What can be done to change your personality

Change is on your own. What's the use of just asking people. As long as you change your heart to the good side, you will definitely be able to drop.

Think about what you want to change yourself about first? 2.Think again, why change?

3.Think carefully about how the things you want to change came about. Was it born like that?

If you know the answers to these questions, then you know how to change yourself. If you don't know the answers, you need to figure them out first. For example, if a person has insomnia every night, if he knows that he has insomnia only because he drinks strong tea every night, then he naturally knows what to do to stop insomnia; But if he doesn't understand this reason, and only knows that taking sleeping pills to improve his condition, then it is likely that his insomnia is cured, but there are all kinds of symptoms that he does not want to be caused by taking sleeping pills.

Therefore, in order to improve ourselves correctly, we must first understand ourselves correctly in order to prescribe the right medicine. Man is a complex machine, and the various functions of the machine will automatically find a balance. If a person observes himself and finds that he doesn't like something and tries to change it, he may be able to achieve some degree of results, but in addition to this, he will inevitably get another result, which is that he does not think and does not want to do so, and when he tries to break every thing he does not like, he will destroy the balance of the machine, and perhaps it will try to create a new function to re-establish the balance, which is unexpected.

For example, someone may observe that he is very absent-minded, losing things everywhere, forgetting things, etc. He began to fight against this habit, and if he was determined and methodical, after a while he would achieve his goal, no longer forgetful and no longer lose things, he would be able to perceive the change, but there was another thing that he did not notice but others noticed, and that was that he became irritable, pedantic, nitpicking, and annoying. Irritable and irritable is the result of his change of absent-mindedness.

Why? It is difficult to say, only a detailed analysis of someone's mental traits can show why changing one trait leads to another, which does not mean that changing absent-mindedness will lead to irritability, and it is very likely that there will be other traits that have nothing to do with absent-mindedness, such as miserliness, jealousy, etc. Therefore, if you want to improve yourself, you must also consider the possible *** in advance, only in this way can you avoid unwanted results, or avoid the appearance of characteristics that are completely opposite to the goal and work direction.

Only by correctly understanding yourself, finding out the reasons for the formation of your own characteristics, solving fundamental problems, and finding a more appropriate balance, can you not backfire. Therefore, knowing ourselves is the first step to change, and when we can know ourselves correctly, in fact, our change will also start quietly.

Now I am a college student, looking at the tedious study of the moment every day, doing the same thing every day, wanting to have good results but then not wanting to work hard, as if I have done everything but actually doing nothing. Meaninglessly playing with the phone, looking at the **, playing the game. You say you want to change, but it seems that everyone is the same, looking at them you are also "going with the flow", time is consumed all at once, you are also slowly consumed, maybe you have thought about breaking through but it seems to be slowly smoothed out.

I was afraid of such a situation, but Yan Na didn't know what to do, I knew my current situation clearly, and I couldn't do it day after day without moving the head of the hall and without a goal. This is what I am facing and living now, after reading this**, I saw an ordinary and valuable person, and I saw a person who has no "regrets", life is like this, now we have gone to college and have grown up healthy. There is no hope that I can fill me with confidence.

1.The reason why an envious person can't change himself is because his thoughts haven't changed, and they may only change their appearance and not their thoughts.

2.Make a plan to change your own goals, whether the scope of the formulation is large or small, and the anti-reckless is that you must have goals, and you cannot succeed without goals. Brother boring.

3.The most important thing is to persevere.