I just got a job after graduation and I was very depressed, what should I do?

Don't rely on your own likes and dislikes, I am afraid that there is no stage that will have a greater psychological impact on employees than the initial stage when they have just entered the field of employment. A young person who has completed the process of education and entered the field of employment for the first time will learn to accept real tasks for the first time, get along with real bosses, work with colleagues rather than classmates, and solve practical problems for the first time with their own intelligence, skills and knowledge, and personal values will begin to be challenged at this time. This stage can be a disastrous time for most young people who are entering society for the first time.

They naively expect to face the reality of organizational life for the first time, but the reality ruthlessly shatters their ideal calmness.

RealityShock is used to describe the results of a new employee's exposure to a boring reality and unchallenging work at the beginning of their employment. It is also the direct cause of some people's misanthropy......]

Slowly you will get used to it!

First of all, you can't let the people in the unit know how much you drink, and if you don't drink every time, they won't call you next time.

Secondly, don't talk too much when eating, be a little bored, and I won't call you next time.

Learn to find fun in your work, love and respect your post, and you won't be bored.

Me too. I'm still waiting for news. The boring classmates have all found a good one. I'm not in a hurry.

That's how the work is, no way, after all, it's your own economy.

Work is work, life is life, you have to distinguish between them, you can't get a salary to enjoy the world of two, you can't cook porridge and drink with your girlfriend on the weekend, hehe, I just graduated and joined the company to work, I'm really tired, come on

Society is like this, and it will feel better after a long time.

Are you content, do you know how many new graduates are struggling to find a job? We must cherish the hard-won position, strive to adapt to the society, and strive to make a difference!

From a student to a part-time worker, there are many sadnesses in my heart, such as a lot of work, feeling very tired, being criticized by the leader or being very depressed, being excluded, being bullied by colleagues, ,......Wait, when there are a lot of grievances, at this time the parents are not around, and there is only self-comfort, or complaining to friends, which can change the sad state at the moment and let us adapt to work faster.

I remember when I first joined the work, I didn't understand anything, and I hadn't worked before, so I was assigned to the unit and didn't know how to deal with the relationship between colleagues. But there are many unfortunate things, and I don't know why I was scolded by the leader again. The mood is getting worse and worse at the moment.

At that time, I was thinking about why all the unfortunate things fell on my head, but fortunately, I still had friends at that time, and I chatted with friends I knew and complained about my grievances, and there was nothing to worry about in my heart. I went to work the next day. Actually, it's nothing, isn't it just a little grievance?

Wipe away your tears and keep trying, you will definitely get used to it. Of course, at this time, you can also self-regulate, or talk to friends, and your mood will be much better.

I think that when I first entered the society, because I had no experience and was not familiar with the external environment, I was a little frustrated, and in the face of setbacks, we should face them bravely, and it was easier to solve the problem. And more experience will be accumulated as well. For example, the small flowers placed in the greenhouse have not experienced the wind and rain, so they are not as strong as the wild flowers outside.

Therefore, if you want to become stronger, you must stand up bravely in the face of setbacks, so that you will become stronger and stronger. When we first entered the society, we were like flowers in a greenhouse, and we encountered many setbacks, such as being excluded and being criticized by the leadership, ......In the face of these setbacks, we should become stronger, so that we can become more courageous, stronger, accumulate more experience, and adapt to this society faster.

In short, there are many sadnesses in my heart when I change from a student to a part-time worker, such as a lot of work, feeling very tired, being criticized and depressed by leaders, being excluded, and being bullied by colleagues ,...... the armyWait, when there are many grievances, at this time, the parents are not around, and they can only comfort themselves, or complain to friends. It can change the sad state at the moment, so that we can adapt to work faster.