What should I do if I have a family war with my mother?

Always remember that everything you have is given to you by this person.

Your life, your mind, your everything!

No matter what, your parents will always be your dearest people!

Life is short, and we must cherish every minute and every second of our family together.

The main reason why she scolds you is that you don't help her do things, what else do you have to complain about, continue to be lazy if you want to quarrel with her, and be diligent if you want family harmony.

Don't forget, you were born and raised, you are your mother, and your mother may be in a bad mood right now, or in menopause, which is a symptom of menopause.

Isn't your mom tired of housework You can try to help your mom with housework.

I think she's going to be in a good mood.

I think what the second floor said makes sense, because when I was in elementary school, I would be beaten by my mother at every turn, she would beat me no matter whether I was right or wrong, and even I would be beaten if I persuaded my younger siblings not to fight, to be honest, I hated her very much at that time, but when she died, I was very heartbroken, and I missed her beating me and scolding me for a long time, so you have to know that you are much happier than me!

Although life is given by them. But I can't recognize them, beat them, and scold them. We have our rights. You should make it clear to them. If you really can't do it, you will have a cold war.

To be a child is to endure. Honoring one's parents is a matter of course.

When you notice that she knows a little bit about herself but does not compromise with you for the sake of face, do not admit your mistakes, but respect her and tie her up to do housework, come to convince people with virtue, she sees that you are sensible, he will be ashamed if he doesn't say it, if she is not reasonable, you will have one more handle for her (she is small) The people around you are also determined to support you and criticize her, and if you insist on your own opinions, won't you kill two birds with one stone, try it.

You do a little more housework.

I think you should rebel.

You're going to sit down with her and talk.

Say to your mother: How can you bear it?

Patience is also a kind of filial piety, what's the big deal to have to fight with your mother?

Listening to you say this, the people on your mother's side have quite a "role". Therefore, it is not recommended to have a very stiff relationship with a cunning person. Because, from the outside world, she is your mother after all, and she can not be close, but she can't act aggressively or disrespectfully.

I don't know if there's any time to use them. But the heart can be like a mirror, and good and evil can be distinguished. Having a stiff relationship with such a "role" can do more harm than good.

What you have to do now is to study hard with all your heart, and do what you can for your grandfather and aunt in addition to studying, such as housework or something.

After learning to work, be filial to your grandfather, aunt and other relatives who have helped you, this is what you need to do the most.

In short, you don't need to think too much about unnecessary things, your first task at the moment is to study hard, find a good job in the future, and then repay the people who have really worked for you.

You can be prepared to talk to your mom about this once, and that's the most feasible way to solve it. If she doesn't make changes, then she's too materialistic. If your mother does not dissolve the relationship with you, you can take legal action against your mother and recover your lost rights.

Although this may seem cruel, if you think about how she did to you, there is every reason to seek legal help.

Your grandpa and grandma are definitely not good people! You should cut ties with them! You've been tired enough in the past 19 years!

They are not human, your life is miserable, I am somewhat like you, but not as horrible as you. You're going to have to survive this kind of life.

Huh....Hard-working child! God will bless you!

Congratulations, you are finally an adult, and in the future you can rely on your own strength to support your grandparents, those who really love you, so, please study hard, strive to get a scholarship, learn cultural knowledge, lay a good foundation, and bring happiness to your grandparents with your own hands in the future! Come on, persistence is victory!

She is not worthy of being a mother, she has not fulfilled the obligations of a mother! Draw a line with her! When you become an adult, you can support yourself, don't get entangled with her, you can't take advantage of being entangled with such a scheming woman....

How do you do that? Of course, it's to live strong and draw a line with them, not for others, but for your grandfather!

Two words are best used to describe them: selfishness.

First of all, think about it calmly by yourself, why did you quarrel with your parents, and what is the essence of the problem?

