Personal issues. Ask for answers

Demanding too much from a loved one.

Perfectionist.

If you really love someone, many of his shortcomings are tolerable, doesn't it mean that people in love are fools, that's probably what it means. If possible, it is best to consult a professional with your questions.

From your statement, it can be seen that you are a perfectionist, and in the Enneagram, belong to the perfection type. You have to admit that.

Although you say that you are not a perfectionist person, you can show a character that demands perfection everywhere.

It's not that you haven't met someone you like, it's that you pay too much attention to your partner's speech and behavior, and people in love are often indulged in each other's strengths and will cover up each other's shortcomings. But you are different, even if you enter a relationship, you can still distinguish the advantages and disadvantages, but you have gone to the other extreme, that is, you only focus on the shortcomings, and ignore the advantages of the other party, when you separate, the advantages of the other party will appear in your mind, so you have the urge to regret.

My suggestion is: have the opportunity to read the Enneagram book, deeply analyze your own personality, and hope that you can understand the answer you want from it.

Good luck finding Prince Charming soon.

No, if you meet someone you really like, even if he doesn't take a bath for a year, you probably won't be disgusted, but you can consult a psychiatrist appropriately, maybe some of your ideas are a little clean.

For psychological problems, it is recommended to do psychological counseling.

Asking here will not lead to anything.

I hope you can overcome this bad habit soon.

It's normal, everyone's circumstances are different, of course the goals set are different, and I would have this problem when I went to school, there were 8 people living in the dormitory, and there would often be conflicts because of this or that problem.

You are just a freshman, and it is worth encouraging you to make achievements in the academic field, but I think that this is a great ambition, it is better to think about how to live in this university, the university teaches you not only knowledge, but more importantly, your various experiences in the university, you can create all kinds of experiences and experiences freely. I remember when I went to school, I pried open the door on the roof of the building at night, in order to climb to the top of the building to shoot the moon, or a few people could meet, bring dry food and water along the river near the school, and see if I could get to **? I go to work on weekends, sell things, and experience a different life.

When you leave school, these extraordinarily extraordinarily things will become indelible memories for you.

From your question, it should be that the schedule is out of sync. You can talk to them and let them understand that everyone can have their own space under the same roof, but please consider the schedules of others and do not disturb them. Because even if you change dormitories, it is difficult for you to guarantee that you can live with people at the same schedule as you, and many situations require you to learn to communicate and learn to coordinate.

You really don't have the breath of youth, youth is to live like this, everyone goes back to the dormitory to bury their heads in reading, if this is what I wouldn't have worked hard to get into the university in the first place.

You say it's as normal as eating and sleeping with a good meal. But if you don't speak, you don't talk about yourself, and you just change it quickly if I don't say it.

Don't change it yet. Explain the situation to the teacher, and it is recommended to disconnect the network at 12 o'clock in the evening from Monday to Friday. This finch is also conducive to the rest of the students.,Otherwise, the next day of the New Year's tour will definitely not be able to cheer up.。。。

How can we talk about learning? That's how our school reeds are... You are a wise student, and you can also ask your brothers and sisters to help you with ideas...

If the teacher is constantly on the Internet, apply for a change...

1. Negotiate with them.

2. Apply for a change of dormitory. In your case, no one is willing to change with you, and if you do, you may be with another major.

3. Move out to live.

Personally, I think it's the first practical point. Your roommate also has advantages, but you haven't found out about it. Even if you don't like their habits, it's worth it to make the decision to change bedrooms.

After all, the value of a person is not determined by one or two things, and friends are a lifetime of wealth. You can adjust your attitude and reposition.

I've also met the caller of your problem (if I'm sleepy, I'm the kind of person who is still talking in the last second and falling asleep in the next second), but I'm graduating now, and if your goal is to go to graduate school, I suggest that you rent a room outside the school, so that you can completely get rid of this kind of life, but you still have to deal with the relationship with you, don't do anything drastic, that can only be counterproductive. You can try to change your room, but it's best not to, as it will affect the relationship between your roommates. It would be best if you could handle this relationship well.

Change the dormitory, I'm in the same situation as you, and I'm a dormitory in another class, I just wanted to study hard, but then I didn't know that Kai's heart to study was eliminated, and my self-control was not very strong, so if you're the same as me, then ask to change your eyes or stay with Qingshe, unless you have strong self-control.

I've also encountered a round leak.,I'm directly cut its net old town line.,If you want to be rotten, it's just turn off the electric switch.,Anyway, the school will ask to change the dormitory.,My own class lives with my own class.,If you want me to do this.,Ask if you will change the dormitory.。

In one is to say directly, you see that no one says about you, but don't disturb others to rest, okay?

It's better to change, and the ambition is not the same!

Of course, you can also negotiate with them without filial piety, since the ascension is a dormitory reunion, they know that your thoughts will change!

Good luck with your relationship

This is indeed a very tangled problem, I think every college student has encountered it, after all, everyone's dust concession time is inconsistent, even if you apply to change dormitories, you may encounter similar problems. It's a good idea to talk to your roommate, and let them go to bed as early as possible.

Persuade other students to rest early, and if nothing happens, change the dormitory decisively!

First of all, are they really disturbing your rest? If the number is really worn, then apply.

If you don't bother, you better don't bother, it will make people think that you are a big lack of manuscripts and unsociable

If it were me, I would apply to change the dormitory, and it is recommended that you change the dormitory.

I think that's a real problem.

