How can I get along with such in laws when I have nothing? Do you have any kind netizens to help me

As the saying goes, people's hearts are flesh and blood, the most fundamental way to get along is to treat each other with sincerity, whether you like it or not, the most basic way to exchange views with each other can be frank, and then it should be noted that after all, the in-laws are elders, or we must pay attention to respecting their ideas, forbearance is also a growth must be experienced, only take the initiative to lower the profile, so that you can exchange sincerity for sincerity, if it is just confrontation, then no one can live comfortably.

36 is the best policy. In this kind of family, you will become more and more tired, physically and mentally exhausted, and depressed. Affects mood, affects health.

People must learn to love themselves all the time, first take care of their bodies, and then adjust their moods. You're only 30 years old, you're still young, start all over again. People say, three points of appearance, seven points of dress, although you are a little ugly, as long as you dress up, you will still meet a good man.

I think you should look within yourself for the reason. Dessert in your mouth. Dress yourself up nicely.

Isn't there a saying? Clothes make the man. Dress well.

The mother-in-law nodded her head and said yes to everything. Follow him. Husband.

Learn to be spoiled a lot, and men like coquettish women. And there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. Dress yourself up beautifully, no matter how ugly a woman is, she is beautiful.

And you don't take anything they say seriously. The point is to be happy yourself. You are living for yourself, not for them, think clearly.

Also, for your children.

Although you have nothing, your mother-in-law and her family must have known that you had nothing, and since they knew that they were willing to accept you, why would they dislike you now? So you just have a normal heart, get along with your in-laws, don't provoke them, but you can't let them bully you, because, when he chose you, you just had nothing, and you didn't lie to him, so from the moment he accepted you, it was to accept all of you, and you shouldn't always think that you have nothing, and feel inferior

The mother-in-law who cleaned up the mother-in-law, that is, the grandmother of the object, came to sit at home.

Since I married my husband, I haven't had a peaceful day, and I spend every day in a noisy fight, first with my mother-in-law, and then with my parents-in-law, and then I don't know if it's the reason for my temper or what's going on, anyway, it's not the type of person who is quiet. My husband was able to help persuade him at first, but then he was completely committed to his mother, because his mother-in-law gave him money, and whatever he asked his mother-in-law, his mother-in-law would give it. It may be that I am too unforgiving, so I don't suffer a loss in my words, but I suffer in other places.

I have always felt that I quarreled with my mother-in-law, but I still have to live with my husband, so I don't have some other ideas, I still have to live after the noise, and I still have to live all day long, and I still want firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long, these are inevitable, sometimes I am filled with trivial things in life, and I forget some contradictions and some troubles, and there are children as my spiritual sustenance, I feel that as long as I have children, I am not afraid of any hardship, for the children to have a complete home, I will definitely do my best to ensure the integrity of this home.

But I think so, my mother-in-law doesn't think so, she dislikes me very much, saying that I am like an idler at home, hindering his eyes, I work so hard all day, he can't see what he does, I just sit down and rest for a while, he saw it, and he also said let me go from ** to **, I am not much more at home, less I am a lot, anyway, I don't care if I am not there, I don't agree with his statement, I am her daughter-in-law, but she treats me as an inconsequential person, I was very angry and reasoned with her, and then my father-in-law also came, and also participated in the ranks of swearing, saying how I could slander me with some unbearable words, I immediately became angry, scolded their ancestors for eighteen generations, and my father-in-law picked up a bench and was going to beat me, if I hadn't hid in time, I would have been in the hospital a long time ago, and I took the bench in his hand. At this time, my husband came back, and my father-in-law directly sued the wicked person first, saying that I was holding a bench to beat him, and my husband came up and slapped me without saying anything, completely indiscriminately, my heart was cold, and I had no strength to quarrel, even my husband treated me like this, what else did I have to be nostalgic for, I filed for divorce with him, and I left with the child in tears.

I have figured it out now, even if the child does not have a complete home, it is much better than him to have such a loveless family, I will give him all the love, I can do nothing, I only want the child.

I haven't experienced it, and I don't have to think about it.

You should communicate with your husband well, and your mother-in-law, who shouldn't look good, should stand on the reasonable side, so that she will be more balanced in her heart, and she doesn't always need to be on her side, but she should be fairer.

I must unite my husband, tell my husband that I need his help very much, and hope that my husband will not always be towards his mother-in-law.

You should find a good time to talk to your husband, say your thoughts, and see what your husband's attitude is, I believe that your husband will change.

You should talk to your husband about it, you don't need your husband to stand on your own, but you must be fair to your husband, and you can't always look at your mother-in-law, so that you will feel better.

You should ask your husband for an explanation, if your husband doesn't think he's wrong, then divorce your husband quickly.

Persuade unmarried women not to believe in pre-marital promises, what men tell you that marriage is a matter of two people, and it is all nonsense to tell you that they will support you and be responsible for and help you, but it is just to coax you to get a certificate and have a baby, and the love brain will simply live together for two years, you will find a little bit of a man's shortcomings, remember to contraception, and it will be too late to find out when you get married!

Find your own reasons first, do you have to do unsatisfactory work, don't blindly find other people's shortcomings, if you stand on the other party's side and think, you are right, then you really don't fit, just choose another way.

In this case, there is no need to go toe-for-tat with your mother-in-law, but you should learn to love yourself, give yourself a sense of security, and constantly improve yourself, so that you can become better and more independent, your husband is good to you, you can continue to live with him, if your husband and mother-in-law join forces to bully you, I don't think there is any need to continue to live with him.

In my opinion, you must make yourself financially able, and you must also make yourself more attractive and attractive, so that you can have a place in the family.

I think the most important thing you should do is to make yourself better, more attractive, and also to make yourself financially independent, so that you can have a certain status in the family.

Then divorce your husband, because such a husband will never be able to treat you wholeheartedly and be really good to you.