What kind of security do you identify with?

Probably, when I need you, you can be there for me.

For me, home is my eternal haven where I feel safe at all times. No matter how much pain and speed you have suffered outside, you can be relieved at home, and you can be relieved by the smiles of your wife and daughter until it disappears. Home is the center and starting point of my sense of security.

The other party completely believes in himself, will not doubt himself, will not suspect himself.

Someone will take care of you when you go out, and someone will come forward to help you when you are in trouble.

When it comes to love, I want to feel safe that I have a girl to talk to, and he can generously say that I have a girlfriend. When she gets something delicious, she can think about it and say bring me one. When I quarrel with someone, I don't ask me what's going on, but what happened to him, let me when I quarrel, instead of reasoning with me.

Of course, if you admit that you are wrong, I will not gain an inch, I will reflect on my mistakes. My ** can hang on to your circle of friends for a long time. That's all, hehe.

Whether or not a sense of security can arise comes from many factors, both subjective and objective. Your question is objective, so let's focus on that. The first thing to do to make the other person feel safe is to make the other person believe in themselves.

It is not easy to make the other party believe in yourself, you must be able to reflect it in terms of speech and behavior, such as: speak to count, say can do, if you can't do it, don't make promises; Tell her what you think, and often greet and care about her life; No matter how busy you are, don't ignore her and often surprise her; Don't be too nice to other girls, talk and act the same; Be willing to break your bad habits for him.

First of all, a sense of security is a feeling, a psychology; It is the feeling that comes from the performance of one party to the other; It is a kind of speech and behavior that people can rest assured, can rely on, and can believe in.

Having a sense of security is to feel that your physical and mental health and life will not be disturbed and threatened, a sense of security is a belief, it will change, that is, you may have a sense of security in one period, and no security in another period, its main manifestation is to believe, that is, a sense of trust in the world in which you exist, no matter what you encounter and the environment you are in, whether it is good or bad, as long as you trust the world (including yourself), you have a sense of security, and vice versa. ‍‍

A sense of security, this thing, should be a psychological thing that has been produced since infancy. A sense of security is a feeling, a psychology, a feeling that comes from the performance of one party to the other. The mother caresses the baby, and the baby smiles in return, which is one of the manifestations of a sense of security.

In love, whether a man or a woman, I am afraid that what they want most is the sense of security that "even if you go to the ends of the earth, I know that you only have me in your heart".

Indeed, as long as you love each other, everyone wants to be with each other forever, never lose, and always want to have that down-to-earth feeling in your heart, so that your heart can be stable and there is no unnecessary worry.

Some people say, "The sense of security is not given by the other party, but by oneself", which has a certain truth, but don't ignore that many people's psychology is actually influenced by the outside world.

Especially in love, there are probably very few people who can give themselves a sense of security, unless they are good enough, unless they don't care so much about this relationship, they are dispensable, free to come and go, unless they don't love each other deeply, otherwise where do they come from so confident?

Gains and losses in love are originally the normal mentality of two people who love each other. In fact, the manifestation of true love for someone is to give the other person a sense of security.

In love, the real sense of security is actually like this.

Praise each other often.

Article**1 I have a friend Zhang Peng, who has been in love with his girlfriend for almost two years, but he told me that he still has no sense of security in this relationship, for fear that his girlfriend will still fall in love with others one day and leave him.

Zhang Peng admitted that he had some inferiority complex in front of his girlfriend, the first reason was that his girlfriend thought he had a college degree and looked down on him. Second, his girlfriend thinks he has a soft personality and lacks a man's masculinity. Zhang Peng said that because of these two reasons, his girlfriend often counted him down.

What do you know?", "I don't think you're a man when you're cowardly", these two sentences are often said by his girlfriend in front of him. As long as something makes his girlfriend unhappy, his girlfriend will sarcastically mock him like this. Therefore, he is very mindful that his girlfriend has too much contact with other members of the opposite sex, and he is afraid that his girlfriend will fall in love with others.

As soon as he found out about such a situation, he was very nervous, and sometimes he couldn't control his emotions well, so he got angry with his girlfriend, and the two quarreled a few times about such things. He said that he originally thought that his two shortcomings were fine, but when it came to his girlfriend, he was disliked and made him feel inferior.

In fact, Zhang Peng's mentality is understandable, and people have self-esteem. No one would think that it would be easy to fall in love with someone who dislikes them. If you really love someone, you should praise him more instead of being sarcastic and disgusting.

Sincerely praising each other can not only build strong self-confidence for each other, but also perfectly express their love for each other, and give the other party a sense of security.

Originally, yes, others may change.

The country is prosperous and strong, and the people are happyI think the 24 characters of the core values of socialism can be reflected.

Prosperity, democracy, civilization and harmony, freedom and equality, justice and rule of law, patriotism, dedication, honesty and friendlinessSociety can develop steadily and harmoniouslyDachun and Xun's family can be safe and sound, there are no bad people, just like sleeping in the countryside, and the door is also very reassuring, that sense of securityIndividuals with children and grandchildren are in good healthWatching your children and grandchildren be happy in old age makes you feel at ease. Take a walk when you have free time and do something you want to do, and you're already satisfied. In fact, in this era of the rapid spread of the epidemic, it is already very satisfying and happy to be able to live a healthy life.

I think that everyone's understanding and degree of security will be different, and I personally believe that if you can have enough money to live your own life, you are the most secure.

At the same time, we can also be more free to exert our own ability to realize our ideals, help more people in need, so that everyone will feel the warmth of life, and we can also communicate and get along harmoniously, so that life can truly be harmonious.

1. Respond in a timely manner when talking.

First of all, we must know how to respond, if others are very interested in saying a lot of things, and you don't have any expression, it will make people feel very embarrassed or uninteresting, so that the light words can only end hastily, and it will not help your language communication, so you should respond to others in a timely manner when talking to others.

2. Keep a normal mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and uneasy in the process of ditch bumping and shouting, so you can't concentrate, then you have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

3. Know how to listen when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

4. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is important, always focus on yourself, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause disgust to others, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

Nowadays, there is a popular word for security, so what is security?

Someone stuffed and said:

So what do you think is a sense of security in the wheel cover? I feel like I'm not feeling safe at all.

As long as you don't see the money in the account for a day, no matter how much it is, it will be a little troublesome in your heart.

I remember someone said:

The rich are in the clouds and fog, and the rich are in the wind and rain. The biggest difference between life and survival is that life is that people control money, and survival is money that controls people. ”

I don't think anyone wants to be a slave to money, but if there is still no improvement after many attempts, many people will really become numb. Once numb, then it doesn't matter what it is.

In a peaceful and stable day, anyone can tell a big truth.

But when the disaster really falls on him, as a bystander, can he tell the truth and implement it with quality and quantity?

Otherwise, it's just empty mouth, ladies and gentlemen, what do you say?