Why don t today s older leftover women want to get married?

Why nearly half of women are afraid to take on family responsibilities.

After all, marriage is a matter of two people, and choosing one person is equivalent to choosing his entire family. Every step must take into account the interests of the other party, and you can no longer get by with the mentality that one person feeds and the whole family is not hungry. Love means responsibility, and these leftover female sisters, because they are used to living alone, are afraid to take on this responsibility.

Be sure to wait until the prince charming in your heart.

It is a well-established fact that the older a girl gets, the harder it is to marry. Not only because of their age, but also because of the fact that girls get older, they come into contact with more and more people, and their own capital is getting higher and higher. Whether it is the introduction of relatives and friends, or the fate of their own encounters, they will always invisibly compare the man's qualifications with themselves, not only to compare height and appearance, but also to compare education and income.

This kind of 100% perfect love is too little, but they still firmly believe that they will wait for their prince charming, so day after day, year after year, all the men are from Mars, and there will never be a guest of the opposite sex on Venus, they have to wait, and the only ending is endless waiting.

Otherwise, you will become a family cook.

Many girls can work until dawn, and they are reluctant to cook because they reject the life of cooking in their hearts. If there is no family bond, they can easily spend their time shopping and dressing up, and it is not the life they want to spend around oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day.

Not ready to have a baby.

In fact, every woman has a maternal side, and 8% of women choose not to have children, because society has brought everyone a wrong idea that raising children requires a lot of energy and money. The leftover women are in order to save trouble, so children have become a reason why they don't want to get married.

I'm an older leftover girl, but I don't want to get married.

Answer: In modern society, there are many older high-quality young women who have the strength of being single, and would rather be single than get married. So, why are more and more high-quality women reluctant to get married?

1. Most of today's outstanding women have a good higher education, have a good job, a good income, and their own appearance conditions are not bad, so they are inevitably arrogant, and they will be more picky when choosing a partner.

2. Chinese men like women to admire themselves, so they like to find women who are weaker than themselves, so as to satisfy their narcissism. And for those women with high education, high income, and strong ability to work, men usually don't like it very much, because they can't find a sense of existence and need in the eyes of such women.

3. Some women do not have a clear understanding of themselves, and when choosing a partner, they require the boy's height, appearance, and economy to be all **, and to be emotionally single-minded, and only be good for her. However, they themselves do not have all kinds of conditions to match, which is the so-called heart is higher than the sky.

4. Because modern women advocate individualism, they think that two people are too tired together, they have to take care of both families, and they have to take care of children, they have a hard time, they are very tired, they feel that as long as they are happy, it doesn't matter whether they get married or not, whether they have children or not.

People often use flowers to describe women. Women are like flowers, and the flowering period of girls is very short. After the age of 35, a woman's body begins to decline, and estrogen declines significantly, which not only affects pregnancy, but also faces various risks that advanced maternal age will encounter.

For their own lives, girls should have a reasonable plan.

What age to do what. Although there is big data that the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, there are about 30 million more boys than girls, so some girls think that they can't get married. However, the reality tells us that everyone likes excellent men, if you are picky, other girls will start first, and you will be left with excellent ones.

Generally speaking, once a woman is over 35 years old, she will not be very competitive in the marriage market.

As far as China's national conditions are concerned, most men usually choose a partner who is younger than themselves, which is a deep-rooted traditional concept. Getting married and having children is a life process and an experience.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: Marriage is like a besieged city, the people inside want to rush out, and the people outside want to rush in. This also shows that although there are many unsatisfactory things about marriage, it also has its attractiveness.

In the vast sea of people, I believe there is always a man who is suitable for you. Girls don't have to be afraid of marriage, so many female judges and children can feel happiness in marriage, and as a high-quality woman, you will naturally have happiness.

What is Marriage? The older generation felt that marriage was a necessity.

When you reach a certain age, you feel that life is incomplete if you don't get married. Throughout the current society, there are more and more outstanding leftover women who are older. They don't feel like there's something missing in their lives?

They think that I am living a good life by myself now, living freely and comfortably. When I get home from work, I cook if I want to, and order takeout if I don't want to do it. If you want to eat a fat-reducing meal, you can have one, and you don't have to think about the feelings of the people of Bezhitan.

As for housework? You can vacuum whenever you want, as long as you keep your home clean and tidy, you can fail.

It's okay to run and exercise at night if you want to. Outdoor running, indoor treadmill, skipping rope, aerobics, switch as you please.

Such a life is indeed the envy of married women. I regret why I gave up my free life and chose firewood, rice, oil and salt.

But I want to tell you that getting married or not is your own choice in life, you don't need to envy anyone, just come at your own pace.

If you are not married for the time being, it is because you have not met your destiny.

Once two people choose to live together, then both of them should get better and better in the process, rather than internal friction with each other.

As an independent woman in the new era, health and happiness are your goals.

Now that society has developed and progressed, people's values have also diversified.

More and more talented women are already able to live the life they want with their abilities.

So Cha Yuan, I implore those who spit on people, don't be morally kidnapped. Whether to marry or not is a matter for people.

Other people's lives are in charge of others!

Too lazy to accommodate others.

What is Marriage? People of the older generation may feel that marriage is a necessity in life, something that must be done at a certain age. But for today's young people, marriage is the icing on the cake of a good life, not a send-off.

