My girlfriend is very materialistic and dislikes what should I do if my family is not rich enough?

Updated on society 2024-06-18
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Many boys have the same problem when they are in love, that is, the shortcomings of their girlfriend who have no money and end up breaking up. A lot of boys can think too messily and think that there is no money to make money, why are they being asked to have money now, this is a girl who is so golden? In fact, the problem is not for girls, maybe the problem is for yourself and you have to find your own reasons in order to save your girlfriend.

    My girlfriend doesn't like you and you won't go to my girlfriend definitely not two days a day. Some people may be two years, why didn't you cause a breakup, because your poor people, waited until you waited so long, took away the poor people, took it out, you broke up, you don't know why? If you really think about you too much, then she should find out that you are poor, even if you are a good thing, that girl can't find a few months, then she should be very early.

    In order to issue a breakup, why is it now? It can be seen that she is not because you are poor, but because you do not see hope, because you are not working hard, she has this demand, so you have to change yourself.

    My girlfriend doesn't like you, you have to have a positive attitude and ideals, when you came to the beginning, my girlfriend didn't abandon you because of your poor people, but was going to look at you, but you didn't use a positive attitude to face your identity and status, but his news originated poorly, thinking that this society is unfair and that your lack of money is caused by the outside world. You also lose your ideals, because you are poor, there is no ambition, if you are this kind of person, my girlfriend will definitely be with you, the reason is not that you are poor now, but because you will keep going.

    My girlfriend doesn't like you, maybe that's not enough to do anything. With the encouragement of your girlfriend, you try to make all kinds of efforts, you try to get more work and also intend to do business, but in the process, you don't have enough persistence, always think about the commodity approach, work for your own career and work, without persistence and perseverance. If you're the kind of person you have, your girlfriend, you can understand it.

    If you do enough and you can do your career, your girlfriend should continue to stay with you to give you encouragement and help.

    My girlfriend doesn't like you, maybe you don't have a plan for the future, after two people, the man has to have a good plan for their future. After all, he will be responsible for the family and cannot let two people suffer all the time and think about the future family. If you perform a lot, don't have a plan, and don't prepare for the future, your girlfriend will definitely leave you.

    Five, my girlfriend doesn't like you, maybe you're too embarrassed Poor people are not limited to the path of development towards a person, but the personality of this person can limit a person's life, you should not be nervous, as long as you are good, you can still explode for a day. But if you have ventricles one day, you have to suffer from the poor, which has absolutely no future, and that woman will definitely not like you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think you should be with her, because you will have no self-esteem, your pressure is very high, and the other party doesn't love you at all, don't wronged yourself, find someone who is right with you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    At this time, you should decisively break up with her, because such a relationship has no meaning.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Girlfriend is very materialistic, I think she may not be the same kind of person as you, if you two walk together in the future, she will definitely dislike you, and you will be under a lot of pressure, so I think you should break up as soon as possible, instead of being together in the future, it will be a delay for you and her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is the material view of girlfriends, which is difficult to change, so the male protagonist should propose to break up, so that it is good for you and your girlfriend, and it will not delay everyone's time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    should choose to give up, like this kind of married life maintained by interests, there will be no good results in the end, but the two people will not come together after all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's okay to break up with this girl, because this girl is not worthy of your love, and your marriage will not be happy after marriage.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you can already break up, because such a girlfriend is more materialistic, and she will choose money in front of money and you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If my girlfriend is very materialistic and dislikes that my family is not rich enough, then such a girlfriend can choose to break up, and can choose not to, because even if they are forced to be together, their future married life will be unhappy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, you need a stable job, and secondly, you need to increase your income by learning knowledge and skills outside of work, so that you can have one more skill and do a side hustle. Your own income is the biggest key, through a few years of hard work, you can make the family rich, and your girlfriend will naturally not dislike your family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is said that girls are very realistic, but sometimes in the face of marriage, men are actually more realistic than girls, when he is in love, he may find a beauty, but when he gets married, he still wants to find a good match, or find a girl who can make him struggle less for 30 years, so for love, for marriage, men are far more realistic than women, and the reality is that women are emotional, women are not allowed to marry by their parents, she has to marry herself, and men are not allowed to marry by their parents, and most of them will not marry home.

    In real life, it is useless for a girl's parents to prevent a girl from being with a boy, a girl will still force her parents to agree to her marrying him, and once the boy's parents do not agree with a boy to marry a girl, the boy will often choose his parents in the end, you see, find a girlfriend, all aspects are very good, but the job is average, and there is no money at home, you see you obviously think that her external conditions and personality are no problem, but because her family conditions are not good, her work is not good, and she began to think about whether to be together again.

