Do you have a similar experience before you get married?

As a man in the family, he never makes decisions on such a small matter, what his wife says is what, and the big thing is the business of the masters, they can only worry about this matter, and when the big thing comes, they naturally have to find the backbone.

What do parents look forward to most? Isn't it the happiness of children?

Don't you just want to be happy when you get married?

Black and white for decoration is nothing. But wouldn't it be better to use other traditional festive colors when getting married? You don't want to let your wedding be a little discordant.

Maybe her parents are a little more demanding financially, but this harshness is not for their own benefit, but for their daughter, your wife. It's your family.

The days are the two of you are living, the old man will inevitably not pay attention to what he says, the horse has stumbled, no one can always follow the hearts of others, as a man in the family, tolerant, more empathy.

Start by showing sympathy. But if you still want to live with her, then you can try to choose to listen to her and change the wallpaper. However, I have to tell her family in advance, this time for the sake of marriage, you think it's not good, I can listen to you, but if there is anything in the future, don't change it after everyone discusses something.

If their family agrees, then there is no choice but to change. If you don't get married, you won't feel very comfortable.

It's too long, it's so grinding.

As a man, is a wallpaper worth it for you to take seriously, friend.

Isn't it just a wallpaper, there's no need, listen to her again, will the sky still fall?

How many things a married woman wants, every place has its own customs, some places want less, and there are fewer rules, but some places are the opposite.

In addition, you are talking about it yourself, so you have to talk about everything by yourself, if you know each other on a blind date, this kind of thing matchmaker will intervene in it, that is, the two sides of the bargain, but if you talk about it yourself, there must be no matchmaker, if you have common relatives and friends, you can also let others reconcile, the advantage of others reconciliation is that no matter how you talk about it, it will not hurt the relationship between the two of you, and he speaks on reason, you must stand on the love when you speak.

There is also the ideological problem of the woman's parents, some people are more open-minded, as long as the daughter is happy, the in-laws are happy, then whatever happens. Some are more rigid, what is it like for other people's families to get married, and our family has to be like that, and even some are vain, thinking that their families have to be better than other people's families when they get married, and they have to overshadow other people's families. There are many things, everything has to be better than other people's homes, and the bride price is also hard to ask, just like buying a daughter.

You can go and inquire about what other people in their family are getting married, what they want, how much bride price, what kind of cigarettes, what kind of alcohol, if you feel that they really want it is unreasonable, then you can talk about it. These things can only be coordinated between the two of you and compromise with each other, after all, it is a matter of a man marrying a woman, and the two families still have to be in harmony.

The house you bought before marriage is your pre-marital property and has nothing to do with the woman. So if the woman wants a bride price, give it. You've prepared so much, don't delay the big thing for the last little money. Your love is more important.

Even if the house is written in the names of two people, as long as you love each other and can afford it financially, give it to it. Hardware to be honest, I don't know what it is, if it's jewelry for women, in fact, it's not the two of you after marriage, and finally it's passed on to your children, and it's finally your own family. If you are in financial difficulties right now, tell the girl about it.

It's not worth it to go into debt for pre-marital vanity or immediate gain. In the future, it will also be your joint debt after marriage. Don't you have to pay it back?

You can't let your parents bear the burden anymore. As for the work of the woman's parents, the woman must be allowed to go back to do it. Once the girl has done it, you go to the door again to thank you for your understanding, and at the same time apologize for not meeting all the requirements, so that the relationship will be better for the future.

The above comments are for your reference.

Not everywhere and not everywhere ... The main thing is to look at the people ...

What else can you do Think of this as the price of upgrading from boyfriend to husband It's all in the pit anyway, and it's only hard to fill it.

If there are no accidents in this - it's only once in a lifetime, so it's good to borrow, make up, swipe the card... or something; When it's done, isn't there still a gift money to be returned?!

Look at the woman, there is generally a bride price, but in the end, the woman's parents will still give the woman, and in the end it is yours, hardware? It's not too expensive now, and it's not bad to buy everything else, after all, people are also married to daughters, and everyone wants to be beautiful, right? In fact, there is nothing to worry about, happy things when you get married, there will be various places to pay attention to, aren't you together for so many years just for this day?

Why bother about this?

It's like this, we don't marry if we don't have less than 100,000 gift money, can it be so bad? Think about it another way, the girl who has been raised for many years is married to you like this, and you don't pay for it?