Am I thinking of a problem with my heart?

Be open-minded, you can ask this question, it shows that you have taken it very seriously, you don't have to, it's a matter of character, as you get older, your thinking becomes more and more mature, and I believe there will be a change. Another point is to have a positive and optimistic attitude towards others and other things.

You are someone else's, don't keep talking about what you owe or don't owe, you are likely to cause unnecessary conflicts!

Be yourself, care less about others, but help others when the time comes.

People are different, so you should first know yourself and treat others, do you know what kind of person you are? From your literal meaning, I have to think that you are a stingy person, but this is not derogatory, because we should accept ourselves before we can change ourselves, right?

People have tempers, whether they are stingy or atmospheric, but people are also rational, what problems can a temper tantrum solve? Basically, I feel comfortable in my heart, and it doesn't help.

So, no matter what kind of personality we are, first learn to restrain ourselves, learn to restrain our anger!

Anger can affect one's own judgment, anger can make people afraid of approaching, anger can lose one's dominant image, so.

Let's talk about the rest.

I want to open a point. God is fair to everyone, and there will be gains in mistakes!

Don't be depressed about a momentary loss.

Forget it! Do some counseling!

Look a little away, think about how big the world is, and you will know that our joy and anger are nothing.

Be open-minded, open-minded, and generous. Such a personality is not good for oneself and can affect one's emotions. So in order to make yourself more happy and less troubled in the future. Let's try to change yourself.

Just be yourself, help others, don't ask for anything in return, and your mind will naturally be peaceful.

It's just a slight obsessive tendency. If it's obsessive-compulsive disorder, this kind of unprovoked "question" will be very stereotypical, such as "Do you believe in 2012", every time it's just a few words, and there will be no further questioning or anything. It should be said that everyone has some compulsive tendencies, for example, some people like to erase the corners of old books equally.

There's nothing out of the ordinary.

If you really find the idea troublesome and bothersome, the best thing to do is to leave it alone. The reason why it keeps appearing is because you pay attention to the idea, and you attach great importance to it, and you feel that it is not "normal", so you repeatedly "overcome". In fact, your "overcoming" is the reinforcement of this thought, and the more you overcome it, the more you have to come out.

You know, believe it or not 2012 has nothing to do with it, it doesn't make any sense. If you believe, you will believe, and if you don't believe, you won't believe, so what? So there's no need to pay too much attention to it.

Do what you have to do, listen to ** when you're bored, find someone to chat with, watch TV and play games or something. It will come out if it wants to, and it will not come out if it doesn't. Don't let it affect you.

Obsessions that belong to the neurotic category and are relatively mild.

Obsessive-compulsive identification: Do you feel that your thoughts are unnecessary, but you can't control them, and you feel anxious and distressed as soon as you control them.

It is advisable to go to a psychiatric clinic for psychological counseling.

You, in fact, are this temperament and personality, a little stubborn, it's not that there is any psychological problem, just have more contact with people. There are also men who don't talk to their friends like women, and they don't stop chattering, everyone can understand it, and they can understand their thoughts with a glance between buddies. If you don't think you have anything to say, you can have a drink and chat with three or five friends in the summer.

You can try to fall in love once, and people will always mature slowly. You're still in a period of mental growth, and you're going to learn a lot of things. Some things are understood by oneself, and when you understand their meaning, you will know how to arrange and do them to get along with others.

Most of the symptoms of psychological problems are: depression, anxiety, and some insomnia. Feel like you belong to the agitation of adolescence.

In a word, time is the whetstone of your growth, and your values and morals will form and begin to mature in the future.

This... Your story is really complicated, and you have a bit of a violent tendency according to the description above.

First of all, I think what you should do is how to control yourself, learn to be calm, sit down and close your eyes and think about it when you have time. Life should have a rhythm, a routine, and a goal.

It is very important to come out of the social mix, you will lose a lot of opportunities if you don't understand communication, and the boss who does it is introverted and can speak well.

Communication is actually very simple, you use your sincerity to communicate with another person, and this behavior will slowly change when you have more people.

And I think your mentality is wrong, get angry every two weeks?? A big fight once a year? Why are you angry, why are you fighting?

You can try self-control, try not to get angry, get to know more motivated friends, and talk to friends if you are happy or unhappy, I hope you can do it.

From your self-report, it is not difficult to see that your self-control is relatively weak, but you really want to change your ways, in fact, you don't have to blame yourself too much. Since there is a sense of repentance, let me mention a few points. First of all, talk to your family or outsiders to be kind, don't quarrel with others at every turn or even be rude, you must learn to control your temper and your own conduct, this society is a society where people interact with each other, so no matter how you go, you should deal with people who will often be together and talk more.

In one case, many things are not solved by impulse and violence, and you must learn to be calm when you encounter problems, and if you can't handle it yourself, then discuss it with your family and colleagues.

I'm like the same way, I usually go out for a walk, go to travel to relax, and everything will be fine.

My motto is what my high school physics teacher used to say to us: "Did you work hard?" ”

If you try hard and your academic performance is still not satisfactory, then I think it is a problem of study methods. You can talk to the teacher in detail, and I believe that the teacher will look at you differently when he sees your efforts.

Secondly, don't be bound by your academic performance, academic performance really doesn't represent everything, it can only mean that you don't have a good innate talent in this area, but in addition to learning, society needs a variety of people, I believe you have what you are good at, and with your experience, you will slowly find (I am from the past). So don't worry too much about the outcome of your academic performance, but pay attention to your attitude and hard work, and exercise your abilities in the process. For example, learn how to get along with people, how to plan your studies and work, and so on.

I look forward to your improvement and realization of your own value.

Such a tragedy, no, be a monk.

To go for counseling, you have to have an interview.

Find the right way to learn and take the initiative to communicate with others.

It's okay, I'm sure you're not concentrating when you're studying.

If you don't concentrate, it's useless to rely on time. It's better to get along with your classmates, how you treat others, others will do to you, you don't have to subjectively think of others as they are.