If you really make a mistake, then you have to have the courage to admit your mistakes in front of your parents, or you feel that you can't get over your face, you can work more for your parents, brush the pot, etc., your parents love us, they will definitely forgive us when they see us so well-behaved!

If it's the parents' fault, don't worry about it, they are old, some things don't understand or the brain is institutionalized, then you can help them work at home, don't mention who is right and who is wrong, after a long time, your parents see that you are so filial, they will slowly figure it out, and they will calmly resolve a misunderstanding!

When you meet parents who love to lose their temper and are unreasonable, you must not be hard to be a child, you must learn to convince people with virtue, overcome rigidity with softness, and do what you should do to the extreme, even a piece of iron will be melted!

Some fathers will start beating people, at this time you should avoid the edge, explain things clearly to him, if you really can't go to a friend's house for a few days, wait for the limelight, after all, your parents will not harm you, they may hate iron and steel, and they will not really want to do it to you!

If you have a physical conflict with your father in a moment of excitement, you must take the initiative to apologize afterwards, and your parents can't do anything with them no matter how wrong they are, and since the matter has happened, you must respectfully apologize to your parents, otherwise we will be infamous for being unfilial!

One: Don't talk back.

When mom is angry, don't rush to clarify her point of view, there is nothing to say at this time. It's best to just listen quietly.

2 6 II: Slowly.

That's right, no matter what you want to say, wait a day or two, and wait until your mother is emotionally stable and not angry.

3 6 III: Be active in housework.

There is something to be done, this still makes sense. If you want your mother to find out that you are diligent, and then your mother will be curious about what you are going to do, it is better to say it at this time.

4 6 IV: Do not lie.

Many contradictions are caused by lies being exposed. So be honest at the beginning, say it step by step, such as "It may be a little troublesome, Mom, you are mentally prepared" Don't just say it directly, such as "Mom, I scored 30 points in the test, and the teacher called you to go to school".

The correct approach should be "Mom, I want to apologize to you, I didn't do well in the exam this time, I'm really useless, I still haven't done well in the exam after reviewing for so long, Mom, I will continue to work hard, I may need to trouble Mom to go to school." ”

5 6 V: Be mentally prepared to be rejected and scolded.

After talking to my mother, my mother disagreed. At this time, don't be in a hurry to get angry, and immediately shake cruel words and say hurtful things. You should be patient, point out the pros and cons of doing this, and it is best to tell your mother about your plan and worst-case scenario, mainly explaining the "why", "how", and "what the backup plan is".

6 6 Six: Make sure mom can understand.

Don't make up the jargon, it's easy for your mother to misunderstand what you mean. At the same time, when talking to your mother, both parties are not busy, don't talk about things when your mother is busy, because it is easy to miss your words at this time, and then you can't get the answer you want.

In any case, you still have to respect your elders, your mother is resolute in her opposition, and you have to think calmly about whether what you insist on is really wrong, after all, your mother is also good for us.

Precautions: Calm down.

Who likes to lose their temper? She may have a lot of troubles that others can't understand, you try to understand, help to explain, sometimes the parents' distress is not understood by the children and family, and can not be solved, only take the opportunity to lose her temper.

In addition, as a family member, you should be able to think about her everywhere, if she thinks in her heart that you are knowing that you don't do it, she will be angry when she thinks about it. If you are not particularly considerate of others, it is inevitable that she will repeat it over and over again, and even worse, you will not realize the seriousness of the situation until others lose their temper, so that you will develop the habit of not losing your temper and not speaking.

Well, it's painful not to be understood by the people closest to you, and it's understandable when you feel sad and wronged. I think the main problem is communication. You can sit in a cordial conversation when your parents are in a good mood, tell them your thoughts and feelings, and also understand your mother's feelings and views on problems, jointly find the root cause of conflicts and differences, and solve them together At the same time, you can greet your parents more in the small things of daily life, so that they can feel your love for them, such as helping your mother do some housework, and take the initiative to come out to greet them when you come back from work.

