What should you do if your parents don t like your boyfriend and think his family is too poor?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it's better to communicate more with my parents, and then talk about his feelings about me, our goals together, etc., and then let my parents slowly accept him, because in the future, the two of us will live, so as long as two people like each other, it's okay, if you feel poor, you can struggle together, work together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When my parents don't like my boyfriend, I feel that his family is very poor, and I will try to communicate with my parents, talk about his group, only temporarily, he is very self-motivated, he works very hard, so that my parents can see the advantages and strengths of my boyfriend, so that they will accept him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Have a good talk with my parents, think about the problem from their point of view, and try to let my parents think from my point of view, after all, I am the person I choose to live my life, and there must be advantages that can cover the shortcomings of poverty, so that my parents can realize that this person can give me a stable life and will not let me suffer, after all, my parents' original intention is just to hope that I will live well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Poverty may only be temporary, and if the two of you really like each other, then economic issues are not the most important issue. After all, the person you like is the one you like, and your parents may just worry that your life will be hard and tiring in the future. So don't blame your parents too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, this will be secondary, the key is in yourself, your boyfriend's family background may be a bit of an obstacle to your love, but you have to look far away to see if you think this man will have something to do in the future, if it feels suitable in all aspects, you can talk to your family about your boyfriend's advantages and how he usually treats you well and will take care of people and so on.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think I will face this problem first, and will not run away from this problem, because escape is not the solution to the problem, we have to actively solve the problem, to face it, I can tell my parents that he is poor at home, and other conditions are okay, so that my parents can see that I am hopeful with him, and do not let my parents have worries.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's me, I won't care too much, because whether your parents like your boyfriend or not has nothing to do with you, in the future, you will live with your boyfriend, and it will not be your parents who will live with him, just live your life, don't care too much about what others think, what others say.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If he is a very down-to-earth and capable person, I think he is also the kind of good child in the hearts of his parents, and his parents will not be because there is no money at home now, this thing depends on himself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He should be given a chance, because since a man is worthy of your love, then he should have the courage to take responsibility, which is what a man should do, so see if he can bring himself a good life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can choose to continue to be together, and if your boyfriend is very capable and loves you, it will give you a better life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you should choose reality, don't choose to marry your boyfriend, although you love him very much now, but after a long time together, you will find that this thing can't give you anything you want, or be realistic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Give him time first, see if he can hold up for you, after all, if you get married, you need money in every aspect, even if you are not rich, you must be able to maintain a normal life, see if he can be positive and try his best to give you a good life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should follow your own heart, if you want to live with him, you just think about the consequences after you, and if you don't want to, break up as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love this thing is only short-lived, it is best to choose the right one with yourself, otherwise you will have a lot of hard times after marriage, don't be stupid and marry a poor man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love, can love be eaten? You love him if he loves you. Love is only a moment, very short, and it is not worth the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life. His family is very poor, and you will regret it later.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on whether your boyfriend is capable and self-motivated, and if he is capable and self-motivated, you can be with him, because you can change the status quo of poverty through your efforts.

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I think if I have a decent income, I can stick to it for my own living.

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This is a very real problem, because now we will all be forced to marry by our parents, so they want us to get married as soon as possible, but I think our own life should be controlled by ourselves, and there is no need to change the trajectory of our life because of your parents' opinions.