What was it like to break up with your lover in college because of geography?

Because the lovers who are separated by the region are not real lovers, his departure may be to make room for the next true love.

At the beginning, it was clearly said that it would be a lifetime to survive a long place. It's just a little bit closer, but you said that you were tired and didn't want to persevere, and you felt indebted to me. I owe it to me not to break up, but to get married.

When I broke up with my lover in college, I broke up with my lover because of the region, which verifies the old saying that your love can't overcome distance, and you are defeated by distance.

It is really normal to break up in a long-distance relationship in college, and you will definitely feel very uncomfortable when you first break up, but long-distance relationships are actually very hard, and it may be easier after a breakup.

Because of the long-distance relationship breakup, there is actually a feeling of relief. Because the long-distance relationship is too sad, others are tired of being together every day when they fall in love, you and I are together, I obviously have a partner but live a single life, all rely on mobile phone contact, both of them are very tired, and it is easier to separate.

At first, I will be reluctant to believe it, and I don't believe that distance can really defeat love, but after a long time, my mentality will be flat.

Long-distance relationships are relatively unfavorable, because couples around college are not around each other, and nothing happens to each other, so it is normal to be separated, but it can also be painful.

It's very annoying. Maybe it's because it's too hot, and I feel so impatient to wait.

My girlfriend and I met in our freshman year, and then she went abroad to study, and we separated after a month of being out of place.

Because I was separated from my boyfriend in college, I couldn't see each other a few times a year, and I thought I could get through it at first, but in the end I really didn't have much motivation.

Because after graduation, it becomes a long-distance relationship, many people feel that the long pain is better than the short pain, and when they graduate, they can't get tired of being together every day like they are in school because of employment and other reasons, and after a long time, not only do they distrust each other, but the relationship will also fade, combined with various reasons, breaking up is the best choice.

It's because there are a lot of practical problems after graduation, and many of them break up in the end due to practical factors.

Because two people come from all over the world, there is a big gap between the two people, and when they graduate, they will be separated because of the reason they are looking for a job.

Because college love is idealized, after graduation, it will soon face reality, and many lovers will be separated from each other, so after graduation, there will be a large number of breakups.

Because they all returned to their hometowns after graduation, and they were relatively far away, there were signs of breakup.

Mainly because of work, many couples have become long-distance relationships, and they do not accept this kind of relationship, so they all choose to break up.

Because the relationship in college is relatively simple, graduation means that two people may have different development paths, so they will face a large number of breakups.

Because when people graduate, they have to find a suitable job, and at this time, people have to think about their future, and their feelings are worthless in front of the future, so they will break up.

Normal. Method.

1. Calm down and think.

For girls, the world of feelings is very important, and if you want to make yourself happier and happier in life, then your emotional life plays a great role.

When you have the idea of breaking up with your boyfriend, it means that there are some small problems in the relationship between you, and if you want to solve them better, then you need to think about it and think more about the relationship between each other, so that the two of you can live a better and happier life.

Method. 2. Talk to your friends.

As the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", it is difficult for one party in a relationship to know exactly whether they love each other very much, and if there is an urge to break up, then they need to communicate well with each other. If you just have such thoughts, you can share them with your friends, maybe they can give you some good advice, so that you can know exactly how to do what is right for each other.

Method. 3. Be independent.

Women have a lot of very important things besides love, don't always focus on love, improve yourself more, if you want to separate from your boyfriend, then you should also think more, make more decisions, and make yourself more independent, so that you can live a happier life. If you want to separate and are reluctant, it means that the other party still has a status in your heart, so you should analyze it well and think about it carefully.

Method. Fourth, calm down for a while.

To calm yourself down first, is it because your boyfriend doesn't care about you for a while? If that's the case, then try to learn to calm yourself down.

The emergence of problems is not very accidental, it will only explode after a certain accumulation, so to calm yourself down, calm each other down, and the relationship needs to be experienced, this is just a small step.

Method. 5. Have a good chat with your boyfriend.

No matter what the reason is, it is normal for you to have such thoughts, and if you want to live a happier life, you need to let your boyfriend know some of your little emotions.

Maybe it's just that I have such an impulse because of some of my own reasons, so I have to learn to chat with my boyfriend. Share some unhappy things in your heart with him, and he will also give him some small suggestions.

Some choose to break up, while others consider maintaining their relationship in a long-distance relationship. Although the second is to keep the relationship temporarily, it requires more effort. So you need to understand these maintenance methods.

After graduating from college, couples are unable to work in the same city because they seek their own development, so they can only rely on long-distance relationships to maintain their relationship with each other. But you must know that maintaining a long-distance relationship is more difficult than that in the same city, and this sense of distance can easily lead to the shaking of the relationship and even fall apart, so it requires the cooperation of both parties. Let's talk about what couples who have graduated from college should pay attention to on the road to maintaining a long-distance relationship?

If your friend has just entered the society and the **fee is several times that of yours, then he is either a big carrot or a long-distance relationship player. The two are in different places, it is difficult to meet, and playing ** has become a "red rope" connecting each other, chatting about daily life, complaining about colleagues, and encouraging each other......It's as if TA is right next to you. ** Last month, it seems acceptable, what if it is a year, or more?

