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Personally, I think some people will still be, boys with slightly better conditions, thinking that if the woman's family conditions are good, it will definitely be very helpful for their future road, if the woman's family is too poor, they will not only have to pay a lot but also drag themselves down, of course, if it is true love, of course it will not be disliked, after all, there are more people in this social reality.
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Men don't necessarily think that the woman's family is too poor, most men will think that earning money to support the family is a man's business, and they will feel confident to find a woman who is not as good as themselves. Some men will feel that the woman's family conditions are similar to their own, so it will not be very hard, and the woman will also help when there is a problem, so they may not be willing to find someone too poor.
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Hello, I think I like someone, and I may not care about his family background, but when I get married, I may care about the boy's family background! Young love is very simple. When you are young, liking someone is blind, probably because of his very handsome appearance.
Maybe it's because of his talent, or maybe it's because he plays basketball well, in short, when he was young, he liked someone, and there seemed to be no reason. And we don't pay too much attention to his family background.
Because we recognize that as long as we are together and work together, our future life will be better, and it is best to fall in love when we are young, at least the person who is in love with you is single-minded.
There will be absolutely no doping of interests. And when you fall in love at that time, a girl won't want you to buy her too many things, she only cares if you have time to spend with her, and whether you have patience with him is simply a boy with a better character can have such a girl. When it comes to marriage.
Today's society is very realistic. Young girls are haunted when they are with boys who are not wealthy. As a result, little girls think that when they grow up, they don't want to be with those poor people.
The reality is even more so, although the girl has reached the age of marriage and meets the person she likes, but because his family is too poor and he is afraid that his life after marriage will be difficult, he regresses and is unwilling to live with someone who is too poor.
In a hurry, he chose a rich old man to marry, although the old man may not be the person he really likes in his heart, but at least the material life of the female child is still better.
It still depends on the personal choice, if the girl is more happy and happy with the material life, she will care about the boy's family conditions, and if the girl cares more about emotional and spiritual communication, then she will not care about the family situation. But poor couples mourn everything.
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Personally, I think it depends on the person, if this woman is vain, then she will dislike the man's poor family and don't want to be with the man.
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Under normal circumstances, the man will not mind too much that the woman's family is poor, after all, the man is not a rich woman.
In real life, the man generally doesn't mind too much that the woman's family is poor, after all, many people think that the woman is waiting to live with him when she gets married, and no matter how poor the family is, it doesn't have much impact on him; But if the woman's family is poor, but the lion opens his mouth and asks for more gifts, she will really mind. After all, the woman is not very rich, but if she chooses the best gift money, it will appear that the woman's family is very greedy for money, and it is inevitable that there will be problems in the future when they get married.
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I think it depends on the person, if the boyfriend's family is particularly rich, then he will definitely mind a little, because the woman's family is poor, which means that the man must help her a little, so the man's family will be under greater financial pressure.
But some people don't mind this, they will think, oops, it doesn't matter, as long as the two people really like it, it doesn't matter what the family background is.
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In the case of the woman's family conditions are particularly poor, I think the man will definitely mind, after all, after the two people get married, there will be a lot of places to spend money, and at this time, they have to go to the woman's home, which will definitely bring financial pressure to the man, which is really difficult for the average family to bear.
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Some men may mind the woman's family background, after all, men are also very realistic.
After marriage, it is a matter of two families, and the woman's family is too poor to cause some trouble to the small family.
But not all men are so concerned about the woman's family situation, many men have their own responsibilities, love the woman, and will not mind her family situation too much.
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Generally speaking, the woman's family is very poor and the man will mind, but he will not mind very much, far less than the woman who minds that the man's family is poor, after all, the man marries the woman, as long as the girl is excellent, marrying the man will go further and further away from the previous original family, and will not have much impact on the lives of the two people.
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The man generally does not mind being poor in the woman's family, because when two people get married, the woman lives with the man, not the man with the woman. The poverty and wealth of the woman's family do not have a great impact on the man, as long as two people love each other and live a good life, they will definitely be able to live a prosperous life.
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Definitely! If you get married, the parents of both men and women want the two families to be equal, and the two people are quite suitable, and then together, if one party is not equal, although the other party will not say anything, but the heart is still very mindful.
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Generally, I don't mind too much, because girls are married to live, as long as they have the ability to give girls a good life. And the girl's family conditions are not good, but the innocence of the family background is also quite a good match. Now the focus is not on wealth, but on whether the three views are compatible, and whether the two families are compatible with each other.
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Maybe the other party won't mind very much, and this kind of unmind may only be before and at the beginning of marriage. Actually, I was scared that something unpleasant would happen. I don't know what a foreigner's marriage is like, but a Chinese marriage is definitely a matter of two families, and it can never be a matter of two people.
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may mind, because after marriage, the children of two families form a family, and it is impossible for the woman not to take care of the family after marriage, and she will definitely do her best to help her mother's family, and the man will think that this will definitely drag down the economic output of the man's family for a long time, so that the pressure on the man will become greater and greater, and there will be conflicts with the woman.
If the woman is not financially independent. If you rely on the man for a long time, you will have more and more say in the family, you will be looked down upon by your in-laws, the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become more and more tense, and there will be more conflicts in the future.
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