Do the post 90s generation look at the world like this?

I think that I am in a state of not wanting to interact with people, and the generation that I don't want to go to at all has the excitement of the past at all, and people are deserted.

I'm very good, everyone can come out when they have time, there is no excessive money exchange, and there is no need to dig out their hearts and lungs, which is quite free and easy.

Sometimes I want to shut myself in the door, go to work when I go to work, and be home alone after work, if I don't have friends, I don't have friends, I just feel, I don't want to, to face the world.

For example, my father's leg was broken, and the relatives who came were all sending money and fruit baskets, and my 1st cousin-in-law only sent 4 apples and half a catty of oranges! There was also an empty-handed exchange for my dad to go to his house, all of which were more than 1,000 yuan for their children.

I think that the post-90s generation will cherish one of their own people too much, so that the other party will be disgusted.

The post-90s generation is actually still in a relatively immature state in terms of looking at human feelings and sophistication, because they have not grown up yet.

I feel that the post-90s generation is very open-minded in looking at people's feelings and sophistication, that is, he will not regard it as very important, but he also has his own unique way of dealing with it.

I think the biggest word for the post-90s generation is pessimism, and I think the employment pressure is still quite huge.

I think the post-90s generation is actually still in a relatively immature state in terms of looking at people and the world, because they have not grown up yet.

After the 90s, I think that people can get along with the world, but it is better to have fewer people who are sophisticated.

Everyone's life can't escape the four words of human affection, when you are young, you can do less and not more, but when you grow up, you must understand these.

First,If you can find the answer on your own, don't ask others。Everyone's time and energy are limited, others don't have time to answer your questions, not to mention that the Internet is so developed now, 90% of things can be found on the Internet, and asking others everywhere will only show that their knowledge reserve ability is not enough.

Second,If the other party does not have a clear agreement, it is a refusal, which is a basic etiquette in the adult worldIn this society now, everyone is very busy, and no one will waste their time specifically for your affairs, unless your affairs are a gesture for him, or the relationship between you is really close, you can ask others a few more times, otherwise people have not simply agreed to you or have rejected you.

Third,Don't care too much about what other people think, and you can't care about what other people think at allWe flaunt independence, we flaunt ourselves, but we can't help but completely ignore the eyes of others, after all, we are all part of this society, if our reputation and reputation deteriorate, it will be a big trouble for us.

Fourth,When it is convenient for you, you should also know how to be convenient with othersIn this world, one more friend and one more way, you don't know how much help you will give you tomorrow if you help a person today, a person who is difficult today may be your biggest enemy in the future, therefore, being kind to others is convenient for yourself.

The so-called: human feelings are sophisticated, separately, first talk about human feelings, that is, to move people with affection, to use words and behaviors to express that you are affectionate and righteous to him, to put it bluntly, it is necessary to say good things and give gifts, and the sophistication is to teach you how to say good things and how to give gifts, so that others can listen to them comfortably, and receive gifts calmly....

Young people should know how to be grateful, be grateful, return courtesy, be modest and cautious, be mature and sophisticated, and with these conditions, you will grow up very fast.

If you don't have the ability, talk less and do more. It's perfect with a plan. Superficial friends must be polite. You see, the purpose is the starting point of everything. You have to understand that only ** is really lying to you.

Do more and talk less, see more and learn more, young is the time to learn, and now accumulate experience, which is convenient for future relaxation.

Be polite to your elders, exchange courtesies from relatives and friends, and don't inquire about the rights and wrongs of others.

For young people, some people have to understand the sophistication.

Etiquette is still exchanged, some young people only know how to eat others, take other people's, feel that others should ** him, this kind of young people who don't know how to exchange etiquette, in the end they won't even have friends.

When visiting the door, no matter how familiar you are with the family, if there are old people and children, you must not be empty-handed, this is a person's basic courtesy, but also a kind of human sophistication, contemporary young people must understand.

I think basic communication skills and interpersonal communication skills are very important.

Respect the old and love the young, exchange rites, and treat people and things. Solidarity and mutual assistance. Wait.

Conduct things for people. Sincerity, trust is a must!

The Analects. Although the content is not necessarily consistent with the requirements of modern society, the spiritual connotation is not limited by the times. For example, it introduces Confucius's performance in etiquette norms, saying, "Confucius is in the township party, and he seems to be unspeakable."

He was in the court of Zongmiao, and he said it. Weijiner"; "Towards the court, with the next doctor, as eloquent, with the upper doctor, condolences as also. Gentleman, the pepper is as wrong as it is, and it is as it is"; "The king summons the envoys, the color is like that, and the feet are like that.

Standing with each other, the left and right hands, the front and back of the clothes, are as good as the same. Forward, wings are the same. If the guest retreats, he will return to his life, and it is said that 'the guest does not care'"; When entering the public gate, bow as well, as allowed.

If you can't stand in the door, you can't fulfill the threshold. Over-positioned, lustful as well, feet as well, his words seem to be insufficient. Take Qi ascending to the hall, bow as well, and hold your breath as if you can't stop.

Out, down one level, the color, Yiyi is like that. There is no step, the wing is like it, and it is in its place, and the pepper is like it" and so on.

If we understand the truth of Confucius's practices, we can understand the basic human feelings.

See people talk about people, and talk about ghosts!

Understand the basic human feelings, be able to speak, do things, and be a person.

So sometimes don't learn these things just because you're a student, because your age is definitely going to change, that is to say, the things you experience in the future are not the same, the so-called human feelings are just a little better to manage in the human feelings, and then let these personal feelings serve you, I believe it is much simpler than you do things yourself.

In fact, when we deal with this situation in life, everyone must have such a goal or such an idea, because interpersonal relationships can indeed bring you different experiences, or different results will make you know some different people.

Don't be too selfish, just think about yourself. Don't be self-righteous and think that you are very good, and be low-key. Don't contradict your parents and think they're doing something wrong.

In today's society, the most common thing for young people is not to go empty-handed when visiting relatives and friends, but to buy some gifts or fruits to visit, which is the least that young people should know.

Be a low-key person, make yourself comfortable and make others comfortable; Don't be too complacent when you meet someone who is not as good as yourself, you must know how to lower yourself; Don't talk about things that you are not sure about, etc.

Treat elders with respect, be respectful to leaders when working in the company, learn to respect others, consider the feelings of others when speaking, can't say whatever you want, and don't blindly tolerate when being bullied.

Don't tell anyone about everything, it will bring you a lot of trouble in the future.