With my wife, I feel very depressed and a little breathless, should I get a divorce?

To put it bluntly, it is the consequence of starting your hasty marriage, marriage is not child's play, since you are already together, don't separate easily, it is not good for your wife, and it is not good for yourself. Since you started to get along quite well, it means that you still have a common language and topic, maybe it's just that you are unwilling to be forced to marry by your family, plus after getting married, you find that some of your wife's personality is different from what you thought at the beginning, which slowly makes you feel a lot of pressure, in fact, you can put aside the fact that you are married, and slowly cultivate your feelings, now you have no emotional foundation, and all things are the first time you think of divorce, it is very bad to have this kind of thought, you slowly find her good, Two people usually communicate more, communication is very important, you can say what is wrong with her, now you don't love her, try to see if you can fall in love with your wife, don't say anything loveless marriage is not responsible, to say something unpleasant, what did you think about at the beginning. And it doesn't have to be all your wife's fault ...

Find the reason for yourself, take on the responsibility of a man, don't always say anything about divorce when you don't go to the south wall, and the word responsibility is made, not spoken.

So how did you and her get married? Since you don't have feelings for her, why should you marry her, it's so irresponsible for you to say this! Since married.

If you tell her and she doesn't change, then you can't say divorce and divorce! I hope you and your wife will get out of this haze as soon as possible!

You are married for the sake of getting married, not because you are married because of feelings, that is also the sorrow of the two of you, but the fact is that you are married, you are responsible for the marriage, and you are also responsible for your wife, I hope you can find the original feeling for your wife, and I also hope that you can change your past temper for each other, I hope you are happy!

Although he is married, he is still trying to get married.

It's normal to have problems at this stage, it may be because of her smelly feet, or it may be because she has a scar on her waist.

There will always be a gap between reality and hope, and we need to understand it clearly.

If you are a laborer like us, adjust your mindset and continue to live.

Sit back and listen to your own inner voice.

In this case, you have to care more about your wife, you can't always yell at her, you have to communicate with her, if she still doesn't change, you have to consider whether there is a problem in your marriage, if there is no problem with your relationship, you have to talk to her to see if there is any misunderstanding, if it is a misunderstanding, you have to explain it clearly, if she still doesn't listen, you have to divorce her, after all, you have had enough of such days, If she still doesn't change.

You can see that you are very concerned and sad.

Your situation, if you continue to live, is indeed not very happy, because she has too little respect for you; If you plan to divorce, it really can't be said that the relationship has broken down, after all, no one is too much at fault.

Either you can talk to her directly, and just say these things in your heart to her. If she cherishes the relationship, something will change; If she is really tired too, she will agree to leave. At this time, you can judge and decide based on her reaction.

You can consult with your relatives and friends before deciding, or you can ask questions a few times before you know about it. I used to see similar questions, and many people responded enthusiastically, with different opinions, but they were all full of life wisdom, perception and enthusiasm.

First, if both parties do not want to divorce, then the parties should rely on their own wisdom to resolve family conflicts and resolve the relationship between husband and wife. Because, the status of husband and wife in the family is equal. According to article 13 of the Marriage Law, husband and wife have equal status in the family.

Article 15 stipulates that both husband and wife shall have the freedom to participate in production, work, study and social activities, and one party shall not restrict or interfere with the other.

Second, the parties should also be clear that if they think that the relationship between the two parties has broken down and they cannot live together, then it is very correct to choose divorce. Because the law protects citizens' right to freedom of divorce. According to article 31 of the Marriage Law, divorce shall be granted if both a man and a woman divorce voluntarily.

Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32 stipulates that if a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant department may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

Find an opportunity to go on a business trip or arrange a trip for her or something, two people can be separated for a while, you can take a breath, or you can calmly think about what is wrong with your marriage, what is the reason for her to make you feel the way you are now, what she really wants, what you really want, and then you can improve your relationship.

Divorce is an option.

Divorce refers to the legal act of dissolving the marital relationship and terminating the rights and obligations between the husband and wife through agreement or litigation. According to the provisions of China's "Marriage Law", if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted. "The relationship between husband and wife has indeed broken down" is a legal condition for a divorce.

Dissolution of marriage. The latter refers specifically to the dissolution of the relationship between husband and wife through legal procedures.