What is it like to have the other person disappear into life after a breakup?

It's been a long time since I broke up, and I've let go of it, I'll be a little sad at the beginning, I'll not get used to the days without him, I'll miss that happy time, and sometimes I dream in the middle of the night that he will cry, because when I wake up, it's a different thing. ‍‍

After a period of time after the breakup, the psychology will be sad, empty, and unable to find a direction.

Now that I think about it, this feeling is really bad, it's like the two of us, she walked out of my world completely, and none of us will contact anyone, just one more miss in our hearts.

I actually regret it very much now, if I had known that this would be the end, then I would not have chosen to break up with her, she has disappeared completely. ‍‍

To this day, the two of us have been separated for a year, remembering how inseparable they were from each other when they fell in love, and when I came home from work that night, I saw that the house was empty, as if for a moment, I saw her come out of the kitchen with a delicious meal, and complained about how I got off work so late, no matter what time I worked overtime, she would watch a TV series in the living room and wait for me, but now all this no longer exists.

Time is a good medicine, no matter who or anything, time can bury her, maybe occasionally remember, maybe hide him in the bottom of his heart, in fact, it doesn't matter, life is generally a memory, half is to continue. ‍‍

In fact, I will have a feeling of loss, after all, two people have been together for so long.

The two of us were college classmates at the time, and then when we graduated, we were separated because we had to go back to our respective hometowns, and we were really unaccustomed to the time when we first separated. ‍

If the other party disappears into life after a breakup, I think it's a normal thing.

It's been two years since I was separated from my girlfriend, but I didn't expect to be able to leave so completely, and now I don't know if she's doing well in **, whether she has a new relationship, but on the other hand, these things have nothing to do with me. ‍‍

What should I do if I feel that my life is meaningless after being broken up?

There is no such thing as anyone who can't live without it. You can relax your mind and chat with friends more often, there is no hurdle that you can't get over, and breaking up means that you are not suitable. She's not the one you've spent your whole life with.

If you don't like him, it's like you used to live single. Life is not only about love, but also about your own studies and work. I think the meaning of life can be to study hard for graduate school, enrich yourself, or get a promotion and salary increase to live a better life.

It's you, not your boyfriend, who really determines whether or not you can get out of the pain. Even if he comes back, you will definitely be in pain because you have not yet grown and understood from the relationship. If you still have to live by his love and the love of others, you will never get true love.

If your happiness is because of him, your sorrow is because of him, your despair is because of him, your pain is because of him, and all your feelings are because of him. So when do you feel sorry for yourself?

We pursue love for happiness, and we break up for happiness. Because when you find that two people are not very suitable for each other, breaking up is to pursue the right person and make the other person happy. Different people will behave differently when faced with a breakup.

Some people break up cleanly, like nothing, as if they were never in a relationship. However, some people break up, as if they have experienced a serious illness and have been immersed in pain for a long time. They will feel very uncomfortable because of this, and some people will feel that their lives are gray and they will never be happy.

In fact, this is easy to understand, because after all, two people have been together for a while, and the relationship they once had has no intention of letting go. No matter how inappropriate they are, they will feel uncomfortable and painful because of the loss of someone. People who have loved each other will leave good memories in life, and those beautiful experiences and things we have done together cannot be erased.

These things will stay in people's hearts, and after a breakup, they will be remembered from time to time, and it is difficult to remember. Falling out of love is actually a leisurely and long rare day given to you by God. It allows you to see that you actually need to be appeased, that you are so brave in your relationship, that you need to rest, that you need a quiet space to talk to yourself, and that you need to care for yourself.

The best love, in fact, is the most important thing to love yourself while loving others.

You can find something meaningful to do, divert your attention, such as going out to travel, changing the environment can improve your mood and mood, and have more time to think about the meaning of life, people do not revolve around one person, since you have broken up, it proves that the other party is not suitable for you.

Calm down for a while, go to a good friend to play with, and ask them to help enlighten. Find your own hobbies. Let yourself know that there is not only love in life.

You should find your own hobbies, so that you can make your life interesting, solve boring problems well, and make life more motivated.

