After graduating from college in the 95s, will you be confused?

Yes, because at that time you didn't have any foundation, you were just out of school, and you didn't know anything about society and every company. At that time, you will feel like you have nothing, and you will feel very lost.

I will definitely be a little confused, that is, I will feel that my college life feels like it has just begun, but it has already ended, I haven't learned anything, and I am already about to enter the society, and I will say goodbye to campus life, I have just come out to work, and I may not have much money.

Will you be confused after graduating from college? I think there should be a little bit of this, because I just graduated and went out to work in the society, the society is a very big Rongrong, and if you are not careful, you may lose yourself, and now the social competition is very fierce, and the knowledge you learn may not be completely at that time, just because in the society and the work is difficult to find on the ground. Sometimes I still get confused.

As a recent graduate post-95 generation, I really don't feel lost, I know very well what I should do in the future, but I am relatively poor.

Of course, I will be very confused, from school to society, from the dormitory to the studio, of course, I will feel very confused about my future, and I will feel overwhelmed.

After all, I just graduated from school, I don't understand a lot of things, and now there are many talents, and I am a little confused. And now people are very competitive.

Just graduated, of course, it's confusing. I just want to find a professional counterpart as soon as possible, a company that meets my own conditions, work in a down-to-earth manner from the grassroots level, and then stabilize it.

The current post-95 generation is generally not confused, and they already have their own plans in college. They are generally goal-oriented, with the exception of a few college students.

After graduating from university, I don't feel lost because now I have a stable career and I can do a lot of things.

If you don't plan what you will do after graduation in school, then you will definitely be confused, so hurry up and prepare while you are still young.

If your professional knowledge is solid enough, you are not afraid that you will have a direction to develop in the direction of your major, but if your professional knowledge is not enough, it will definitely take a few years of training to achieve success.

In today's society, the college entrance examination is an important watershed in life, and Hekuan and 985 colleges and universities are the "laurels" that many college students compete for. However, in the face of the red list with outstanding contributions, the increasingly faint black list has received little attention. Many graduates of 985 colleges and universities are still particularly confused after graduation, and they think that they have excellent grades or even top scores, but they encounter a series of troubles that cannot be dismissed in college life.

In addition to the pervasive academic pressures, they are often exposed to many other pressures, including family expectations, employer requirements, peer and self-imposed pressures. In the face of these pressures, many 985 college graduates naturally have the idea of "I am 985 waste", which has penetrated deep into their bone marrow and has become a strong psychological barrier. But what is the reason for such a problem for 985 college graduates?

How should the children of the poor deal with such a situation?

First of all, academic pressure and job-seeking pressure have become the main sources of 985 waste psychological disorders. With social progress and demographic changes, 985 college graduates urgently need to find a good job to prove their strength, but the blessing of returnees, famous universities and other factors also makes this group of graduates bear great psychological pressure. Many college students feel lost and depressed because they are faced with high expectations from school, as well as their own expectations for the future, and some show abnormal behaviors and thoughts that want to push the limits of life.

Secondly, the pressure felt by 985 waste also comes from the confusion of the mind based on the gap between the rich and the poor. It is relatively difficult for the children of poor families to enter the 985 school exam, but they face incomprehension, ridicule and contempt from the children of rich families. Some students may feel that they are inferior to others in some aspects, so much so that they doubt their own abilities.

At the same time, these students may also be a little unconfident and worried about their performance and the growth of Shenlu.

So, in response to these problems, how should the children of the poor get out of the college maze? First of all, for the relief of academic pressure, they can try to involve themselves in more extracurricular activities and social practices to bring themselves some fresh feelings and mental relaxation. In addition, students can try to ask if their current major is really suitable for them, and consider whether they need to make some adjustments in the near future.

In response to ridicule and contempt, they need to believe in their own abilities, which is fundamental. If someone says something sarcastic, you might as well respond with a joke and solve it with a smile, which is also good.

In short, it is not surprising that this kind of problem arises, after all, academic problems and finding a job are problems that every ordinary student has to face. We can't stop our pace, we can't stop on the way to the university, as soon as we arrive at a place, we think that we have completely lost hope in the university, this is no reason, therefore, everyone's path must rely on their own, learn to face failure, learn to face their own situation. Let's open our hearts together, strengthen our beliefs, and prove ourselves with our own strength.