You can talk to them face to face and tell them that it's not a good thing for you and them to go on like this, it's not good for you or them, and you should be polite when you slow sailing. [If you can, in this process, you add some family elements, such as the expectations of your parents, you can't tremble like this, live up to their expectations, etc., and you can also appropriately add some topics that they are sensitive to. For example, if you are lucky enough to be in the same dormitory, you say that you think you should cherish this rare opportunity and so on.

These all help to be more persuasive] so that they should listen carefully and put themselves in your shoes.

If they really make you unbearable, you should apply for a change of bedroom. But I think this may cause unnecessary trouble.,If we meet again in the future.,But it's embarrassing to be defeated.。。 So I suggest you have to talk to them seriously.

Leave them alone, you really want to study hard, and you don't care about them no matter what they do, it's your willpower.

Of course I have to change, not once or twice, and I don't let people rest and study every night.

Hurry up and change, close to Zhu Zhehong, and pin at Wu near ink loss or black. Don't let irrelevant people affect you, but when you change bedrooms, don't offend people, and try to be cautious and tactful.

Its shape is that each dormitory will have a different schedule of work, if you can't change others, then change your own head! I slept in the dorm room wearing an eye mask and sponge earplugs, which worked well and avoided unnecessary conflicts with the number of rents. There is no concept of classes in college, so it's not good to get into trouble with the people in the dormitory.

I'm a freshman too, hehe.

His classmates should rest early, you can remind me.

Not only did I change dormitories, but I also reported to the teacher.

Learning to roll the chain is always your own business, if you don't have a good relationship yourself, you can't make excuses to push it on others.

Also, if your studies have dropped due to dormitory problems, I suggest you change it.

Everyone is different, like what you are saying now, if you just want others to change, it is obviously not feasible to accommodate you, after all, no one owes anyone, if you really want to study, then apply for a change of bedroom, convenient for yourself and convenient for others.

If you encounter a problem, try to solve the problem If you change the dormitory, you don't know what the problem will be, you can communicate with them carefully In fact, it is not too late to prepare for the sophomore and junior years of graduate school Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Persuade other students to rest early, and if that doesn't work, change classrooms.

You can treat them to a meal and then politely ask the question and discuss it with them. I think they'll be a little more modest.

Talking to my roommates, I feel that everyone in my dorm is accommodating to me.

It's nice to live like this! Won't change.

If you really want to go to graduate school, don't delay, change it early, and regret it later.

In this society, you can only care about yourself, review until 10 or 11 o'clock, and then sleep on your own.

Why do I always feel sad and lonely when I look at the lively street scene during the holidays?

I've felt this way before, and many of us have felt it, it's not that you have a problem with your heart.

That's because the person you care about in your heart, maybe your lover, maybe your family, is not by your side, can't accompany you to spend a lively festival, making you alone, and the feeling of loneliness and loneliness will follow you like a shadow and affect you.

Believe in yourself, these are temporary, through their own efforts, so that they (they) can accompany you for a long time, and they will naturally get better in the future.

Give yourself some positive energy, make friends, and actively participate in various activities at school or unit, and you will become more and more cheerful. Believe in yourself, your mindset is normal.

It's your psychological problem.

But it's not that you're mentally wrong.

Are you thinking about a certain person at a certain time?

People and things are not or things are not people.

I guess that's a bit of a feeling.

Don't overthink it.

It's as if people become like this when they grow up.

Sometimes I do.

Now there are a few people who are fine, and there is no one who is not sick when they eat whole grains. If you can say it, it means that there is nothing wrong with your psyche.

If you don't have friends, you have nothing to do. I have a year to celebrate the National Day, my lover took the child to travel, friends have gone to relatives and friends, I am alone is this feeling, others have something to bother, there is nothing to buy in the shopping mall, I feel tired watching TV at home, and I can't sleep for 18 hours.

Just find something to do for yourself. I really have nothing to do, so it's normal to think about the past.

Temperamental, usually life is lonely and lonely, and the pressure of life makes it rare for you to communicate and communicate with others. I often use my own solitude to deal with the depression in my heart. When I see others celebrating the New Year, I rarely have relatives and friends to communicate with me to relieve my boredom.

So when you see the happiness of others, the more you feel sad and lonely.

The so-called song about wine is the geometry of life, why not find a friend and make a friend to drink. There are friends, there is family affection, love and friendship. With care, you won't be sad and lonely.

I don't know if I'm talking nonsense, but I think it makes sense, please give points.

Actually, I think most people should have the feeling of loneliness, but everyone behaves differently, some people like to be alone and quiet, some people like to listen to **, and some people like to go for a walk alone.

Everyone is always different, there will be such and such and even inexplicable loneliness, but many times we always have to face a lot by ourselves, face life, different people, endless things. Maybe this is growth, didn't Yang Lan say that we can not succeed, but we can't not grow! Therefore, we should also learn to grow up, life is a kind of experience, when you should be happy with everyone, don't always make people feel that you are very hesitant, so not only can you not be happy, but also affect the happiness of friends and relatives, you must know that there are many people who love you so deeply, you are not happy, at least someone will be sad, so no matter when, please laugh with everyone!

If you have something sad, find a friend to talk about or find a place to cry, and if you feel like you can be alone and calm, then stay alone for a while!

But after that, you must let go, live well, and sometimes it's not always good to think too much! But don't worry, it's not a psychological problem, it's just a normal emotion!

Finally, I sincerely wish you, when you should be happy, you should be happy, and when you want to be sad, you will be lonely for a while, so what's the matter! Life goes on, and there's still a lot to discover – I wish you a lot of peace and happiness for the years ahead! Happiness and joy!