Maintain a calm tone when talking to your mother, no matter what the situation, and make her feel her love for her. May you have a harmonious family.

1. Take the initiative to communicate. Usually talk to parents about things at school and confusion in learning, and talk to parents about psychology, so that parents can understand their children's inner thoughts.

2. Empathy. Don't talk back to your parents at every turn, think more from your parents' point of view, and be considerate of your parents' feelings and difficulties.

3. Respect and understanding. When you go out, you should take the initiative to contact your parents so that your parents don't worry, listen to your parents' views, and at the same time put forward your own opinions. When there is a difference of opinion, both sides should calmly consider the reasons for the difference and how to resolve it.

Achieve the communication results of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

4. Be more tolerant. We don't have to worry about it, because our parents are the people who love us the most, and they are also the people we love the most.

5. If there is a mistake, correct it. Don't hide your mistakes and let our parents, who are our best friends, help us correct our mistakes.

If the quarrel is serious, don't go home yet. Think about the reason for the quarrel, it should be right or wrong, if the fault is you, in this regard, you can find a way to make amends. If the fault isn't yours, then you don't want it either.

Unforgiving. There are some things that you can do by yourself, and there is no way to do this.

You also have to think about it, it is not easy to be a mother, she says that you are too much, it proves that she values you very much, and you can think of some right ways to avoid her nagging. After all, being a mother is not easy! You must learn to cherish it, and don't know how to regret it until you lose it, it's too late.

1.Hold your horses.

2.Think about it and don't worry about your loved ones.

3.Mom is always for your good, forgive your parents for some little waywardness, and have time to talk to them.

When I quarreled with my mother, I tried to find a way to make my mother happy. Buy her some gifts.

It's good to run away from home for a while.

Do you agree with the phrase "your parents want you to be good and have a good life"? In fact, you are not wrong, but you can't say that your mother is wrong, your mother's approach is true, and any child can't stand it, because it will affect your children's love and marriage for a long time, don't think about complaining, don't fight who is right and who is wrong, people have thoughts and feelings, so you have to try to talk to your mother about it, and your tone and attitude are very important when you talk about it, what kind of mentality you have, determines which direction your things will develop, Tell your mother about it from the bottom of your heart, you can't solve the suffering of your daughter, which parent would be willing to do this, which parent doesn't want her daughter to marry happily! Right!

Don't be preoccupied with knowing who is right and who is wrong? I want to talk to my mother about my marriage!

Your current life is really annoying, in fact, your mother does not have the ability to break up your family, at most it is to convince you, control you as the source, and the legal recognition is the ...... between your partiesFrom the status quo, you alone are not convinced by your mother, to be precise, your mother does not necessarily look down on your husband, but more on your husband's family conditions, I don't know your two families' respective family concepts, and the status of members, if you can, you can discuss, your mother doesn't want you to live in that family, so is it possible for you and your husband to move back to your house? Of course, it also depends on your husband's parents, in fact, parents hope that their children can live happily for a lifetime. Secondly, you can't convince your mom, can you talk to your dad?

and other relatives, I think you should learn to speak, find some suitable reasons, since you already have legal documents (marriage certificate), then your family at least has recognition, I hope you communicate with them, but also listen to their opinions, don't keep holding a little, some entanglement. As long as your husband's parents-in-law are still very good to you, and they will be happy in the future, if they also have different intentions for you, only a reliable husband, I hope you will think ......twiceMaybe you are still very young, and ignoring some problems will cause you a lot of trouble in the future, think more and think more, don't look at the superficial phenomenon. Secondly, no matter what, don't have a dead heart, first, you are really unfilial, and it is very difficult to raise you for more than ten years and twenty years.

The second is that you have a child of your own, and if you don't want him to be pitiful, don't do stupid things. In fact, there is a most extreme means to calm everything, but I don't want to tell you, I don't want to ......I understand your parents very well and I understand your emotions, but it's a pity, it's a pity that ......