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Yes, nothing is absolute, don't doubt your vision, believe that you will like him, he likes you to prove that you are attractive, he is the type he likes, and the person who doesn't like you proves that you are not attractive in his eyes or that you are not the type he likes. I have a suggestion, just my personal suggestion, I hope it can help you. That is, if you are a girl, you must find someone who loves you to marry, so that you will be happy for a lifetime, don't find a boy who does not love you to marry, then you will be miserable for a lifetime.
Because, as long as he likes you, you have a place in his heart, otherwise, he will treat you inappropriately. I hope you think it through. Don't do things that you will regret for the rest of your life, and don't forget, in the previous society, it has always been the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker, they have no right to be the master, those people don't like each other the same, but in the end?
Aren't you happy? Okay, don't talk about it, as long as you think it's right, do it, and don't do what you don't do wrong. Other people's opinions are just a reference, and the last thing to pay attention to is yourself, as long as you don't regret it.
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This is more convenient to consider. Now there are more and more blind dates, and it doesn't take long for the blind date to get married. In fact, most people who get married on a blind date don't have much love at first. Getting married is like completing a task, what the elders say, how the younger generations do it.
But over time, feelings will slowly develop, so whether or not to marry someone you don't love is not the point. The point is whether the person who is married has no problems in all aspects of morality. As long as there are no problems, you can slowly cultivate feelings after marriage.
Of course, you can also choose not to knot. Marriage is also the independent choice of the parties, marriage is not marriage for the sake of marriage, it is something that two people do to do together for the sake of the future days.
Finally, love or not love is not a prerequisite for marriage, and whether you get married or not should look at the problem more comprehensively.
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Generally speaking, no, because you love each other, you can live happily, but there are exceptions to everything, there is always a gap between reality and ideals, sometimes it is good for two people who don't love to live together, so when it doesn't feel right, you can also give it a try, maybe the other party is your true destiny, but you haven't found it for a while.
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It shouldn't, even if he loves you. If you marry him because you don't love him anymore, that's a disservice to him. Wanting to love is consensual, neither wronging yourself nor hurting others.
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Of course not. If you marry someone you don't love, after remarrying, you will only magnify that person's shortcomings, and you will only hate him more and more.
Therefore, you must think carefully about getting married, and you must get married on the basis of feelings!
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Do you want to marry someone you don't love, I don't think you want to, he doesn't love you anymore, and you will suffer after marrying him. Do you want to marry someone you don't love, I don't think you want to, he doesn't love you anymore, and you will suffer after marrying him. Do you want to marry someone you don't love, I don't think you want to, he doesn't love you anymore, and you will suffer after marrying him.
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Who would marry someone they don't love? How can you marry someone who doesn't love you? Love is mutual, and if you don't love each other, then why get married?
So you must marry the person you love, so that you can make yourself happy and happy, who will marry someone you don't love? How can you marry someone who doesn't love you? Love is mutual, and if you don't love each other, then why get married?
Therefore, you must marry the person you love, so that you can make yourself happy and grow old together.
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I don't think so, but it depends on what you want. If you don't need affection, you want money, and he happens to have a lot of money, then you can get married. If it's your family who wants you to marry him, then my advice is to talk to your family.
Tell them why you don't want to get married. Make your point out.
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Of course not, marriage is based on love, and if there is love, there will be no happiness.
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Don't marry someone you don't love, if two people don't love each other, you won't be happy in the rest of your life.
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Hello! I don't think you should marry someone you don't love, you won't be happy if you marry someone you don't love. Feelings can't be accommodating and reluctant, thank you!
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I don't think it's necessary to marry someone you don't love, because without love, even if you get married, you can't be happy, and there will definitely be a lot of contradictions.
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If you don't love her, but you think she is more suitable for you, and she also thinks that you are suitable for him to get married.
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Definitely not, since you don't like each other so much, will you be happy after you get married?
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Feelings can be cultivated, the most important thing is that you can look at the character of the two of you, the character is very important, you don't love him now, maybe you will love him in the future and find out more about him?
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Do you want to marry someone you don't love, don't marry him if you don't love him, and you won't be happy after marriage.
