The person you like is married, will you continue to like it?

If someone you like gets married, will you continue to like it? I think this needs to be treated in several cases.

The first scenario is, is the person you like someone who has always had a crush on you?

If that's the case, you've just been secretly in love with him, never confessed to him, and he doesn't know your heart, you just keep this love in your heart silently. Then even if the other party is married, you can actually continue to like it, and there is nothing.

We will all have a favorite emotion for a person, such as watching a movie, will like the male protagonist in it, such as reading a book, and will fall in love with the heroine in it, this is a very normal emotion, if you like it, you like it, this does not hinder the other person's life, nor does it affect your own life, you can always like it like this. Of course, being able to like someone so silently sometimes has a feeling of happiness.

The second scenario is that the person you like and you have been in love with before.

If you were once deeply in love, and then separated for some reason, and then the person you like gets married, then do you still need to like him? This needs to vary from person to person, if you broke up peacefully, and you didn't fall out with each other, and you never had hatred in your heart, then for someone you once liked, it was also a good thing for him to get married, why don't you want him to be happy?

But if your breakup is heartbreaking, you are full of all kinds of hatred for him, or you were dumped by the other party and forced to break up, and you still have all kinds of unwillingness in your heart towards him, and you still like to let go, then when the other party gets married, your unwilling emotions are estimated to be even stronger.

But I have to say that since the other party is married, you have nothing to entangle, so it is better to do everything possible and let go happily. If you like him again, it won't help if you can't let it go, but it will ruin your mood.

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Yes. But the premise is that your heart should be strong, don't ask what you shouldn't ask, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't ask if you shouldn't ask, so that everyone has their own lives, and don't sleep for him day and night. Share each other's happiness and share each other's pain!

If you can't do it, let it go as soon as possible! If you are single, then I advise you to turn around as soon as possible and find someone you love to spend the rest of your life with, a man with a family is not a destination, and there are very few men in the world who can give up their family and children for extramarital affairs! When he goes home, he no longer replies to WeChat, which is enough to show that his family is very important to him, and he has no intention of giving up at all!

It is true that it is much harder to forget someone than to fall in love with someone......So the hard-hearted girl is the best! <>

However, if the person you like is married, then you need to consider respecting their choices and feelings.

First of all, you need to accept this fact and respect their decision. If your relationship is causing distress or discomfort to them, the best course of action is to keep your distance and try to build a healthy relationship with them. If you can't let go of your feelings, then you can choose to continue to focus on their lives and express your emotions in a way that suits you.

Most importantly, you need to be sensible and respectful, and not do anything that is detrimental to other people's feelings and families.

I will, because in many marriages, a lot is subservient to reality!

Falling in love pursues spiritual principles and pursues physical and mental pleasure. Marriage is the unity of the principle of pleasure, the principle of spirituality, and the principle of reality.

I have heard a saying: With the person you like, nothing goes well. With people you don't like, except for not being tempted, everything else is smooth.

In most cases, suitability is more important than liking, job is more important than hobbies, knowing that marriage is never a matter of two people. What you don't like is the reality.

When you quarrel with your mother in order to be with someone you particularly like, but not suitable for marriage, you say hurtful words and hurt your mother's heart sentence by sentence, obviously your wish when you were a child was not to make your mother sad. In the end, it turned out that what my mother said was right, what is the use of liking, and the other party clearly knows that liking and fitting are two different things.

Suitability is not the person you like, nor the person who likes you, it's just that you should talk about getting along early.

When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.

Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.

It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience of marriage people to choose yes, the reason is that you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old, you don't love now, to live with the right person for yourself, and in the end it is not love but also used to life, like relatives. The most important thing is whether the person you choose is "suitable", which is the core.

There is no standard for this, only you can experience it yourself.

If you are suitable, you will not hate it, and if you don't hate it, it may become like, after all, people will change. It's too difficult to talk about finding someone you like and are suitable to be with, and I didn't give up on finding someone I liked, but in the end, I would be forced to marry the right person due to the situation. I once said proudly, I can't find someone I like, I'd rather not get married, the older I get, the more I feel that I am superficial, whether I like it or it is suitable, it is a great fate to be together and get married, and I must cherish it!

When you meet a bosom friend, you have a good impression and a feeling of hating each other.

I've experienced the marriage of someone who likes me, and I have also experienced the marriage of someone I like, so let me talk about my feelings.

When I was a student, I liked my class president for five years.

When he got married in 2018, I only wrote this blessed sentence in the wedding chronicle he sent to the space: I hope you will overcome your genetic instinct and be able to remain loyal to your other half.

Other than that, there was no more action.

At the moment when I learned that he was going to get married, I felt numb, without any joy, anger or sorrow, probably subconsciously felt that this was a past that exhausted all my strength, and I also knew that we couldn't have any possibility, and it was possible that I subconsciously blocked all my emotions and deliberately numb.

But then I remembered that I hadn't actually done anything for him. I just comforted him when he was unhappy, just chatted with him for a few days, just secretly looked at him during class, just took a very serious time to cheer for everything he did well, just hoped that he would get better and better, just hope that I will get better and better to give him a high-quality lover.

I did put in a lot of energy and effort, and it was true that when I ate the noodles, I still cried when I remembered him, but the time passed after that while.

Later, when I did an internship, I met very good and profitable boys, but I couldn't remember the boys I liked when I was a student.

Then I met another guy I liked but ended up tearing his face, and when he got married, I didn't feel anything but a hint of nausea. Probably the only regret is that I didn't have the means to reach his fiancée so I could tell him all the bad things he did.

The boy I liked recently, I really like it, the kind of love at first sight, I think I probably won't feel anything about him getting married, maybe I may be a cold sideliner, after all, I have been so ruthlessly ignored and don't care, I just viciously hope that he doesn't get what he wants in love, I hope he will never get the girl he really likes.

And I have also met boys who used to like me and told me excitedly that they want to cook for me, to stay in Hangzhou for me, and I have also met boys who will comfort me at the first time when I am sad and find suitable medicine for me.

When I learned that the guy I had rejected who had said he was going to cook for me was going to get married, I actually had a chuckle in my psyche, which is called loss aversion in psychological terms. I think my discomfort is probably due to the fact that I once sincerely had the right to take back the people I had paid.

Yes, I only understood later, I don't have any feelings when the person I like gets married, after all, I have sincerely paid, and I have no regrets about crushes, so I am numb if others get married or not, and people who like me get married, I really feel lost, because there is one less person in this world who loves me.

Will choose to marry a person you don't like, and marrying a person you don't like has the following characteristics.

First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.

It is precisely because there is no affection between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.

Women often think about whether their other half loves them or not, and she feels happy when she feels loved, and feels sad on the contrary.

In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today.

So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.

For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person. Empty respect.

Third, men are more likely to succeed.

A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.

There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.

You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.

Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.

So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe it is happier to choose a suitable marriage partner.

Many people add their feelings on the basis of their initial liking, and finally enter the marriage hall.

You don't need to get married if you like it, but it's better to get married because you like it.