What do you think is the root cause of hatred?

In fact, if you hate this thing, it is really difficult to dissolve. It can only be said that when your ideological realm is completely improved, and then you really see this thing through from the heart, and if you think about it, you can resolve it. Otherwise. It's hard to forget.

I think the best way to resolve hatred is for everyone to make a step to reconcile grievances, don't keep thinking about how sorry the other party is for themselves, and try to find more fault with themselves, because quarrels and hatred cannot be caused by one person. Leniency is the best way to solve this problem.

I think the fundamental way to resolve hatred is that two people can calmly explain what happened, thoroughly understand that they are wrong, and two people should be kind-hearted, know how to be considerate of others, and look at some things, so that they can resolve hatred very well.

You have to find the essence of the problem, if you want to resolve the hatred, you need to understand what the reason for the hatred was in the first place, when you understand this, you will understand, what you need to resolve this hatred.

I think the way to let go of hatred at all, the way to resolve hatred, there are only two words, that is, relief, as long as you don't see these hatreds as important, don't keep the previous pain in mind, forgive others, so that you can fundamentally resolve the hatred of the other party, let go of others, and let yourself go.

I think the way to resolve hatred is to sit together with two people, discuss what happened, explain things clearly, and tell each other the idea of resolving hatred. Sincerely repent, no matter which party's fault, should we forgive the other party, one more friend and one more way? Besides, both sides will feel better.

I think the root of defusing hatred is to make us less hateful about this thing. Let both sides feel that this matter is actually not a big deal, and I think this hatred is very completely resolved. And if you just oppress each other, or fight each other, you will never be able to resolve hatred.

I think that if you want to fundamentally resolve hatred, then solve the problem fundamentally, two people face each other face to face to point out the point of dissatisfaction with each other, blame each other, maybe in the process of discovering those misunderstandings, 80% of the world's hatred may be because of misunderstandings.

The best way to retaliate against others is to make yourself more glamorous than him, and being better than him is the greatest humiliation to him.

Enrich yourself: Making yourself good is the best way for others. Use your strength to throw the other party away and let him see the gap between you. I haven't found out for a few years that you're not a class at all.

How to resolve a person's hatred:

Hatred is one of the negative emotions of human beings, and it is also the most likely emotion for human beings to produce and accumulate, and many people's solutions to this emotion are often simple and crude.

There are also many people who bury this seed in their hearts, and over time, this seed also sprouts, generates, and eventually explodes on a terrible side.

The Scottish philosopher Hume believed that "hatred is a sense of bondage, and it cannot be defined". Indeed, once the seeds of hatred have taken root in our hearts, they always linger.

Ways to defuse hatred in one's heart:

1. Learn to face it and face what has happened.

2. Know how to be tolerant, no matter whether the harm of others is intentional or unintentional, you must have a tolerant heart, forget hatred, and be tolerant of yourself.

3. You should be calm, you should be calm, and nothing is unpassable.

4. Forget Liang Liang to remember a period of hatred and let go of a past, not to choose to forgive, but to choose not to want, sometimes it is a good choice to ignore it.

5. Choose to travel, relax, and forget about unhappy things.

As the saying goes, it is better to settle grievances than to settle them, and we will inevitably have friction and disputes with colleagues and neighbors in our ordinary work and life, and these frictions and disputes will inevitably ferment and produce many big problems after a long time.

If it is not solved in time, it will affect our normal work and life, so no one will want to find some enemies for themselves. Therefore, it is very necessary to resolve the contradictions in time and extricate oneself from the predicament.

Look at each other and smile, tolerate and understand, and forgive more, perhaps, your life will meet another village at the intersection of the next peak and loop. <>

With gratitude and compassion, we can let go of hatred.

Even the wicked people in the world need to be grateful, because if they hadn't shown evil in front of you, you wouldn't have pursued the good dharma, and you know that hatred is bad, so you'll come and seek a way to let go of it, and the cause of all this is the good seed in your heart and the evil people who make you miserable. This is gratitude.

The wicked people in the world are just people who follow their karma, and because they have not encountered the good Dharma in their lives and have fallen into the evil path, they are very pitiful, because they are not like you, because they have encountered the good Dharma and there are many good seeds in their hearts that can sprout even among the wicked. They are blinded by their own ignorance and attachment, and they cling to fighting each other to get out of the sea of suffering, but they don't know that the struggle itself is the cause of the sea of suffering. And you can have compassion, bodhichitta and hope that one day they too will come out of their confusion.

This is compassion.

If you become hateful, you will start fighting like them, and you will create a sea of misery for yourself, and it will be difficult to get into it and then come out.

Amitabha.

"It is advisable to settle the dispute, endure the anger of the moment to avoid a hundred worries, and take a step back to open the sky".If you can grasp the essence of these quotes, you will be able to dissolve the hatred in your heart. Go for it! Start from the origin and create brilliance.

