In this situation, I will change what to do

Updated on society 2024-06-28
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't worry, if you don't have the game, you won't be able to make money, you have to stick to it and perform well.

    People always have a little bit of a back, when they are lying on their backs, they will be able to endure this time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can't always find the reason from others, you also think about yourself, the turning point when your two statuses begin to change is when you both design ** at the same time. You should find your own reasons, is it true that there are some places that are not as good as him, the boss's eyes are bright, he knows who works and who doesn't, he also knows who is capable, if your ability is similar to his, you are fine with this promotion? Maybe it's not because of your ability, maybe it's because you don't have the best way to deal with the relationship between colleagues and leaders.

    If you are still not promoted this time, I personally suggest that you can't leave, because they will laugh at you even more when you leave, even if you are not promoted, stay, make an example to show them, prove that they are not as good as you, so that you really win! I wish you success.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you love each other very much, then study hard now, and keep your distance, because now these parents, anyway, are still a little feudal, they will think that you are still young and not suitable for love, if you are both admitted to college, his parents will definitely not control you, because the purpose of his parents is to let him be admitted to college. You must believe what I say, if you don't believe it, you will always be opposed by his parents, even if you are admitted to university in the future, but if you don't keep some distance from him and let his parents know that you sleep together, your image will be ugly in front of his parents!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Leave the adults alone

    You can do whatever you want

    It's all a society.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sophomores should study hard in the name of learning Do you understand?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sophomores? I think as long as you don't fall behind in your studies, I don't think your family will have anything to say!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's still young, it's not suitable for a relationship, it's okay to keep a relationship, and it's still to be developed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take the relationship even further. Know which of you is tired of the other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be confident in your choice of clothing and believe in your abilities.

    As long as you know yourself correctly and can look at others and yourself holistically, you will feel that you are not so bad, but that you may feel that you are not in the best state or care too much about what others think or think. And other people's opinions or ideas are often one-sided, causing you to have an unnecessary sense of inferiority.

    A person should have a correct understanding of himself, because people's personalities are very different, and they should understand their own strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and constantly improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect.

    To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need to be full of self-confidence to accomplish their goals and careers. You can be strong.

    First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

    Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

    As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; You will succeed in your studies or career, and you will be the most promising young person.

    When you have self-confidence, you also have to learn to make friends, only in the heartfelt words of friends can give you a comfort, a chance to speak boldly, an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express their opinions or suggestions, express their own opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, so that you can integrate into society and get happiness.

    Life without friendship is bleak, just as the earth has lost its sun and has no brilliance. Life without friendship is boring, like a damp match, no matter how you rub it, you can't ignite the fire of hope in life. A life without friendship is incomplete.

    How can a person who lives in the world understand the true joy of life without friends and without the care of friends?

    Only a life full of friendship is full and meaningful. A philosopher once said: If two people share one pain, then there is only half pain; If two people share one happiness, they have two happiness.

    When you are in a difficult situation, embarrassed and urgent, and suddenly receive sincere help from a friend, even if it is just an ordinary word of comfort and encouragement, how will you feel? Do you feel a happy release in your heart, feel a warm current rising from the bottom of your heart, and be full of confidence and energy? When you are happy and happy when you are successful, how will you feel when you receive the sincere blessing of your friends?

    Whether or not you feel happy. Therefore, by boosting your self-confidence, you can eliminate the feeling of inferiority. How confident you feel!

    If you regain your self-confidence and work at the same time, you're a strong man!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The two of us have similar personalities, but I don't care about what you wear, according to you I think you are a very strong person, not only asking yourself to have a complimented appearance, but also to have the most perfect ending for anything you do, which is one of the reasons why you often choose and imagine things for yourself, I know that after a long time, we will be very tired. First of all, I am sure that we are not menopause, this is just one of the personalities, believe in yourself.

    In fact, to solve these problems depends on yourself, what others say can only play a temporary role, everyone has a love for beauty, in fact, what to wear is not very important, I personally think that people dress appropriately, make people look clean and steady and heavy, as for the sentimentality you said, most girls have, mine is also more serious, you try to increase the intensity of your own decision, what you think about to decide on it, because everything is right and wrong before doing it is half of each, You think so much and finally decide the same, right or wrong, you still don't know, the result may still be mixed, but you think too much in the middle of the energy and pressure in your heart is very big, talk too much about the big truth, I don't think it's necessary, everyone understands the big truth, listen to it since childhood, there is no practical value, you try to change it yourself, take your time, I used to slowly become, although I often think too much but it's much better, at least I'm a lot happier, woman, You have to take good care of yourself, nothing is set in stone, don't say much, you try slowly, you will succeed!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello! From your description, I sense that your emotions are very restless and unstable.

    Dressing well is what can increase a person's self-confidence. This is the first feeling for outsiders. Then it's just a ** feeling, if it changes after talking to you.

    If you accept yourself, accept yourself, and face up to your strengths and weaknesses, then you can be confident from the inside out.

    When people are idle, they are especially easy to think. If you give yourself some leisure activities, or some activities that are good for your physical and mental health. If you make your life full and busy, then the time for natural idle thinking will be shortened.

