I was betrayed by my boyfriend, should I choose revenge?

After <> was with your boyfriend, you paid a lot for him, but he betrayed you, and this result made you unwilling. In fact, your boyfriend's change of heart has become a reality, so you can only let it go and make it the wisest choice. My boyfriend and I were introduced to each other by friends, and when we met for the first time, we both had feelings for each other, and with the matchmaking of friends, we were together.

After dating for a while, I found that my boyfriend was very good in all aspects except for a little bit of care. He knows how to please girls, and every time he celebrates the holidays, he will change his way to give me some small surprises.

At the beginning of this year, he took over a project and had to work overtime every day so that we saw each other less often. Every time I hit him, he always hesitated, and hung up ** without saying a few words, in fact, at that time I wondered if my boyfriend was messing around outside behind my back, but he covered it up well, so I didn't think much about it.

Last month he called me ** and he told me that he was in love with a female colleague in the company and that others had feelings for him, and he hoped that I would let him go and stop pestering him. Hearing my boyfriend's words, my heart was cold for most of the time, these days of love, I put him first, I thought of him first in everything, but I didn't expect his sincere dedication in exchange for his betrayal.

I was really unwilling to break up with him like this, although he betrayed me, but I couldn't let go of him in my heart. Later, I began to understand that since he proposed to break up, I freely agreed to his request, and there was no one in this world who could still live well. Don't think about keeping it anymore, the relationship that is barely retained will not last long, falling out of love is just losing someone who doesn't love you, since you know that he doesn't love yourself, then why spend energy on him?

There is nothing unwilling, he is just a passerby in life.

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Forget it, this person isn't worth your bother. Why hold on? Do you think that if you take revenge on him, you will cheapen him? In fact, you are unwilling to let go of yourself and torture yourself.

I think we women should stand on our own, don't let men feel that we can't leave him, get free and easy, don't be so dark, and work harder to live a better and more beautiful life! Let him regret it!

If you really do something vicious to him in a moment of confusion, it will only make him feel that it is right to leave you, and even deny your past!

So, let's put our heads up and stride forward! Let him owe us so much, and let him feel guilty to see you for the rest of his life!

I have a better life than him, which is the biggest revenge!!

In the relationship, I believe that many people hate betrayal, if your boyfriend keeps saying that he loves himself, but he is getting along with someone else behind his back, such a man is really hateful, if your boyfriend betrays you, what will you do? Will you choose to take revenge on the other party?

1. If my boyfriend treats me like that, I will directly choose to break up, leave the other party far away, and never contact me again.

If my boyfriend is unfaithful to me and hurts me in the relationship, I will definitely be very angry, but calm down and think about it, such a person is not worthy of my nostalgia, fortunately found out in time, otherwise if he gets married, he is still difficult to move, if there is a child, it hurts not only two people, but also the child and the family of both parties, therefore, at this time I see him clearly, I will definitely break up with him happily, no longer nostalgic for the past time, for me, it is useless to retaliate against a person, Staying away from him and letting him never see himself is the best revenge, so that he can do a good enough life, and he also feels sorry for himself because of guilt.

Second, I will not retaliate against the other party, but I have made up my mind in my heart that I must live better than him.

I think I once fell in love, and when I found out that the other party betrayed me, I would not choose to treat each other with a bad attitude, I would only make up my mind in my heart that I must find someone better than him, and I must live the rest of my life well, so that this heartless person will regret it, this is the best result, and it is also what I want.

Whether it is in the process of falling in love, or in marriage, we all despise each other's betrayal, such a person, with a problematic character, moral turpitude, is spurned by everyone, the other party betrayed herself, she and another person are also very difficult to live a happy life, because we can't stand the condemnation of our conscience, all we have to do is to say goodbye to the past, look forward to the future, and give ourselves a better tomorrow.

I don't choose to take revenge, and if I find out that my boyfriend has cheated on me, I will stay away from such people.

In this case, they will take revenge on him at all costs, let him get the punishment he deserves, and let this boyfriend know how terrible it is to betray himself.

I won't choose to take revenge on the other party, because I'm still a magnanimous person, and if I retaliate against him, then I'm no different from him.

Yes, because my vindictiveness is still relatively heavy, and since he betrayed me, I will definitely let him suffer some price.

If you find out that your lover has cheated on you, will you choose to forgive or take revenge?I don't think either forgiveness nor revenge is the best way to solve a problem. As far as derailment goes, it is devastating to the marriage, and whoever is wrong is the most harmful to both parties.

Don't think that mistakes are just with unfaithful people, and that the other person should also do a self-reflection in marriage. A few more questions, why is it in your heart?If I find out that the only person I love in my life has deceived and betrayed me, I must first reason with him and discern who is wrong.

If I hadn't done anything wrong and hadn't been sorry for him, then I wouldn't forgive!I am a person with grievances, grievances, and grievances. If it is his fault, he should bear full responsibility.

Well, I will definitely return this tooth, I will definitely return it twice. Otherwise, how will my mindset be balanced?

<>People don't fail me, and I don't fail others. If someone challenges me, I challenge someone else. Only in this way can we be equal, and we should also let the other side taste betrayal.

Sometimes it's acceptable to be tolerant of small things, to be more generous, not to care about these little things, but you can never forgive questions of principle. Let him out!I won't forgive, it's good, let the other things make the most of it!

Let him go out without interest!Change him, keep him, you have the final say!However, don't give him a little love.

You treat him like three sisters, not three sisters, but let him know that a woman who doesn't love you will treat you like that and make you feel comfortable. ！This is the happiness you want!Make yourself beautiful and rich.

When the child grows up, he is old, there is no place to lean on, silently leave him, let him die alone without money, without support!The premise is that you must not be sad or miserable!

I think what everyone wants is the best if, not really, but the reality is brutal. If this happens, the first thing to know is that this is the first time. Whether you can control your emotions is the most important thing.

Yes, that's easier said than done. ！Then think about what's wrong. So if you choose to forgive or take revenge, it's not that simple.

A slap in the face, find the reason, you can choose to forgive, or choose to forgive. Retaliate for hurting others, hurting yourself.