The person I used to like is getting married, should I go?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it's better not to go, there's no need to go, it's impossible to get it back even if he's married, going will only increase his sadness, and it may also affect other people's marriages.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, there is no point in such a thing, and it will only increase sadness after going, so there is no need to go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You shouldn't go, if you go, you will be touched, and at the same time, you will be very sad, you can choose to send him blessings, and you can also leave yourself a certain amount of decency.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    <> two people really love each other, there is a high probability that they will end up together. But high probability is not equal to absolute, in fact, there are many people in the world who love each other and fail to be together in the end.

    Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not just a matter of two people, it is not enough to conclude a marriage by two people who love each other, although the ideal marriage should be the world's lovers eventually become dependents, but in reality, the external conditions of both men and women, the wishes of parents, the attitude of relatives and friends, will more or less affect the marriage and love feelings of two people. If the external conditions of the man and the woman are not well matched, and the gap is large, then there is a high probability that they will incur more or less various kinds of interference from their parents, relatives and friends, and if the interference is fierce enough and the secular prejudice is strong enough to cause one or both parties to dare not disobey, then even if the two people are in love with each other at the beginning, they may break up due to these powerful external reasons.

    Furthermore, love itself is a process, with beginnings, warming, declines and even death. Most people's love is in this process. It's just that the process varies from person to person, and there are long and short times.

    True love is not necessarily the same as forever in love, if the conditions for marriage are not ripe in the process of true love, and when the conditions are ripe, one or both parties change their minds, then in the end they still can't come together.

    It's not that two people can always be together if they are really together, they will always face a lot of problems and contradictions in the process of getting along, if they can be well resolved, or there are good solutions and tacit understanding in the face of contradictions, the possibility of two people being together is greater, and it is just bigger, you must know that no matter how beautiful the beginning of love is, you must always go through the test of life, the baptism of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, only in these aspects can stick to the love, can really last!

    However, although people who truly love each other may not necessarily be together, but two people can truly love each other, and there is a high probability that their internal and external conditions are very compatible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It will definitely come to the end, because marrying the person you like, all kinds of things you encounter in life can also be well solved, and the relationship between the two people is relatively stable, which can make a solid foundation for marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It may not necessarily go to the end, because there are many trivial things in life that two people have to face after marriage, and if they can't stick to their original intentions in the process, or if there are serious differences between two people, they may not be able to go to the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it will necessarily be able to go to the end, because after getting married, it is very likely that there will be a lot of conflicts because of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's hard to say, but for the sake of small children it will probably go all the way to the end.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go, because although you can't be a couple, you can be friends, and sending blessings can be regarded as the end of this relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are invited, of course, you have to be generous, love is two-sided, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course you want to go, since you are the person you liked many years ago, and now you haven't caught up, you can only bless each other, not together, being friends, it's also a good choice

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you should go, since you have liked her for many years, you must feel uncomfortable when she gets married, it is better to let everything be cut off, cut off all contact.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Isn't it a beautiful thing to watch each other be happy in the last moments?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's better not to go, going will only add to the sadness, it will be more uncomfortable, so forget about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You still shouldn't go. Because if you go there, you're going to be very sad, you're going to cry there.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Should. Because after all, it's someone I've liked for many years, and she also informed you that it's not appropriate not to go, so I think you should go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think there's any need to go, and going will only make me feel very uncomfortable inside, so it's better to silently bless the other party and keep a proper distance.

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