    This is the reality, I'm not saying to condemn you, we are just ordinary people, we are not qualified to stand at the highest point of morality to condemn others, because everyone wants to be easier in the future after getting married, everyone wants to get married in order to improve their own quality of life, not to reduce their quality of life, so we can understand, but at the same time, we also feel that girls are actually quite wronged, after all, in real life, men are obviously more realistic, aren't they.

    If you give him a beautiful poor one, and a rich one in general, he will definitely choose the rich girl, everyone wants to make their lives easier, this is not wrong, but often everyone only blames the girl for reality, but don't forget, those who don't dislike boys are poor and willing to be with him There are many girls, but in the end it was he who lost her, she was willing to follow you to suffer, but it doesn't mean that she is willing to suffer for a lifetime, and you don't work hard and finally lose each other, but blame people for being too materialistic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, it should continue, because the girl doesn't actually have so many requirements, she just needs to go up and give her a good life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love each other very much, then you should go on. But if you don't love each other at all, then it's okay to break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, the answer is that you have to be responsible to the end, continue to accompany her to old age, when she was with you, she didn't try to compare anything with you, but you still have to think about it, which is very excessive. You have to know that when you are with her it is only for love and nothing else. But when you start to mind these things when you talk about marriage, it means that you are not a responsible person.

    Your girlfriend has no money to make, the job is not very good to change, this is all progressing with development, not something that can never be changed, you can only accompany her to work hard to change the status quo, you have to have confidence in yourself, if you don't have the same confidence, you are really not suitable to be with her.

    To be precise, you are more like a "scumbag", who wants to eat and wipe clean, and does not want to be responsible? Who dictates the family that people care about when they take a fancy to you?

    Do you care about these things when you chase others? Definitely not, men are basically lower body animals, and after satisfying the desires of these years, they will begin to consider the economy and the right problem. If that were the case, she shouldn't have been in a relationship with you in the first place, because you don't deserve the love of others.

    Secondly, since she chose to be with you, and the family has no money, it is also earned by others, what's wrong with not stealing or robbing, and when you pass, she didn't let you support this other person's family, right?, then in your eyes, only money can represent everything, you were a hooligan when you were looking for someone to fall in love? Isn't this a sign of your "scumbag"?

    Besides, she doesn't work well, to be honest, as a man, if you have the ability, she can be a housewife, why bother to show up outside to find a job and make money,This is a reflection of your lack of ability, and what kind of job can match you in your eyes? The monthly salary is 500,000, or the annual salary is 10 million, and people are looking for jobs with their own efforts, and you say that they are good in all aspects, and you are still picking bones.

    In addition, as a man, you have low self-esteem, look down on others, if you are strong enough in your heart, you don't care about what others say, and prejudiceHow many years of youth does a girl have, and she dislikes you when she suffers with you? Think about it, when you really lose, you will really regret it, and it is the poor people who compare money with love.

    Of course, you won't be a rich person, because money doesn't care about this, you just want to meet a rich person in your heartSo I started to dislike my current girlfriend, in fact, if you leave her, maybe it will be better, she may meet someone who is suitable for her and love her for a lifetime.

    In the end, you not only have to treat her well, but also help her out of trouble, which is what a man should do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It should continue, the main thing is to look at the communication between two people, as long as it is true affection for her, there is no need to affect the communication between two people because of these small things.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I should continue because I think it is not easy to find a suitable person for me, so I should not care too much about the other person's family.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should follow your heart, don't choose to let go because of this kind of problem, don't make decisions lightly, and be sure to think about it carefully.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, when your girlfriend dislikes you for having no money, you have to work hard to make money and prove it to her.

    My girlfriend thinks I don't have any money, what should I do?

    Hello, when your girlfriend dislikes you for having no money, you have to work hard to make money and prove it to her.

    Of course, a girl who truly loves you will only make you work hard and want to see you work hard to make money, for her and for you.

    It's not really disgusting.

    We were married for the second time, she had children, and I was never married.

    She also wanted to buy a house in her original place, what should I do.

    Did you work hard for her?

    Ask yourself what you do to her.

    Think about how she treats you.

    I'm very nice to her.

    She also wanted to show her daughter the baby, and I didn't know what to do.

    Everyone's abilities are limited, and efforts don't always bear fruit. Her heart is with you, and she will understand you.

    You know what I mean.

    You're absolutely right, but I don't know if I should go down or not, it's very contradictory.

    Do you have children of your own?

    No. The wolf never likes sheep, he likes to eat them. Just like you, she may just want to have something to rely on, and as for where the heart is, she needs you to think about <>

    We men who are good to us should pay back more, and we will not give us a good face if we are not good.

    These are all suggestions, I hope it can be helpful to you.

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