I know that I am ugly like this, and I want to let go of hatred and let go of myself, but hatred is like ,.. addictionIs your heart full of hatred because you still love him? Or is it because you are unwilling? Think about whether you still love him ,..

A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye. If you want to report it, report it as soon as possible, don't delay.

Punish! Call the police or go buy your own wolf guard.

Punish! Be darker and more feminine to get revenge on those who hurt you! Or you can open the knot and not care.

It takes a huge amount of faith It's hard to change a person's mindset First of all, I'm angry right now I want revenge, I want to vent, but I can't! You're different, you have a chance to get revenge on your mother, you can let go and hate !! You don't twist your heart, you're happy!

I hope to enlighten you and at the same time open my heart knots myself, good luck!

Only forgiveness, I believe that your mother has a last resort to abandon you!

Forgive her! Only forgiveness can completely liberate oneself!

If you hate her beyond forgiveness, you can choose to forget!

It is unlikely that the hatred will be completely dissolved, that is, the hatred will be controlled within a controllable range. This is extremely important for a person, if you can't control the hatred in your heart, you may stumble into a thousand hatreds, and put your future or even your life into it, especially bad for your family.

Those murderers in prison are not just worse than others, they are the same as ordinary people, they are generally quite peaceful, but in some specific circumstances, the flood of emotions has burst the embankment, causing very bad consequences, and everyone can't control their behavior to a certain extent.

How can hatred be eliminated? Hatred is an emotion, sometimes very strong, and reason is completely irrelevant. When you have a strong hatred, take a deep breath or think about something else that makes you hate, so that the hatred of another thing will dilute the hatred of what is happening in the moment and avoid acting stupidly and uncontrollably.

Normally, you may be able to think rationally, but the emotion of hatred may not be eliminated at all, after all, people are emotional animals, and it is good to keep hatred under control.

1. Take the initiative to communicate with the person who hates and resents in your heart.

2. When hatred suddenly arises in the heart, you should control the hatred within a controllable range and soothe your emotions.

3. Put yourself in your shoes and try to empathize with the person you hate in your heart.

4. Help yourself to forget hatred so that you don't think about hatred anymore.

5. Try to confide in others about your troubles, perhaps the words of others will make you feel more enlightened.

Sixth, seeing more of the world and increasing experience, you may be able to change your concept and mentality, and soothe your emotions.

Seventh, self-cultivation and self-cultivation, so that the mind becomes peaceful. You can find some books related to psychology and read them more often, enlighten yourself, or learn Zen, that is, Buddhist terms, in the process of learning, you can calm your mind, learn to look down on the world, and forgive others.

8. Seek consultation and treatment from a psychologist or psychologist or psychiatrist. If the problem of psychological hatred is caused by psychological and mental illness caused by repression for too long, it is recommended to seek consultation with a psychologist or doctor as soon as possible, so as to avoid the symptoms of the disease being too serious and causing irreversible consequences.

1. Always be grateful.

We can't choose our parents, but we can choose our own attitude towards life. The world is so big, without parents, there will be no grandson to burn us, and the grace of birth and nurturing is greater than the sky.

Compared to the life given by the parents, ideologically"Imperfections"It seems insignificant. Even if our parents don't do well, we must always be grateful, because often remembering the warmth given by our parents can help us resolve some of our dissatisfaction and resentment.

Second, you still need to rely on yourself on the road of life.

In the TV series "It's All Good", Su's mother can smash pots and sell iron for her son's schooling, and even sell the house, but Mingyu just wanted to spend money to enroll in a tutoring class, but was ordered to stop by Su's mother, and finally Mingyu ran away from home with grief and anger.

Many years later, Mingyu is already a gold collar in the workplace, and she has walked out of it on her own"Sunshine Boulevard"When material abundance and spiritual prosperity are achieved, the past grievances and hatreds will be alleviated.

Third, the bell must be tied to the bell.

As the saying goes, the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat, even if the parents have the idea of preferring sons over daughters, I believe that they also love their daughters.

Since you have a problem in your heart, it is better to sit down with your parents, talk openly and honestly, tell your parents your thoughts, and at the moment when you "release your suspicions" and hug your parents, all the complaints and hatred will be resolved.

4. Seek professional help.

When you have a long-standing bad mood in your heart, when you can't solve it independently, it is better to seek professional help.

You can find a psychologist or psychological counselor, and under professional guidance and resolution, complaints and hatred will also be well resolved.

Mu Guiying is in command, and Hua Mulan is in the army for her father, this series of allusions all tell: Who said that women are not as good as men.

Personally, I think that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, since they are fathers and mothers, they should give the same love to their children, so that a qualified parent should do.