It should be more open ** stores at home! I think so. So how to say it?

First of all, it is necessary to make it clear that good jobs and good treatment in society are, after all, a few jobs, relative to all positions. Otherwise, no one will have to work if they have money. This is unrealistic.

Therefore, only a few highly educated leaders can, the position is limited, the number of college students who graduate is unlimited, and there is a batch of graduates every year, and there is an oversupply. If there is no accident in that good position, people can work until retirement, and the mobility is weak, to put it bluntly, a good job in society does not need so many college students.

The country's decision-making has now shifted a bit, and the society does not need so many college students, and the good jobs absorb students from key universities. Then there is no need for everyone to squeeze their heads into college and delay their lives. Rather than graduating from college and being unemployed and not having a dream job, it is better to plan to learn a skill as soon as possible, learn to be proficient, and have a way out.

Otherwise, when the time comes, the high will not be high.

Remember one sentence, the decision-making propaganda advocated by the state is beneficial to the optimization of the overall layout of the country, but not necessarily to ordinary people. It can only be said that it is advantageous for those who fit the selection criteria of the state. Others don't moths to the fire.

01 The salary must be high, and the average salary expected after graduation after 95 is 4,500 yuan, which means that the job with a low salary is not interested at all.

02 The welfare package should be good, there should be holidays and bonuses, and there should be fixed daily activities of the enterprise. Bad treatment is not interested.

03 Work should not be too hard, too hard work will be more stressful, not conducive to physical and mental health. So it can't be very hard.

04 If it matches my interests, for example, if I like to read, I may choose to be a librarian and don't care about other conditions.

05 The nature of the enterprise is also very important, and most of the post-95 generation are now more inclined to enter foreign companies, because there is more room for development and faster ability improvement.

06 There is also a slash youth that is very popular now, which is also the choice of 95, engaging in multiple professions and having multiple identities, which is also the choice of the post-95 generation.

First of all, students should be clear about their pursuits, a certain student lacks a lot of professional knowledge and basic knowledge, and it is difficult to enter graduate school, such students are more inclined to employment. Secondly, it is clear that they have the intention to choose a career and their family situation, and some students have excellent grades, but their family situation is average, and they will choose to work.

As more and more post-90s students reasonably graduate from university, students will face employment and graduate school entrance examinations. A small number of students have long set goals for employment or graduate school, and they complete the revision ahead of schedule and achieve excellent results. However, it is difficult for most students to plan well in advance and make reasonable decisions.

In fact, the premise is to know yourself very well, and personal choice is very important.

During the school day, a small number of students in the same class came up with the idea of going to graduate school. On the one hand, it is because students have excellent grades and a solid foundation, and as long as they go through systematic review, it is less difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination. On the other hand, it is because their goal is to go to graduate school, not to get a job.

After entering the university, I immediately used my spare time to study the knowledge points of the postgraduate entrance examination. Such students have a clear personal orientation and are always aware of their studies.

Family situations can also affect a child's personal choices. Some students are sympathetic to their parents' efforts and have achieved better learning outcomes. Participate in skills competitions, get bonuses and encouragement, and also subsidize your family.

If you are struggling with employment and graduate school, you may wish to find out about your family situation, share your personal thoughts with your parents, and then get feedback from your parents.

In general, the enrollment number and admission ratio of each school are different, and some students refer to the enrollment number of each major when choosing a graduate school. In fact, after the post-90s generation entered the society, they faced multiple choices. If a student receives a high-quality offer from a large company, the annual salary and various benefits are relatively generous, it will inevitably make the student entangled.

As a post-90s college student, how to choose between graduate school entrance examination and employment? In the process of going to graduate school and studying for graduate school, the difficulty of learning will be getting bigger and bigger, and it is recommended not to blindly choose to take the postgraduate examination, but to enter the society first to exercise their psychological quality from work

I think that whether you choose to go to graduate school or employment, it must be what you need most in your life development, you must not follow the crowd, see everyone go to graduate school, although the graduate school entrance examination can improve our academic qualifications, but not everyone needs to be admitted to graduate school, every industry needs to test everyone can be admitted to graduate school, and rational thinking and choice should be made according to their own ability and future career planning.

I think if you want to engage in scientific research or something like that in the future, then you choose to go to graduate school, if it's just for a degree, then I think employment will be more practical.