I ve liked a girl for two years, and I ve kept in touch since I graduated, and I confessed a few tim

Updated on psychology 2024-06-23
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    To tell you the truth, I think if she really agrees to be with you in the future, she will also split her legs. Because if a person is someone he really likes, he will not refuse to confess to himself. The reason why she still keeps in touch with you now is that she thinks that you are not a bad person, and there is so much practical value, it is a pity to give it up.

    So stop getting illusions. On the other hand, do you want your wife to marry you just because she thinks you're good? A person with normal values will not easily accept the other person's help when he knows that the other person has a good impression of him (especially if you solve the two major problems in her life).

    In fact, you already have the answer in your heart whether to persist or not, otherwise you will not wonder whether to persevere. It's just that I don't have the courage to change the habits I've been having.

    I think you're mostly too idle and don't have your own focus in life. You can try to care more about your family and learn more about what you are interested in to make your life more fulfilling. And maybe there will be new opportunities.

    I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    He just doesn't like the people he doesn't like to treat him too well, these are just excuses, just excuses to reject you, seriously, persuade you to give up, you have done enough and good enough, he doesn't cherish you and don't have to waste time, there will be people who cherish your good and repay you with the same good, that is true love...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Remember, the premise of all is to love yourself, not to be able to touch anyone if you give, the premise of love is to love each other. In the end, you are faced with love or not, and you can only decide on your own. The one who gives the most in love must be hurt the most.

    The so-called deep love is not long-lived, and Hui Ji hurts himself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's hard to say, I haven't been in contact with her, I don't know much, but there is a certain certainty.

    She really doesn't like you - just take you as friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Girls generally won't choose you anymore at this time.,It's recommended to give up....Now I don't have a boyfriend who says I don't like you being too nice to her, and when I have a boyfriend, I won't be able to say that...You are so good to her, she can accept your help so comfortably, but she does not accept you, she definitely does not like you, but takes advantage of you...Think about it yourself, feelings are not one-sided giving, you know, otherwise you won't ask, think about it....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Whether you want to continue to like and chase after being rejected by confession is a case-by-case analysis, and there are several situations where it is recommended to give up decisively: the other party has rejected you outright, and the other party just treats you as a friend or other relationship; The other party has someone they like in their hearts, so you don't have a show; The other party still can't forget someone in his heart. When you confess to the other person, the other party seems surprised or unprepared, indicating that you don't know each other well enough, so they reject you.

    This is not to blame the other party, because people are too anxious now, and they are in a hurry to get rid of the single as soon as they know each other, and they confess to the other party when they are excited. After all, there are too few feelings for love at first sight, and most of the feelings still need to be understood more deeply, and emotional matters cannot be rushed.

    There is also a more introverted and cautious girl, when she is not sure whether your confession is a whim or just a joke, out of protection from harm, they will often refuse. If the person you like is a relatively traditional character, and the ideas are relatively straightforward and simple, it is a person worth chasing seriously.

    Some feelings need to be given up in time, but some feelings are worth holding on to, maybe the other party is slow to heat up, maybe the timing is wrong, maybe you are only a little bit away from holding hands. But in the relationship, no matter how slow the person is, he can also feel the sincerity of the other party, if he insists on it for a few months and half a year, the other party's response is still very cold, then don't insist.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no need to chase anymore, think about a girl who has known each other for 6 years, how familiar they are with each other, if you want to have feelings, they have already been generated, why wait until 6 years, and the rejection of confession after 6 years shows that the two people are really not suitable, and girls don't pay attention to it at all. Feelings are not calculated by time, some people can't get love in their entire lives, and some people can fall in love at first sight as long as they have a day, so the girl who has known her for 6 years confessed and was rejected, and she must learn to give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There's no need, you have to understand one thing.

    When a person can take care of himself, he can have fun when he is bored, see a doctor when he is sick, cook and eat by himself when he is hungry, watch food on holidays ** research new dishes by himself, etc. This you understand that falling in love is not a necessity of life, others refuse, then let it go, the next person may not have it, maybe it will not be better, but this can not affect your life, without love, life has to go on, you can't let yourself fall in love, you can only be good to yourself first, and then you have the ability to be good to others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    confessed to a girl who has known her for six years and was rejected, so it is recommended not to chase it anymore! Because in the past six years, she knows you better, if you are within the scope of her choice, she can agree after you confess. Therefore, if you continue to chase it, you will do useless work again, and in the end, the bamboo basket will be empty.

    It will delay your life's events! Therefore, instead of chasing down with a dead face, it is better to change the lens and find a new object of chasing, so as to avoid wasting feelings and delaying efforts. Remember, youth is limited, and time is running out.

    It's still too late to turn around and turn the rudder.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this case, you can try again.

    Don't be under the illusion that you will succeed if you confess it once. You can try it at the table once.

    If you fail twice, you can retreat. If I were you, I'd give it a 'third try.'" If you fail only three times, it will also explain something.

    Often you ignore the other person, and the other party starts to chase you.

    After repeated tug-of-war, 'lovers will eventually become married'.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you confess to others and reject you, there is no need to chase it anymore, you will know the root of the six years of knowing each other, sometimes you don't have to be a lover to enter the palace of marriage is the best, if you like to be a friend and be your best friend, what's the matter? Right!!!

    If you are unwilling to confess this time, then find a suitable time and place to confess to your her again, only three or two times!!

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