    Your goals will also increase, and your whole person will feel refreshed.

    Accepting yourself is the first step, enriching yourself is the second step, in the process of pursuing, you will find a lot of feelings that you have not had before, and gradually find the feelings and needs you need.

    Wishing you a happy day!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    According to what you said above, it can be seen that you pay a lot of attention to your appearance, in fact, whether you are handsome or not, except for people who value you, such as your girlfriend, others will not pay attention to your appearance. You can see a lot of people grooming their hair throughout the day, but when you see them finishing it, do you have a feeling that they have become more beautiful and energetic? When you look in the mirror, you can see that your hair is not very neat, but other people will not, because you are the person who knows you the most well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should live in a relaxed atmosphere, and you are asking for trouble.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Listen to the experts above, that's a good point.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Too sensitive and unconfident, I think you can find friends to accompany you more and listen to their advice on what to wear for your trip?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do what you want, your heart is not tired, and you can live freely without fettering.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Are you more idle, just find something to do when you are free, let yourself be busy and forget about "cranky thoughts".

    If it is a work pressure, it is relatively stressful.

    Just go shopping and chat with friends and colleagues, I believe it will relieve your stress, and you can buy (or borrow) some (or borrow) Mina Jia Ren Ruili to see in terms of clothing, I believe it will give you inspiration

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To do well with obsessive-compulsive disorder is to give up all thoughts.

    The most effective and fastest.

    The most thorough and lasting method is:

    Insist on exercising every day.

    This way you will be physically and mentally strong quickly.

    Let you be proactive, strong, smart, sunny, handsome, decisive, brave and fearless, and have a strong will.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I guess you're in your twenties, right?!Not being able to talk about going together with the previous generation is definitely a major characteristic of the post-80s, and I am too, so I moved out of the house, and when I used to live together, my parents thought I was not good about what I did or said, and we could quarrel with a few words. After I moved out, it was obvious that the relationship had risen sharply, and it was possible that the distance was beautiful!

    Anyway, after moving out, they can't catch my fault, go back every few days to see my parents, bring something back or something, give my parents some money and pocket money, and tell my parents what they have done during this time, anyway, it's better than being at home every day. Now we basically haven't had any conflicts. So I suggest that you can move out and move, and if you can't move, try to follow your parents' temper at home, and adults say that you must have some reason.

    Find out the reason, or talk to your parents and ask them if they are dissatisfied. I still think it's best to move out. Hehe, I hope you achieve your desire soon!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Learning from Brother Sharp is the way to go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Like many people, I think you must be living a very bad life now, in fact, this is not caused by your father, the main reason is still in yourself, you must first try to learn to be tolerant, learn to be patient, sometimes stand in the perspective of others to consider the problem, I think there is no one in the world parents who absolutely want to see their children "die", they all hope that their children will have a future, for the current situation, there is only one solution, first enrich your life, do more of your own hobbies, Down-to-earth work or study, don't look at the masters, don't think too much, have time to entertain, take your time, have the opportunity to further develop, and wait until your income exceeds your father's, they will automatically change their words, in the current society, generally speaking, status and dignity are proportional to income, but I also want to say that money is endless, happy work and happy life is the most important!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's you who can't escape if you want to, it's not that no matter how hard you try, it's in vain" Just because you meet doesn't mean you have to keep it, if she's so sweet with her boyfriend now, why would she interfere in someone else's life? If you really love her, why didn't you keep her when she proposed to break up? Time waits for no one, there will be a lot of things that change with time and distance, people don't live in the hotbed of romanticism, after all, we are facing reality, reality is cruel, of course, we don't need to keep everything in a black tone, optimism still has to have, of course, we also have to talk about things, for you This matter, I think you still need to think calmly and rationally before making a decision, give the other party a little space is to give yourself a little leeway.

    Don't live too complicated and don't live too tired. I think what you need most now is to reflect on why she left you in the first place. Why would you hurt her?

    Why don't you know your true feelings until the consequences become apparent? Facing your life with a sane mind is much more practical than impulsiveness. If you can't be a lover, be a friend, don't be discouraged if you can't be a friend, and cherish the happy fragments of the past into the best memories in your heart.

    Looking at everyone around you positively, are you a happy person?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm not going to keep it, or I'm going to keep it silently

    I'll talk to him.

    Can you go to the place where we first met ??

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You are not independent, and your dependence is too heavy!

    You need to exercise, exercise your independence!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Isn't that a bit of a homosexual tendency? Ways to solve the problem:

    One is to separate from him for a while, to keep a certain distance between you, and then to let time dilute this abnormal, and in our country, it is immoral feelings, and to end this situation as soon as possible and return to normalcy. It's good for everyone.

    The second is to cultivate and strengthen your own manhood, improve your ability to be independent, and gradually eliminate your own dependent thoughts.

    The third is to try to expand your social surface, increase outdoor activity time, and participate in more recreational and sports activities that are beneficial to physical and mental health.

    If you do the above three things well, I believe you will get out of the predicament!

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