Therefore, we must choose a person who suits us, and it depends on what married life can bring to ourselves, if we just let us blindly accommodate others, then most women will choose not to get married, especially women who have the ability and financial freedom.

Just like many girls around me say, I live a good life alone now, I can cook a meal I like to eat if I want to cook, and if I don't want to cook, I can order takeout or go out to eat, I don't have to think about what others want to eat, and I don't have to wronged myself.

As for housework, you can do it whenever you want, anyway, it's for yourself, and you don't need to be unwilling and unhappy.

Think about it, it is true, this kind of life is enviable, especially many women who are married, and they will regret why they want to give up their original leisurely life and let themselves fall into endless firewood, rice, oil and salt and cannot get out.

However, I also want to tell you that there is nothing wrong with getting married or not getting married, you don't need to envy anyone, but don't be too remorseful, because every decision you make at the moment must be the most suitable for you, too lazy to get married because you haven't met the right person, because there is no one who makes you feel that your life after marriage will be better than now, and choosing to get married is also because you have met this person, which makes you feel that you can change your life.

As for the unhappiness after marriage, I admit that they all exist, but think about the happiness you have, is it also worth it? But if you really feel that getting married makes you unbearable, then I also support you to stop losses in time, as a woman in the new era, making yourself happy is always the top priority in life.

Due to the influence of various factors, the group of older leftover women is growing.

What is it that causes women to prefer to live alone more and more, and would rather be older leftover women than find someone to accompany them?

Older leftover women can also live a beautiful life.

Due to the prejudice of society against women, women are expected to marry when they reach the age, so women will be urged to marry by friends and even relatives. But older leftover women can also live a beautiful life, and they have more time to enrich themselves and fulfill their dreams.

Some people get married and have children just after graduating from college, leaving a lot of regrets in their lives, the value of women is not only in getting married and having children, but in the deeper pursuit, and it depends on how the individual chooses.

American psychologist Maslow proposed the hierarchy of needs theory in "Human Motivation Theory", from bottom to top are physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs and self-actualization needs.

Older leftover women can have enough time to complete their needs for self-realization.

Self-realization needs are the highest level of individual needs, which refers to the ability of individuals to realize their ideals and ambitions, and self-realization needs are to work hard to stimulate their potential, make themselves better and better, and reach the pinnacle of life.

Although many people are prejudiced against older leftover women, they have to deny that they can also live a beautiful life.

Why are there older leftover women?

1. Independent economic ability.

Nowadays, there is a lot of equality between men and women, and both women and men have their own careers, and many women think that they have the financial ability to not only support themselves but also live well.

In ancient times, women had to get married because they needed to find someone to rely on, but in modern society, this phenomenon is slowly decreasing, and women have independent economic ability and are no longer dependent on men, so they will not enter marriage for this reason.

2. The requirements for mate selection are high.

With the development of social economy, many women's mate selection criteria are no longer as simple as before, some people want to find rich and handsome, some people want to find someone who fits their soul, and some people want to find the right person.

Regardless of the standard, most women prefer high-quality men.

The reason why most of the older leftover women don't want to get married is that they are too high, most of them are very good and cautious, and they play a very important role in the upper society, so they can't look down on ordinary men. In this way, older leftover women who want to have academic qualifications, academic qualifications, and careers will feel that they can live well without men after being too lenient and accustomed to a high-quality life.

The older leftover women don't want to get married, the direct reason is that they are older, and there are no men of her age who want them.

I'm an older leftover girl, but I don't want to get bored and get married. Branch grip.

No, if you meet the right one, you will still get married, there are many older young people in China who don't look for a partner, don't get married, and even get married and don't have children, what is the reason? I think it has to do with the following reasons.

1. There is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women.

In 1982, due to the implementation of family planning in China, and the idea of preference for sons over women at that time was also very serious, there was a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, resulting in the lack of targets for older young people, so there was a large number of single people.

2. High housing prices, the cost of marriage is too high.

Now the housing prices are too high, and it is not enough to get married and buy a house, and it is not enough for both families to spend all their money, and they have to take out a loan, and the repayment period is 30 years, plus it is difficult to make money, which causes a lot of pressure, causing the boy not to find a partner and not to get married.

3. Boys have a lot of work pressure and it is difficult to make money.

Now life is stressful, it is difficult to find a job, it is not easy to make money, and the job is unstable. Children in their thirties are basically only children, their parents are more doting, they are unwilling to do things with less money, they can't do things with more money, and they can barely maintain their own expenses, and even their parents pay back part of the money every month. If you don't have responsibility, you don't dare to take responsibility, so you don't want to get married and have children.

4. Girls are becoming more and more demanding.

Because girls are basically graduating from college now, with higher educational qualifications, and the requirements for boys are getting higher and higher, they are dazzled, and they always think that they don't worry about getting married anyway.

I don't know when I started hearing the term "older single leftover women" less and less, and the women around me got married later and later, and even many people said they didn't want to get married. More and more women no longer regard marriage and having children as a necessary part of their lives. They do not believe that women should marry and raise children when they reach a certain age.

Compared with housewives who are good at writing, they are more interested in being independent women with successful careers. For these women, marriage means a reversal of roles, and once married, they lose the freedom they had when they were single and face complex family ties. In recent years, with the development of the Internet, more and more women have learned about the real process of childbirth and realized its actual impact on themselves.