What should I do if I am afraid that others will be unhappy, I live carefully, and I am so tired?

Remember that life is your own business, not for others to see, and why do you look at other people's faces if you don't beg for food from others.

It's too tiring to live like this, and you can live as you like, and others like to say that when he says it, he doesn't lack anything. I just like to see you unhappy with me and can't get rid of it.

Be your best, there is no need to look at other people's moods to do things, so that you will become weaker and weaker to listen to other people's opinions and dare not refute them, and you don't need to look at other people's moods to do things boldly.

For example, your mother said that the food you cooked was not delicious and said that your two sentences might hurt you about 10%, but you imagined that the damage was ten times higher, and thinking about the serious things caused you to be very nervous and cautious to live.

If you don't have the right mentality, you can consult a psychologist to relieve your pain.

You think too much and too carefully, you can do it again if you don't do a good job, and people's conflicts intensify, and most of them are their own interests lost or harmed. You just do your own thing and don't care about what others feel. (Your mother is straightforward, and she said that she would forget it if she didn't care about herself in the future, you should have your mother's mentality).

Girl, I feel that your self-confidence is not strong enough, and you have no confidence in yourself, everyone will make mistakes, don't be afraid, put your mentality a little better, your father reprimands you, you can take him as a push for yourself, become the motivation to work hard, as long as you work hard to make yourself better, you are not afraid of no friends, as long as you treat people sincerely, others will find your shining point, I feel that you need to mention self-confidence, to have self-confidence, to answer questions in class in order to be good, will not feel worse than others, The heart will no longer be afraid, but also have to work hard, become better, hard work is always proportional to self-confidence, if your junior high school friend is really good to you, you also really make friends with him, then don't be careful, friends are the spiritual pillar, used to relax. You can also relax at the right time, go out for afternoon tea, talk to people, and don't let yourself get too tired.

...Well. You have entered a misunderstanding, you are immersed in your own definition of "good person", and persistently close to this definition, the problem is that the direction you identify is almost meaningless to your own development, can only bring you temporary self-satisfaction, when the time passes, you will naturally have such troubles as now, be casual, casual is not willful, when you want to express yourself truthfully, ignore the unfounded humility and concerns in your heart, in order to open a gap in your closed atrium and give others accessand also give yourself the opportunity to go out.

In particular, I said that if you enter the wrong place, it does not mean that you are doing it incorrectly, but at least it is not good for yourself.

The strong are lonely, but if you want to find friends, first show your sense of need, you will be all, how can others participate, so, I think, either you will be lonely to the end, or you will learn to make mistakes, everyone is a person for the first time, afraid so much, how to live happily.

Afraid of a ghost, what are you afraid of!!

Hello, most people who have not established an independent and confident character in their childhood and adolescence will have more confusion in adulthood, for many reasons, poor family background, indifference to family affection, alienation, family trauma, low self-esteem, etc., but the same bad environment, but some strong people have also developed an independent and confident character, for example, some orphans, should learn from them. As for your situation, don't be afraid, the sky can't fall, as long as you are not wrong, don't be afraid of anything, build self-confidence, overcome your fears, and work hard to live your own life, I sincerely hope to help you.

My dear, life is one time, why do you care so much about other people's thoughts, how tired, you can't take care of yourself, take care of yourself first and then take care of others, self-confidence is the most beautiful! People grow up in continuous failure and setbacks, don't be afraid, come on, come on, come on!

First of all, ask yourself in the depths of your heart what is the reason why you are the way you are, everything has a reason, if you can't answer it now, then you ask yourself every day until you know the reason, and then talk about the change.

People should be cautious when living in the world, such as walking on thin ice, less contact with Internet garbage culture, and it will be better to ask friends out to sit down.

It may be that he is afraid of loneliness, and he is afraid that he will be abandoned by others if he does something wrong, so he is bent on pleasing him. You can try to do something alone, go to a restaurant alone, watch a movie alone, go shopping alone, cultivate some living habits of a person, maybe after getting used to it, you will gradually not care what others think of you, and you will not be careful. Come on.

