In everyone s opinion, what is the root cause of the conflict between mother in law and daughter in

I think it's because the boundary of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is unclear and the positioning is wrong. The most important and first interpersonal relationship in a family is the relationship between husband and wife, the relationship between husband and wife, good, family harmony, bad relationship between husband and wife, children also suffer, as for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-child relationship, all must be subject to this principle.

The root of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I think is that in the eyes of mother-in-law, daughter-in-law is always an outsider! Her own sons are under her control, and her daughter-in-law is of course under her control, and her status is higher than that of her daughter-in-law.

I think it's a conflict of parenting concepts, I bought a lot of parenting books since I was pregnant, and often like to find me ** some parenting problems, and insist on accompanying my children to read every day. And the mother-in-law is still the old-fashioned concept of the past, and does not accept her new concept, so the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law arises.

Between me and my mother-in-law, I observed that the root of the contradiction between us lies in the concept and family education, China is a very traditional country, our country from the feudal society to the modern socialist society, thousands of years of history is full of holes, of course, there are glorious years, if you want to change, you have to change in education, in short, it has to do with our traditional culture, traditional ideas, there are really some concepts that we can not communicate normally a major problem. ‍‍

I have been the daughter-in-law of my mother-in-law for ten years, I am responsible for my marriage, diligent and filial piety to my in-laws, husband and child, husband and wife are harmonious, my husband often praises my generosity, their friends go out to play for a while, and my wife is making a big fuss, and he doesn't have that kind of trouble, because I feel that life is stressful now, and it is appropriate to give men some space and freedom, and at home is also staring at home, playing with mobile phones, it is better to let him go out and communicate with friends, and he can say something to his friends if he doesn't want to talk to me. In the eyes of their friends, we are a model couple