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Marriage is the grave of love, so what does it matter if you love or not? As long as two people live happily together, why bother, love or not!
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Choose the one that's right for you. Whatever you love or not, it will become tea, rice, oil and salt in the future, so what suits you will go longer.
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I think it depends on what you care about the most, if this merit is greater than all, then you can consider dating him and try to accept him.
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The reality of today's society is that there are very few people who want to love to get married, most of them are married on a blind date, and cultivate feelings after marriage, if he loves you very much, you can try to contact.
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Do you think you can get married without feelings, so you should be ready to get married first and then fall in love, so that it will last for a long time.
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Look at what you're trying to figure out this way, and if you feel that the relationship is not very important, it's okay to get married.
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As long as they are not close relatives, they can get married, but what is said is that they can get married, it does not mean that they will be good or ...... after marriage
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If you don't press it, what's the use of getting married? After that marriage, well, I feel like we're going to be separated.
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It shows that she is dead set on this family, and she is already a fellow traveler to the people in the family, and it has nothing to do with her.
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Choosing to love you is not the same as choosing what you love.
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Do you want to marry someone you don't love? Then it depends on the actual situation, if there is really no suitable for you, then create feelings after marriage, create a foundation for two people to fall in love, so that from not loving to loving, from love to family affection to feelings, this is also quite happy, because for a person who does not love, you create these happy scenes, it can be said that you are a quite successful person.
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I think liking each other is the first element of marriage. Whether it is a man or a woman, they all want to find someone to be with the person they love, and they all hope that the person they love happens to love them, and they can stay with the person they love for a lifetime, and stay with them for a lifetime of happiness and sweetness.
But not everyone can meet someone they like, who happens to like themselves, and the person they love also happens to love themselves. A lot of times, it's the people you like, the people you don't like, and the people who like you don't like them.
Fate always likes to play tricks on people, and it will make many people feel like failure. At the right time, they met the wrong person. No one wants to be with someone they don't love. People who don't love together.
What's it like to be with someone you don't love? These 4 feelings are only present when you are with someone you don't love, and sometimes, they are especially noticeable.
1. Feeling tired.
When you are with the person you love, you will feel very relaxed, always feel that time flies quickly, and there will be a sense of happiness, sweetness, and special satisfaction in your heart.
And with someone I don't love, I always feel tired, I feel that the other person doesn't understand me, doesn't understand me, doesn't understand me, and I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can't do it. didn't walk into each other's hearts, and always felt that there was a gap between the distance between the two people.
Many times, I felt exhausted and had no strength. It's not that the body is tired, but the heart is too tired. All the sadness and hardship are felt by yourself.
2.Feeling lonely.
When you're with the people you love, you feel a sense of security and groundedness. No matter where you are on the planet, you will never feel alone. You can always feel the warm love and each other's presence.
And when you're with someone you don't love, you feel lonely. Even if they are next to each other, they can't feel each other's existence. Your heart is still very bleak, empty, and there is nothing to fill your heart.
Many times, not only lonely, but also very helpless, will become negative and depressed, have no positive attitude, feel that the world is big, and they are too small, they will feel a lot of emotion.
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For a woman, marrying a man she doesn't love, if this man can treat her as a treasure and constantly give her love and warmth, no matter how cold a woman's heart is, it will be slowly melted. When meeting such a man, the woman will slowly discover his goodness and fall in love with the man. In such a situation, a woman will only love the man more and more and depend on him.
After a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will get better and better, and married life will become happier and happier.
If you ask me, I will choose to be with the person I like, if I am reluctant to be with the person I don't like, it will be a lifetime thing, and it will be very uncomfortable. My husband just has no money, and he usually quarrels with him, but he also laughs when he quarrels, and is very happy together, we are friends who talk about themselves, and there is true love between them, when they were together, because he had no money, my family was also against it, but I was willing to be with him, and they finally agreed. If you are with someone you don't love for money, and you don't have feelings at all, that kind of marriage will not last long.
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If you ask that, I think you have doubts in your heart, and if you have doubts, I think it's best not to apply for a marriage license with him.