My boyfriend and I are like this, do you want to separate

It's up to you how you feel.

Do you think you're happy with him every day?

Is there anything worth making fun of?

Depending on the situation, you don't have a common language and you always quarrel.

Personal advice is better not to be together.

I don't know what the conditions of his house are like.

If the conditions are very good, it's okay if you don't work, it depends on your own thoughts, if you think that a man who has no career is not a successful man, then you still don't want to be with him.

Looking at his current age, he doesn't know that he is career-oriented, and it is estimated that he will have no future in the future, but if his family conditions are very good, it will be another matter.

Think for yourself.

Good luck!! ~

Just saw the question of the supplement.

He is not filial to his parents, and I guess he will not be filial to your parents in the future, right?

Maybe he is an only child at home, and his parents are used to him not being sensible enough and not growing up?

At least the heart is not mature enough!! ~

Since the family conditions are average, he has no sense of responsibility and does not know the importance of work, and it seems that this man has no future.

I'm not optimistic about him!! ~

It feels like your boyfriend is too dependent on you.

If you love her, leave him for a while first and let him be on his own.

Solve your own affairs and let him think about it quietly.

I think that although your boyfriend is 28 years old, he has not yet had the courage to face society, and his own cultivation is not enough. So.

If you care about him, don't stay in a room with him every day (at least come out to exercise), I have experienced such things, the situation is similar to you, but in the end, I chose to live alone, thinking that the two of me have been together for a long time, which will make me cowardly, and I should not do what I should have done. So, for his sake, and more importantly, for the sake of your own future, let yourself not be bound by some emotions and work hard.

to achieve the purpose of life. After reaching a certain height, you will have a refreshed conclusion in retrospect.

I have also had the feeling of falling into a deep valley from the high point of my life, and the feeling of falling into a deep valley is very bad, and my temper may become a menopausal state in my 50s and 60s, and I am annoyed when I ask about work, and I am either silent or yelling. If you want to find a man who is close to a successful career, I want you to leave him, because such a situation will take at least 1 year to recover, and then it will take another 2 years to find a job and start from the bottom to reach the original level, if you still love him, then you don't keep mentioning work in front of him, because when you mention it, he will not feel that you are caring about her but think that you think he is useless and a coward, in fact, he also hopes to find a job soon. People always don't like people to point out their sore spots.

Give him some time.

In a word, women can consider marrying a good man if they don't have a job, men can only jump off the building if they don't have a job, the importance of work for men is very great, now it is difficult to find a job, you can encourage him, tell him that he has strength, but now it is difficult to find a job, many people do not have a job, you can consider making a job that you think can be done, there are development opportunities, you can't say that you can start from the bottom, at least you have to work at least 1 or 2 positions lower than the previous job, continue to work hard, there is no humble job, Only has a humble work attitude, and the work attitude completely depends on himself, and he will slowly lose his confidence in struggle if he stays at home all the time.

I asked him how much he could get the highest salary before he was 28?

Divide it, because you're already like this before you're married, so what about after you get married?

Don't wait until it's really irreparable, because then it's time to look back.

You will find that you have lost a lot, you are 25 years old, you should be looking for one seriously, but that must be mutual love, it is recommended that you share it with him, and then find another one, and spend about a year with him.

See if he's fit to be your real husband

I'll give you my opinion: You really love each other Don't break up at every turn Girl, I can understand what you think now It's very normal You need a lot of communication Communication can solve the problem It's just that boys don't treat this matter very much with your concept What about it. His family is very good to you, you can also talk to his parents appropriately or talk to him, you really want to be good, you still need to think about and plan for the future, I think you have to communicate well, if he really loves you and likes you, he has to give you a future and take action, I hope it can help you.

Marriage is two people together for the rest of their lives, if you love him, and he loves you very much, even if you go to ask for food and live, don't break up, of course, it can't come to this point, often encourage him to believe that he has a change of heart.

If you are together now and do not fall into each other's depths, you will be separated while you are still young.

Others say that it is just to give you a reference, the main thing is your own choice, ask your own heart.

This sister is honest, Xiaodi is 22 this year, although I have been working for more than a year now after graduation.

Although it is true that parents have helped a lot in a large area, I believe that every boy should have a kind of responsibility, even if it is internal or external, even if nothing is achieved, it is always necessary to face life positively, right? A man, a man who is already 28, if he is cynical, he should also have his capital, eat the old capital, then his family is rich, but no matter how rich he is, his parents will close their eyes one day, right? At that time, we are bored at home, still thinking about our parents, complaining?

If he can do something extraordinary, do it, if he is ordinary, then work hard to live, don't complain, don't be discouraged, even if he is tired of suffering, he must first look at himself, isn't it?

I have no experience but I'll break up if I swap in! Because I despise him as a man, big brother! I want you to slap him hard and let him know that he's a man, what he's doing now, what the hell is he afraid of?

Of course, there is another situation, when he is the most unhindered and most confused, my sister hopes that you will not be as negative as him, okay? You can do a lot of things while you're alive, aren't you? If you know and love each other, you will survive even in the big wind and waves, and tell yourself whether you love him or not, you decide whether you decide whether you love him or not!

Men want to do a good job in their careers before they talk about marriage! If you love him, be considerate of him! Pull him out more on the weekend, and it will slowly change! If you really love him, don't break up! After all, we've been together for so long.

