Is Poor Couples Mourning really mocking poor couples?

Poor couples mourn" is not a sarcasm for poor couples, I think this sentence is to praise poor couples, they face things, this kind of spirit of making a move, this spirit is worth learning from every couple, because only husband and wife care for each other, respect each other, respect each other, trust each other can be happier.

I don't think this sentence is a mockery of poor couples, but to illustrate the fact that if a couple's family life is very poor, everything will not go so smoothly for them.

Poor couples are in decline, not sarcastic and prejudiced, Fu Jing They mean that when poor couples encounter things, they have no energy and no money to deal with this matter, which also reflects a kind of ordinary situation in the society at that time, when you encounter a real or a disease, a strange disease, you can't go**, this is the powerlessness they show in front of things.

I don't think so, it's just that because of poor families, they will quarrel a little more than conflicts, but in fact, they are definitely very satisfied.

I think that the decline of poor couples is only some couples, for some trivial things, quarreling like this every day, and finally separating, not all couples are declining for money.

Nowadays, people think that marriage without a material foundation will give birth to a lot of complaints and dissatisfaction in the married life, in fact, the original meaning of this sentence is a poem written by the poet in memory of his wife who died early, every time he thinks of his wife who has been suffering with him and left him early, there is an unspeakable sadness in his heart, not the meaning understood by modern people.

Actually, I don't think so, it's just that because of poor families, they will quarrel a little more than conflicts, but in fact, they are definitely very satisfied.

There is some truth to this, because if you are too poor and ignore the good things in life, many things will not be satisfactory.

Personally, I don't think it's a mockery, because I think they just have a different attitude towards things, so I'm just saying it.

It is normal for people to understand each other, and it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and quarrels, but what is the purpose of coming over for a lifetime? A happy life.

As Gu Li said, love without material things is like a plate of loose sand. The firewood, rice, oil and salt of life will always destroy the original beauty.

We often want to emphasize a sentence is "the material base determines the superstructure", we have seen a lot of couples who love each other, love is dead and alive, love is desperate, but when approaching the palace of marriage, all the contradictions in reality are all rushing, and in the end it can only be Lao Yan flying separately, and it is better to forget each other than to forget each other.

Of course, I don't know if this sentence was said by Lu Xun, but this sentence at least shows a common phenomenon, most of the troubles of all living beings are caused by poverty. "Poor and lowly husband and wife mourn" relative to today's society, to be precise, it should be "poor and lowly husband mourning", if a man does not make money, or the money he earns is difficult to support his family, then his status in the eyes of his wife is not lofty at all, and can only be regarded as a wreck. Therefore, it is very easy for husbands and wives to quarrel, and once they quarrel, the source of their contradictions must be caused by poverty.

If a man is unemployed at home for a month after marriage, the woman's volcano will erupt, on the contrary, even if the woman rests at home for a year, the man will not be harsh, because she is a woman.

From ancient times to the present, it is difficult for a man to be a man with money, but it is difficult for a man without money. And what makes it even more difficult for a man is to be ridiculed by a woman, and there is no way to refute it. As a simple example, talk to a female friend because she has just gotten married and is pregnant and waiting to give birth at home.

It is equivalent to having only her husband go to work alone, pay off the mortgage, and support the family. But this female friend also felt that she was very wronged, the fruit was very expensive this year, and she was pregnant and she was even reluctant to eat the fruit. So two people often quarrel, and it seems that both men and women can't understand each other.

This is "poor couples mourn", the key is that this friend said that he knew that marriage was so hard, it was better to be a junior, and eat and drink without worry. Of course, what she said was a joke, but from the depths of her heart, she was not ashamed of the life of the junior, but had a kind of envy, which was the deviation of women's values in the current society.