Can you still be as patient as you were at the beginning? Are you still willing to keep the love of the two remotely fresh for a long time? Twin Cities life frequently switches long-distance relationships, and it is far from enough to maintain a relationship by just making ** porridge, chatting WeChat, chatting QQ, etc., and regular meetings are very important.

So the question is, who should go to see whom? How often do you see each other? It depends on who is giving in your relationship and how close the two cities are.

On weekends and holidays, maybe your girlfriends are shopping and you are taking the train, maybe your buddies are playing online games and you are ...... by trainIt seems that you are taking the train whenever you have free time, and you are willing to switch between them frequently with such a painstaking and laborious life in the twin cities?

Therefore, it is still necessary to combine reality, if the two truly love each other, then they must fight for it desperately.

Because both of them have become accustomed to relying on each other, it is no longer possible to live such a life after graduation.

College romance is beautiful in everyone's impression, but when college love is facing graduation, no matter how beautiful the emotion was, it must face the test of breaking up.

The college lovers who stick together every day are always enviable. I also fell in love when I was in college, but the two of us didn't stick together every day, we both had our own lives, we just communicated every day and occasionally went on a date together.

One of my classmates has a couple who stick together every day, and the two of them are classmates, except for not living in the same dormitory, they are basically not separated the rest of the time. This kind of love life makes me very envious, and I once wanted to be like this with my lover, but in the end I still didn't do it.

I think for college lovers, most lovers hope that two people can never be separated, even if they are separated for a minute, they feel that it is a huge blow to the soul, this kind of lovers are often very envied on campus, but after leaving the campus, the breakup also comes very quickly.

There is no way to stick together after graduation, which is the reason for their breakup. There is nothing wrong with two people living together every day at the school stage, but it is enviable, but after entering the society, both people must participate in work and must work hard for the future, which means that two people do not have enough time to accompany each other.

The once familiar companionship disappeared in an instant, and the two seemed to have changed from lovers to shared tenants. Although life still seems to be very close, the two people are like a layer of separation, and they are no longer as close as they were at the beginning.

This is actually the reason why couples who stick together every day in college are easy to break up after graduation, because the gap between life is too big, the beauty of imagination and the cruelty of real life make two people unwilling to face reality, and the best way to escape reality is for two people to break up, and then each find a new life.

In fact, for college couples, there are not many who can go to the end. But when you walk into a college campus, everyone expects to meet someone they like. This may be youth, we always believe that our love is unique.

Lovers go from campus to society, and it is a must for every couple to get used to the gap and change their mentality.

Falling in love is just falling in love, two people have a spiritual support together, you like me, I like you, after graduation, it will involve the issue of marriage, this time is different from life in school, many of the ideas of two people have differences, and they will break up at this time.

In addition, after stepping into society, people have to face the cruel reality and make plans for their lives and futures, so they must bear various pressures, and feelings also need to make trade-offs.

Because people who stick together every day will get tired of it sooner or later, the probability of breaking up becomes greater.

From the perspective of both parties, this question may be found later to be more suitable for themselves, and people will become; However, this situation is not only applicable to college student couples, so I will not focus on the discussion;

secondly, the two sides cannot reach an agreement on the future plan, and they cannot compromise with each other, and the conflict can only break up; In this environment, few people will think about future planning before graduation, and they think that two people can always be together by love, which has not considered a lot of feelings for the final future from the beginning, and naturally appears vulnerable in the face of a series of pressures that have to be faced when graduation;

It may also be that I was just in love at school, and I didn't think that love would eventually come down to life, in addition to spiritual satisfaction, there were also practical problems of houses, cars, and tickets to be solved; Many couples face these practical problems after graduation, as well as the pressure of the elders in the family, and gradually have to be realistic, and reality defeats love.

The university gathers people from all over the world in one place, but everyone goes their separate ways after graduation; When you fall in love in college, you may think that regional issues that are not so important will become very important later, and maintaining a long-distance relationship is not a simple thing; After graduation, they also persevered and did not break up, many people have also formed a more independent and perfect outlook on life and values in their continuous work, everyone's growth rate is different, and after accepting the baptism of society, the changes shown are also different;

When you are a student, you have not been able to really mature, and few people can have mature values, love outlook, and life outlook; Even though these problems exist, it is also because we as students are not mature in many places, so we will choose some high-risk relationships, but we are not able to bear the consequences of this choice, so we will be more vulnerable in the face of pressure.

First of all, most of the students are from all over the world, they have to return to their hometowns to work, and as they get older, they find that there are more things to do than just feelings, which is a sign of maturity.

Because two people are often not together, it is very likely that the relationship will fade and eventually break up.

Personally, I think that college couples have a lot of helplessness to learn the scores after graduation, because they need to go their separate ways after graduation and have different goals, so they become breakups.

Because many couples choose different paths after graduation, there will be big differences at this time, so they will choose to break up.