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Hard work or not hard work is relative. Many people who seem to be living an easy life feel very hard, and there are some people who we think are going to live a hard life, but they feel that they are living an easy and happy life, for no other reason, it is a matter of mentality. First of all, no matter what level of society you are in, you must accept the reality and understand your situation and the problems you are facing.
For example, do a good job, arrange a good family, enjoy life after work, if there is a higher pursuit, then it is necessary to pay more time to study and work hard in addition to the same schedule as them in order to accumulate hardships and breakthroughs, because two people who start from the same starting line, if there are not too many differences, they can only achieve through their own efforts. We can't expect to work from 9 to 5 and still enjoy achieving more than the average person, that can only be an illusion. If you don't work hard, but you think about it all day long, that's really hard.
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The hardship of lacking a purpose in life is more confusing than the hard work of running around, and this often happens to people who have no food and clothing. But it is important to understand that the brilliance of the outside does not mean the abundance of the heart, and what a person lives for is what matters. If you value family affection, you should work hard for your parents, wife and children, and shelter your relatives from the wind and rain; If you want to be prestigious, you can work hard, win status and honor, and win the admiration of others, I think no matter who you are, you want to win the respect of others, right?
At the very least, this respect should be based on a pragmatic attitude, such as taking responsibility for one's own responsibilities and obligations. As long as you do something, you will inevitably experience meaning, and only those who do nothing and don't want to do anything will feel empty. Think about what you really want and need, and then set a goal and fight for it, even if it's just to conquer a mountain, that's still a kind of progress.
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Hardship and happiness are two different feelings in the world, they are opposed to each other and depend on each other. For the same thing, some people feel very happy to do it, and maybe another person feels very happy and hard to do it, mainly because he likes it very much, and at the same time, his heart is full of love for his family and the people around him, no matter what he does, he will not feel hard, but will feel very happy. For example, as a primary school teacher in a remote mountain village, I am poor, backward, inconvenient in transportation, and the living environment is very difficult.
On the contrary, there are some people who are determined to dedicate themselves to education in mountainous areas, love the party's education cause, and are willing to give love to left-behind children, but they will feel very happy.
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Living in the world, how can there be misfortune and suffering! No matter what you do, you will work hard. But there are light and heavy! If you want to live without being tired, the main thing is to look at the mentality, the mentality is wide, you are not tired, the mentality is narrow, and life is full of difficulties. Let go of your mindset and your heart will become wider and wider.
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Even if you are struggling to run in life, you can still get out of your own rhythm because of reasonable arrangements, and you can still squeeze out time to enjoy the relaxed feeling of free release. Life is a journey from birth to death, and it is our mission to make it meaningful. Don't be blinded by vanity and lust, if you can keep your mind calm and fulfilling, no matter what you do, no matter what your situation is, your life will be easy and meaningful.
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A person's face is a capital "bitter", how can it not be bitter, it's just that people who can see it learn to laugh at themselves. It is precisely because of suffering that wise people learn to enjoy themselves in suffering, and those who do not want to be decadent in life go to find the path to enlightenment and liberation. If you listen to the destiny of heaven and are not trapped in it, you will probably have the joy of living.
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If you want to live without getting tired, you have to grow up in a wealthy family. Otherwise, you will have to work hard for a career before you have the money to enjoy the rest of your life. Don't want to live life too much with the flow and happiness.
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No matter how tired and hard you are, you should think that you are two hundred and five, and no matter how difficult and dangerous you are, you will think that you are two hundred and five. If you feel bitter, you will be bitter, and if you feel sweet, it will be sweet, mainly depending on how you want to live yourself.
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It's hard, but it's fun. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.
Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.
From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility.
Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.
There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?
In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.
Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.
For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.
People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.
In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.
For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.
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There is no one whose life is not hard, so how should people face it?
1.Don't work with emotions in the workplace. In real life, everyone is an individual.
In the face of work and life, everyone will have grievances and complaints. However, in any case, we should not go to work with emotions, because a person who does not know how to control his emotions will definitely not be able to achieve certain results in his work in the end. When your work is at a low point, it is easy to vent your anger on all the people and things around you, which often affects the progress and efficiency of your work.
So, you can't be emotional at work. Only by knowing how to control your emotions can you avoid heavy losses.
2.The effort and the return are often directly proportional. As the saying goes, only by suffering can you be a good person.
If you want to get some kind of light, then you have to put in more effort than the average person. When you first enter the workplace, you will be more or less subjected to pressure and unfair treatment. At this time, you have to work hard to improve yourself to change the situation.
In this world, for individuals, it will always snow, and everyone has their own knots. If you don't change, no one else can help you. You're not someone else's.
Being wronged and venting are not the same thing in the eyes of others. The more sad you are, the more you must persevere, learn to properly regulate your emotions, and constantly improve yourself, so that you can change your life.
3.Take the initiative to ask for help and learn to share. Chinese people are lacking in seeking help, especially when they are in great difficulty and in adversity.
They feel that no one can help them, and others refuse to take the initiative to care for them. In fact, a little help can make us feel better. It turns out that many people end up breaking down because of a small thing, because that was the last straw that broke the camel's back.
We must have the ability to bear silently, and we must learn to show weakness and take advantage. Once, I heard a buddy hit ** at the work site, and the first thing that came out was: Sister, I need your help.
I think this sentence is particularly good, simple and direct, and it also makes the other person feel valuable. I learned it right away, and later found it so easy to use. In closing, I would like to say that all experiences are compulsory subjects, and all people and things are designed to make us see ourselves more clearly, whether they are potential or limited.
How you perceive stress and anxiety determines what it brings you. Moderate stress and anxiety are the boosters that keep us going and become better.
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In the face of such a life, we should have a more positive attitude and also have a goal so that we can live.
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You should have a strong heart, live well, never give up no matter what, and be full of hope for the future life.
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As long as you tell yourself that you have worked very hard, but you have been rewarded, and your efforts are proportional to the rewards, then you should be happy and more motivated to live a good life.
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Yes, life is all about ups and downs.
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But life is not only bitter and tiring.
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It is necessary to establish a correct bitter optimism, how to see a rainbow without wind and rain, and how to see a rainbow without wind and rain.
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Well said, there is joy in suffering, and there is suffering in happiness?!
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