I think he's pretty useless. [My first feeling, don't mind] a man. Won't it be too cowardly in the future?

His parents like you and love you, that's another thing. The main affection is for both of you.

He fights me at the mention of work. I didn't feel the need to be with him.

But if you love him very much, then persuade him again.

But there are so many men in the world. If you think you're good enough. You might as well be single for a while.

Let's see if he will come to his senses when you leave. If he works hard, it's not too late to be with him again.

If it's not as good as you would like, then the only way to do it is to be friends. Otherwise you'll have a hard time later.

In my case, let's divide it, after all, such an unmotivated person, and the future with him will definitely not be easy... En · · In general, I didn't become a man's consciousness, I didn't think about the consequences... It's irresponsible.

Well, if the family has a lot of money, then there is no problem.

He won't love you for the rest of his life! It may be a bit of a blow to you to say that, but based on my decades of experience, I have this idea based on your current situation.

His parents can't control him, maybe one day he will be idle and annoying, at least you should make some plans in your heart.

Divide it, when there are children, who will bear the family responsibilities?

Are you taking care of children, raising men, and going out to work?

It depends on what you do.

The encouragement this man needs now is for him to find confidence and self-motivation.

Now that you want to break up, whether you can find a better one than him is a question.

I think it's hard to give up love, but you must give you a quasi-letter, otherwise your lifelong happiness will be ruined!

Parted? Not really.

Try to get his parents to talk more about him.

Is his family in good condition?

If the conditions are good, it doesn't matter if you work or not.

No responsibility, new men can't want!

It's hard to have any happiness for such a person.

Why don't you go find something to do!

Summary. Hello dear! Here is the dedicated Da Li emotional counseling teacher, for you to solve emotional problems, take you out of emotional confusion, very happy to your problem, what problems do you encounter? Can you talk about it?

My boyfriend was going to split it up with me, but I said no, and he agreed, didn't he want to split it in the first place.

Hello dear! Here is the dedicated Da Li emotional counseling teacher, for you to solve emotional problems, take you out of emotional confusion, very happy to your problem, what problems do you encounter? Can you talk about it?

Dear, yes, it's just more face-saving

We have quarreled several times for his ex-girlfriend, and every time I mentioned it, he said that I couldn't deal with it like this, and I wanted to break up, and I said no, and he agreed, I don't know why?

Dear, you can ask, why are you still in contact with your ex-girlfriend??

There's no connection, it's just that I'm always guessing, and he's disgusted with my distrust of him, so he says he wants to divide it, and I say he doesn't divide it, and he doesn't divide it, teacher, do you think he really wants to share it with me?

I don't really want to share it with you.

Just want you to know that you're not doing the right thing.

I don't know what he really thinks now, and if he really wants to score, I won't force it.

Don't guess him, it's very emotional.

Or do you not like him very much?

I also know it's my fault, but I just can't help but think about the about him and his ex-girlfriend.

That's all in the past.

I may not really like him, but I don't want to share it with him yet.

Didn't find a better one.

No, I didn't think about looking for something better, I just felt in my heart that he wasn't good enough for me.

He said that he didn't distinguish it, but he still cared more about you.

Breaking up hurts indeed!

I believe the big guys have tried it! That unforgettable love.

You're conflicted right now, aren't you?

The mouth is divided, but the heart is reluctant.

And you say he's going to be a soldier, so you have to think about it.

Remember that love words cannot be believed! can only be a flavoring, otherwise I will know that I am the same age as you in the future, but I will not choose to be a soldier.

Let's take your time to understand the truth.

Remember, time can dilute everything.

I don't know why you broke up, so it's hard to give you an exact idea, but I want to say, since you can't help it, then try to redeem it, no matter what the result is, at least you have fought for it, I hope you can be happy and happy, come on!

You added it later, then I will also add my opinion, as a boy, he did not reply, I think you can think about it from this aspect, you have to think back to the recent days when you were together, think about his performance, is it that you are both happy together? If so, then I think, he didn't reply to you just didn't ease up for a while, or wanted to make you feel guilty, in fact, any boy wants to be taken seriously like this, so don't worry if he doesn't reply to you first, wait and wait, or contact him again. If he has been absent-minded in the recent days you have been together, then I can only regret to tell you that maybe the feeling between you is not as good as it was back then, and maybe you should pay attention to the problems between you.

Hehe, look at the point, but you should keep the first one, and there was no female cousin just now who said that she had let seven people go on it, and it didn't feel like rubbish.

Did he bring it up, you are too impulsive, hey, if you want to open something, is there no room for redemption At your age, it is inherently uncertain, but now that society is open, there are not a lot of places, don't be too sad, just take it as a lesson.

You're too stupid to give yourself up at the age of 17.

What kind of emotions do you know at that age?

Can you elaborate on that? In fact, I will briefly explain your love to you If it is said that this man is starting to have a new girlfriend You are not worthy of this for him Because he is not worthy of you to do this If it is for other reasons, you have to learn to be strong The sky is stepping down, even if it falls, isn't there still Mount Everest? Don't worry, there are so many good men that you grab a handful

Hope it helps you The above is purely a personal opinion.

In fact, you are really too small, so why is he so easy to change? It's definitely not a matter of temper, I guess it's because he's changed.

You're still so young, and you'll slowly find out later that it's really nothing.