Help your boyfriend out

Let's calm down with each other for a while. Let him think about it for himself, and you should also think about how to choose the road ...... the futureI don't know him, so I don't know what is going on in his heart. Is he afraid of marriage?

Or is it something else? What is the reason for your quarrel? You didn't say it, so I don't know how!

Marriage is not just about love. There is also understanding, tolerance, mutual support, and mutual honesty ......You can have a good talk with him and find out what is on his mind! I'll tell you what you're thinking.

I also have a boyfriend who has been dating for many years, but because I didn't talk about getting married, I just let it ......I am still young, think carefully before making a decision. Marriage is a major event in life, don't rush it, and don't be rash and ......I hope you are happy!

What if he doesn't come? What if that's what he is?

What are you going to do? Still thinking that people will turn back? Pull it to you.

No, friend, it's just that he hid it very well before, and he may be more calculating in his nature, but you don't realize it, you don't want to change him, you can't change it at all. I suggest that you don't talk about marriage for now, and then continue to be in love for a year and a half, if it keeps going like this, you can think again. Of course, it doesn't necessarily matter how good your temper is, you just marry any man, he can't always follow your temperament, they are not dolls, marriage is an internal contradiction, hehe, good luck.

Okay, if he doesn't look for you, you have a reason to give up on him, just separate and think about it, and see if each other is really a good fit.

First of all, let's analyze the current situation, according to your information, you have been together for a relatively long time, relatively speaking, there were not too many fatal problems before, youThe boyfriend's chat with the girl is a sexual need, not an emotion, and it is not a normal relationship

Then two things happened, the first thing was that when you asked him to delete the girl's WeChat, he refused, which means that he is still more attached to this relationship. And the second thing is that when you make it clear to him, he chooses to maintain your relationship. Hope to calm your attitude by sending your **.

But his approach is to raise the soup to stop the boiling, and he doesn't want to completely ** the problem between you. In other words, in his heart, you are not absolutely irreplaceable, or higher than the girl who chats with him。And another detail is that he doesn't often send your **.

In other words, he has a good hotbed of chatter. From what I feel, you are more loyal to love, and when something goes wrong, you give in more and will find other ways to vent. And boys are not very loyal to love, and they choose to be perfunctory when they encounter problems.

My advice is not to argue with him, because you are not in his eyes, and excessive arguments will reduce his liking for you, and eventually lead to a breakup。If you talk about the solution, first of all, you have to look at your and your boyfriend's own conditions, including appearance, family conditions, etc. If the other party is too high with you, the problem is not easy to solve, and you can tolerate or break up.

If it's flat or you're above him, the problem is relatively simple. Improve yourself. can upset the balance of values between you and that girl.

When he leans towards you. You're telling him that you don't like people you like to talk to other people, and that he won't accept it if you talk to other boys. Hopefully he's not going to hurt you.

That solves it. Of course, as far as I'm concerned, this kind of boy who doesn't have his own position still breaks up.

At first, I felt incredulous, all kinds of questions, and I stopped when I got a perfunctory answer, thinking that I was not good enough and didn't care enough about him, so that the people who cared about him took advantage of the loophole. Until just now, he was still fantasizing about how to change his lack of love.