What kind of person is suitable for an ordinary girl to marry?

First of all, to determine whether a man is worth entrusting for life, the first thing to look at is character, if a person is not even good at character, it must be risky. Character includes many aspects, and the most important thing I think is to be filial, kind, know how to be good to his wife, and be considerate, which are also the most basic conditions for two people to be together. Secondly, it is necessary to rise to the spiritual level, with affection.

1. Warmth should be the standard for all girls, in fact, I think the more important thing should be "suitable", not to be rich, at least two people must have the same three views, otherwise living together will be really tiring, no common topic is secondary, if you say you want to travel to see the world, but he just wants to be at home Ge You paralysis, this is a manifestation of the inappropriate three views. Then there is the fact that two people should complement each other and have common interests and hobbies, which is the best way to get along with each other for a pleasant life.

A woman should marry a person like Wang Sicong, because Wang Sicong has only one in China, if you want to marry him, you must have almost the same conditions as him, otherwise you won't be able to grab such a sweet spot. To tell the truth, women want to marry the second or third generation of rich people, so that they can get something without hard work and start a business, and it is also impressive, saying that you have caught a golden beetle son-in-law.

A man who has his own hard work (ambitious) and down-to-earth can give girls a visible future, and their lives will get better and better. Step by step, I am very precious to my feelings.

The difficulty of choosing is not all about which side to choose, mainly in this boy who you "have been together for a few years and have to rely on your own struggle in the future", how do you "identify" him to be able to identify him as a "potential stock". From the perspective of ethics and morality, on the one hand, it takes into account the reality of "being together for a few years", but people still have to live and survive and develop, so the question is what kind of person is this "boy" who will struggle on his own in the future, what is his character, what is his personality, what is his ability and quality, what are his talents and expertise, and what is his comprehensive ability and quality? The problem is what to use to determine - the boy's future deeds and life achievements, the key is that it is a big problem in this regard, because this aspect is a big problem for anyone, because the boy's future development and deeds are full of uncertainty, and man is not a god - unpredictable, which poses the "ultimate challenge" to your choice.

At this point, your "situation" seems to have entered the "prisoner's dilemma".

Good character, similar three views, no matter whether you make friends or talk about objects, I am the first to value character. The three views are in harmony, and many contradictions can be avoided in the future, and it is more comfortable to get along.

With high emotional intelligence, he won't fight with me to the end when he quarrels. I admit that girls have a little bit of emotions, especially before the arrival of the eldest aunt or when they are unhappy in life, which can easily cause mood swings. In the case that I am not particularly excessive, I hope that the other half can take the initiative to tolerate it, kiss and hug and hold it high, well, I am easy to coax.

I think, one has grown up and matured, and there is no standard for what kind of other half he is looking for? You should also listen to the opinions and opinions of others, and you should be assertive. People live in this life, they should have their own independent opinions in thought, at the mercy of others, marriage is different from buying things, what kind of person you want to find in your heart, you must listen to your inner voice.

I have a friend Dong Dong who married early and lived happily, Dong Dong's brother married at the age of 23, which is equivalent to getting married not long after graduating from college. There could be a lot"Lemon extract"It is not too early to get married at the age of 23 in the countryside, but as far as most women in the city are concerned, the age of 23 is just a year after graduation, and it is indeed relatively early to get married at this time. Dongdong has been married for 9 years so far, has a son and a daughter, and lives happily.

Dongdong had been in two relationships before getting married, one of which was very sadistic. The abusive boyfriend treated her like ice and fire, the two of them were like glue when they were hot, and they were cold for a few months when they were icy.

This relationship made Dongdong grow up rapidly, and also raised Dongdong's knowledge and understanding of human nature and men to a new stage. But it was precisely the last failed relationship that made Dongdong completely understand what kind of boy is suitable for him, and it also brought new vitality to the relationship of Xia Chang.

When Dongdong got along with her new boyfriend for more than half a year, she felt that the man was really good, he was a person who lived a good life, with a good temper, a good personality, and a good character.

What's more, he is very fond of Dongdong and very considerate, never let Dongdong be treated coldly, nor does he give Dongdong any suspicions, and he is frank and open. Dongdong herself is a person who has had emotional experience, she knows what kind of man is the most suitable person for life, and she knows what kind of marriage is the marriage she wants. In addition, Dongdong's husband's family and personal conditions are very good, so after comprehensive consideration, Dongdong agreed to the other party's marriage proposal, and now his life is also very happy.