and their first love are married, is it still necessary to contact?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is no need to contact again, because you both have families, and if you do that, you may have a misunderstanding with your husband and wife, and this may damage your respective families after a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Many people have a first love complex, since they already have a better half of each other, let's keep this emotion in our hearts and don't disturb each other. Of course, if it is necessary to make contact, it is still possible; If it's more frequent, forget it, it's easy to affect your own life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    and the first love are married, I don't think there is any need to contact each other, if you still have contact, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other half, and it will also affect your family, so I hope you are okay, there is no need to bother each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    They are all married, of course, there is no need to contact.

    If you come across it by chance.

    There's no need to die of old age.

    But it's not appropriate to keep in touch deliberately.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that there is no need to contact, since we have all broken up, there is nothing to contact, and it is even more unnecessary to have my own family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First love and you have their own new life and their own partner, for the ex, not to bother, is the best respect.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now that you've broken up, your relationship is a thing of the past, and you're both married, there's certainly no need to be in touch.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    and their first love are married separately, so there is no need to contact each other, and they can't block their other half.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since they are both married, the two of them can change roles and contact each other as if they were good friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Look at you, you can contact yourself if you want to, and don't contact if you don't want to contact.

    But I advise my brother not to pick wildflowers on the roadside.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The first love is married, so I don't think there is any need to contact each other, because it is better not to keep in touch for the sake of the future family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think if you can let go of your past feelings, you can still be ordinary friends, and it is not a big deal to get together when everyone is okay and bring your lover.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After getting married, I will not contact my first love again, because since the two of us have separated and have found my other half, I should be responsible for her, and I will be better for my other half after marriage; Sometimes, maybe the memory of first love is the most beautiful, staying in the mind, and memories can only be memories, and there should be no other thoughts; If you contact her first love again, it will definitely have an impact on her life, which is not just a matter of two people, but may affect two families. So after getting married, it's best to stop contacting the previous personnel.

    A man should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. You should also be responsible for your other half after getting married. You should treat your wife wholeheartedly, and you shouldn't have any other thoughts. Of course, women should do the same with their marriage and their other half.

    Personally, I think that since I have chosen to get married, and the person who marries is not my first love, I should completely cut off the relationship with those impossible people and things. Be a clean and neat person, not at night. The previous thing has passed, let it pass, turn the page, since the two people did not come together in the end, it is fate.

    We must cherish the people and things in front of us and live every day in the future.

    Even if you want to connect with your first love, maybe the other person is already married, so don't disturb other people's lives, there is also a kind of love called letting go. Seeing that the person you once liked can live a happy life, you shouldn't worry about it anymore.

    The above is just a personal opinion, live your own life, don't let some irrelevant people affect your life, people should look forward and continue to move forward. On the other hand, if your partner is still in contact with your first love after getting married, will you agree? Do you think you should still connect with your first love after you get married?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I wouldn't choose to connect with my first love; Because it doesn't make sense, it's not necessary, and it feels disrespectful to the other half of the marriage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I definitely wouldn't choose to contact my first love, because I'm already married to someone else, and then I want to contact him, and my first love may not be good, and I don't want to interfere with his personal life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No. Because since I'm married, I have to keep my distance from the opposite sex, and I've already broken up, so it's awkward to contact again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First love is an existence that many people can't let go, and it is also a hidden danger for married couples. Should you keep in touch with your first love after getting married? In other words, is it okay to contact your first love when you are married?

    1. Be okay with each other, as long as you don't break the thread and be worthy of your other half, just be the stranger you know best.

    2. It's okay to be the most ordinary friend, don't be too close, if you have any feelings for him that are difficult to give up, then I think forget it, because since you are married, you must focus on the family.

    3. Of course, many lovers can become better friends after separation, because everyone has been in love together and knows each other. But be sure to keep your distance and don't let others misunderstand, especially your current lover! You can be honest and honest!

    You can come out together, let your lover see your current relationship with him, and let your former lover see that you are living happily now. This kills two birds with one stone!

    Of course, after investigation, many people do not believe that first lovers can become friends.

    Reason 1, although time can wash away everything, but it can't wash away the old scars, the two can't become lovers, they will inevitably leave a shadow in their hearts, and becoming friends is the process of uncovering the scars again and again, and no one can be completely relieved.

    Reason 2, because he was your first love, you have loved each other, so you can't be enemies, because you have broken up and hurt, so you can't be friends, you can only be the most familiar stranger.

    Reason 3, the consequences of becoming friends with your first love also need to be known. If one or both partners already have a new partner, they will have to take into account the feelings of the other half, and few people will be so generous to accept you as friends. Second, it is easy to become friends with your first love, and it is easy to have an old relationship** and hurt two families, so you can't be friends.

    Summary: Whether you can become friends with your first love mainly depends on yourself, although I believe that there are many people who can become friends, but there are very few people who are truly relieved after becoming friends, and it is not uncommon to bring further harm. If you don't have to be a confidant with your first love, why bother yourself?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After getting married, you should cut off contact with your first love. Don't get in touch anymore. Otherwise, it will hurt your family.

    Don't get in touch anymore. My advice: don't get in touch anymore.

    After getting married, you should cut off contact with your first love. Don't get in touch anymore. Otherwise, it will hurt your family and your children.

    Don't get in touch anymore. My advice: don't get in touch anymore.

    After getting married, you should cut off contact with your first love. Don't get in touch anymore. After getting married, you should cut off contact with your first love.

    Don't get in touch anymore. Don't get in touch anymore. Don't get in touch anymore.

    Don't get in touch anymore.

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