It's always bad to be too perfect, so let it go a little bit and don't suffocate yourself.

Belongs to the type without self-confidence, just like me! You need to enlighten yourself, tell yourself to live for yourself, don't care what others think, and don't let yourself live too tired! If you don't adjust your mentality, you will be prone to depression.

Don't be confident, don't try to prove anything to others, just be yourself.

Because you have low self-esteem, so do I.

Go your own way, there's no need to please others!

People live a lifetime mainly for their own happiness.

People live for a lifetime, there must be difficulties, just be true to yourself, don't be too depressed, you don't have to look at other people's eyes all the time, but also show yourself appropriately, show yourself.

It's not easy for people to live for a lifetime, so why suppress yourself and let it be!

You have low self-esteem and no self-confidence, which is related to your growth, and it is recommended to communicate with people more.

I was too obedient when I was a child! I'm afraid that others will say that I am not good!

Thinking too much, who in the crowd can pay attention to you.

Go out and communicate with friends more often, so that you can become less lonely. When you are sad, you can go out for a walk and see the scenery. This is also a kind of beauty in life, which comes from nature.

Learn to improve yourself. Make yourself sunny and energetic. Naturally, there will be more friends.

It is recommended that you take a look at "Sage Education Changes Destiny" Character is destiny, and thought is destiny. All external circumstances are the embodiment of one's own heart. The world is beautiful, go to the sunny and positive road, come on!

Keep yourself busy and you don't have so many pretentious ideas.

It's the same with me. I'm also trying to change myself, and I wish you a speedy way out of your troubles.

Sickness comes from the mouth, and trouble comes out of the mouth. If you don't speak, no one will treat you as a mute! It's better to say less.

You see that those who are big officials always swallow slowly when they speak, for fear of saying the wrong thing, and the words they say are like splashing out and dripping, and they can't get the drops back, and if they say it wrong, the problem will be even more serious! As you say, it's better not to say it! Hey!

People often say that learning is learning, in fact, practice is also learning, and it is more important to learn, you can do it without speaking! Instead of talking, "do" can sometimes have the effect of doing more with less (lalala!). Rattle!

That's because you care too much about her opinions and ideas, you are about to lose yourself, maybe you love her very much! Loving someone too much is quite tiring, and because you love her, it is easy to lose yourself, you just do what you should do, just be your true self, don't deliberately try to give her up, if she doesn't dislike your nature, prove that she can tolerate you, you are suitable together, if she always dislikes you, it proves that you are not suitable, and if you go on like this, you will only live more tired.

Communicate more with each other;

1. When you first fell in love, how did the parties get along with each other, and how should they get along now;

2. Find out the reason why your girlfriend is always making trouble, whether it is because of the personal ability of the person concerned, or whether the other party is insecure;

3. If it is the former, you should communicate clearly with the other party in time to let them understand that you have done your best and done your best;

4. If it is the latter, you need to understand why the other party is insecure;

5. If it is because the relationship between the opposite sex is too good, it should be improved.

That's because you don't give her enough security, have you considered some things from yourself, why she is angry, have you considered her feelings when you do things, and find reasons from yourself in everything so that you can go on for a long time.

You'd better give her a break.

There's no need to care about the little things.

Otherwise, how tiring it would be to live.

If a man really loves you, he won't refuse at all, and it's impossible to have no time or help himself! It's not easy for anyone to be busy at work! Or look at the open point and choose someone who is really good to you! The melon you want is not sweet, and you are not happy.

Then find another one. Sometimes it feels right. I'm busy and I'll take care of my girlfriend.

I still need to know more about what he can't help himself, and whether he can face it together.

When there are many secrets, love fades and people are tired.

It's not interesting to talk about two people who love to talk carefully. Divide it.

It's too tired to be over. This kind of person gets married and you regret dropping!