Some people will disappear after a breakup, there are many sayings, and there are two views that are considered to be the most, one is that no longer contacting after a breakup shows that the other party doesn't love you at all, and just wants to disappear completely from your world, so don't cry or make trouble, especially calm. Another way of saying is that the other party really loves you, since you want to break up, you have chosen to fulfill the scum Changfang, since you have no chance to star, why bother crying and making a fuss, you can only lose your mind, it will disappear, and the other party can't find yourself, but only the other party knows the true thoughts in his heart.

So why it disappears varies from person to person, just be yourself.

He still can't let go of the other party, he feels that living in an old place will be very sad, and he doesn't want to be so sad, so he chooses to disappear.

In my heart, I just don't want to disturb the other party's normal life, I want to make a break with this relationship, and I want to start a new life.

The development trend of each relationship will not be achieved overnight, and it is not very easy to step into the marriage hall, which has caused everyone to have separate ex-boyfriends, and this emotional state in real life will often occur, that is, even if they have already broken up, they still pay attention to the other party's every move, so this kind of behavior, is there only one reason and no madness? I don't think so, and it's probably due to this reason:

**How sweet it is when you hate love, how bitter it will be in the case of separation, once you come to the end of the breakup, you want to break up amiably and friendship, it is basically impossible, and you have never had a cold ** mentality, at this time, there will be a certain expression, for all the abandonment you invested at the time, all of which have become ridicule and loss feelings, anger, hostility and hostility come to your heart, but after you are well, you still pay attention to the state of others, not so much missing, but wanting to see the other party suffer evil retribution, Or you will say that it is too extreme and narrow, or even vicious, but for lovers who break up in special circumstances, it is very likely that there will be universal emotions.

Unwilling to do whatever the final result is, it will gradually be a ruin, even if you understand that there is a possibility of separation, but you feel that it is a tragedy that is not easy to happen in your feelings, like God's darling, the pride in your heart is full, but no matter what happens in the middle, now separation is an objective fact, no matter how reluctant you are in your heart, that person's departure has become an unchangeable pain.

Even if you break up, you can't help but pay attention to the other party's life, it's normal, and you don't have to feel guilty, after all, it's the people we once relied on, but self-analysis is one thing, but it's not necessarily very worthy of approval, because in the next days, if you feel that there is no problem if you perfunctory, and don't adjust, you will get lost in the past and can't accept the reality of the day, and it will block the future feelings, so it will be difficult to get a happy life that belongs to you.

Mainly because this person's curiosity is particularly heavy, he feels that although they broke up, after all, two people have loved each other, so they will want to know each other's lives.

It may be that he wants to care about the other party, and he may want to compare himself to see if his current life is good when he was with him.

Because they can't let go of each other, breaking up is a fact, but the fact can't stop them from still loving their ex.

I don't love it, I don't have feelings, maybe I have a new love, maybe it's a complete nuclear wheel, I don't want to be entangled anymore, maybe I don't dare to face it anymore, no matter what the reason is to break up, I won't look back, I won't contact again, and my brother Chongjia won't break off the envy and annihilation, there won't be any nostalgia, whether it's a man or a woman, it will completely disappear after the breakup, no more contact, and there won't be any entanglement.

If you've already broken up, snooping on your ex's life may make you feel more sad and prolong your period of pain. In addition, it can also ruin any chances of a friendly relationship between you and your ex in the future. Therefore, I advise you to try to avoid prying into your ex's life.

Instead, you can focus on your life and try to look forward. Focus on developing your hobbies, expanding your social circle, or helping yourself with pain through exercise and meditation. Most importantly, remember to give yourself time to deal with the emotions that come with a breakup, while also giving your ex freedom and respect for their life choices.

If you really can't control your curiosity and really want to know about your ex's life, then I suggest you start by asking yourself why you think the way you do. This could be because you're still in love with your ex, or because you're feeling unsure about your decision, or because you're feeling lonely or bored. It's important to recognize your own motivation because it can help you better understand and control your behavior.

Respect your ex's privacy and personal space, and don't use illegal or unethical means to snoop on their lives.

Don't rely too much on social**, as it may make you misunderstand your ex's life and make you feel even more sad.

Don't try to learn about your ex's life through others, as this could ruin your relationship with someone else.

In conclusion, living with an ex is not a healthy act as it can prolong your painful period and ruin any future friendly relationship between you and your ex. Instead, focus on your own life, give yourself or yourself time to process the emotions that come with the breakup, and respect your ex's life choices.