It s too painful to get along with my wife, should I continue?

If it is very painful to get along with your wife, you must find the root cause at this time, is it that the other party doesn't care about you and always dislikes you, or are you too picky about the other party, no matter what the other party does, you are not satisfied? Only by figuring out the specific problems can we trace the root cause and find the right solution. When you feel that you don't get along with your wife, you have to find a way to solve it so that you can continue to live.

Of course, if two people really can't get along together, it's not impossible to consider divorce, it depends on your personal decision.

We should have a tolerant heart towards our other half. There is a saying that "it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along", two people who have been in love with each other are often prone to disputes when they find that each other's living habits and views on certain issues are very different after marriage. Because two people have different views, they are bound to communicate, and a definitive conclusion will be needed to solve the problem.

If the issue is not resolved, the quarrel will definitely continue. Even if one of the parties has actually stopped talking, if the other party is still chattering, such a marriage will definitely make people feel painful. Therefore, in the same sentence, we must be more tolerant of the other half, so that we can compromise as soon as possible and resolve the dispute as soon as possible.

You can have requirements for the other half, but you can't force others to make it difficult. Why do we feel miserable about living with our significant other? That's probably expecting the other half, but the other party always does something that is not as good as he wants, making him feel angry, sad, or even angry.

Once this situation becomes more and more, it is natural that you will no longer want to get along with each other. Because the more you get along, the more pain you have. At this time, the solution that most people can think of is to divorce, break up early, and out of sight.

However, marriage is not a simple combination of two people, and there are many issues that need to be involved if you want to divorce. It is better for two people to work out some of the problems in the marriage, so that it may be easier to make things go in the direction we want. For example, if it is a family war because of your small belly, you must learn to be generous and tolerant at this time; If it's because the other person cares about you and doesn't care about you, then you have to try to do something romantic to impress the other person, so that the other person will pay all their attention to you, and then you will no longer feel that living with the other person is very painful.

It should continue, for such a situation, you can communicate with your wife accordingly, explain your inner thoughts, and put forward targeted suggestions, so that your wife can effectively correct them.

Advise your wife** on why you are miserable with her, what you would like her to improve and increase communication between you.

I don't think it should continue, if the two people have no feelings, they should divorce decisively, otherwise it will bring more harm to the two people.