Should there be a depth of pain? Why?

In each of us, there are many emotions, among which there are happy emotions and painful emotions. In my personal opinion, there will be a difference in the depth of pain, because for different things, we will also have different painful emotions.

It is in such a situation that the painful emotions are also divided into deep and shallow ones. For me personally, there are also different states of pain when faced with the following things:

1. Frustration in life In our life, when there are proud situations, there will also be frustrated situations. When you are proud of life, you may be very happy; And when life is frustrated, it will show a painful look.

In my life, when I failed the college entrance examination, my whole mood was very low, and my expression was very painful. I thought that my grades would allow me to go to a good university, but in the end, it backfired and I failed to get into my ideal school.

But such a painful feeling, over time, slowly healed itself; And although the mood is very painful and uncomfortable, it does not affect normal life, but the corresponding smile is less, and the face is a little more sad.

2. If the loss of a loved one is painful, it can also be divided into grades, in the case of being divided according to the ten levels; I think the frustration in life can only reach level 6-7 at most, and in the face of the departure of a loved one, the most serious situation can reach level 10 of pain.

I have a neighbor whose child is the same age as me, and who has been a playmate since childhood. This playmate, at the age when he should have gotten married and had children, left them forever because of an accident.

Faced with the pain of losing a child in middle age, the uncle and aunt collapsed. In just one week, the body lost more than 10 pounds; Especially for the aunt, the whole person is even more painful.

So in my personal opinion, there are also deep and shallow pains, and for different things, the pain that may be experienced is also different.

Pain should not be deep or shallow, because pain is a feeling, and there is no unit of measurement, and we cannot empathize with others.

I think there are depths of pain, after all, every pain is different, and the most painful thing is nothing more than the loss of a loved one.

The points. Look at how deep a person hurts, the deeper the injury, the deeper the pain will be, and there will definitely be mild and high pain.

Points, everyone's pain is different, some people may be a little better, some people are relatively poor, this is not a qualitative problem, there is no standard for measurement, so there is no need to generalize.