some backhand.

If it's your friend, you'll have to find a way to help.

Personally, I think that if a friend who has not been in touch for several years suddenly asks you to borrow 200 yuan, it is still up to you whether to decide whether to lend him the money in this case.

If the relationship between you and this friend itself is very ordinary, the two people don't have much intersection at all, and at this stage, your economic conditions are not very good, and the 200 yuan is not a small number for you, then in this case, I personally think that there is no need to lend him, you can find a reason or find an excuse to refuse him, after all, for such a friend, when he has difficulties, he will think of you, and he usually has no contact at all, It can be said that he doesn't regard you as a friend at all for the most part, and if such a friend himself belongs to the kind of person whose reputation is not very good, the kind that borrows money and does not pay it back, it should not be borrowed.

But if you have a good relationship with this friend in the past, and your economic conditions are relatively okay, and this friend has indeed encountered certain difficulties, the reason to borrow money from you is indeed more sufficient, and you are the kind of person who cares more about face, then it is not impossible to lend him the 200 yuan, even if once he can't pay back your money, the 200 yuan should have little impact on your actual life.

But generally speaking, I think it's best not to borrow money casually between friends, unless you really encounter a particularly difficult situation, and once you want to borrow money from a friend, you must make it clear when you will repay the money, and you must abide by your own credit and fulfill your promises, which is the basic principle of life.

Of course, 200 is still borrowed