What to do when you meet a domineering and stingy person, what to do when you meet a stingy person?

In fact, there are really too many such people.

I've come across it a lot. But I'm the kind of person who can be bullied easily. So basically everybody who is overbearing or annoying has bullied me. Tears.

But we should believe it. Actually, they weren't bad in the first place. You should also believe that you can handle it.

We'll just take our own lessons. They don't hear what they say. It's really a face-to-face deal.

Let's be humble. Anyway, the pain will only be for a while. We still have to look at the opening point.

If you really get along seriously. You'll definitely find their cuteness. Try to change yourself.

But if he offends you for no reason, find an opportunity to teach him a hard lesson so that he doesn't dare to harass you.

I'm not on the same page upstairs.

People study well and can read words and feelings.

Aren't these people what society wants?

Who would like someone like the landlord who is sloppy and makes mistakes from time to time?

The landlord should go and cater to him.

There's really nothing you can do about it, people like him are speculators, you should be careful in the future, don't try to sue, then the teacher won't believe you at all...

In fact, there are many people around us who love to take advantage of small advantages. That's what I usually do when I meet people like this:

1.Ignore their presence.

If you see some people who often like to take advantage of small things in life or the workplace, if they don't affect their own interests, then don't go to their faces, try to do things as if they don't care about themselves, and multiple villains are not as good as multiple friends.

2.Don't care. Be open-minded a little.

For people who love to take advantage of small advantages, we might as well let go of our hearts and minds, and don't worry about their own gains and losses with them, because Xianbi is a kind of person, if you reason with them, it doesn't make much sense, as long as the benefits will not be particularly lost.

3.Turn reactive into proactive.

People who love to take advantage of small advantages, they are greedy just to take advantage of the feeling of taking advantage of small advantages, if the more cheap they give, the more they will be good to you, then since this is the case, but sometimes you can use the psychological characteristics of these people, first give them enough cheap, and then there are some things that can be explained to them to do, they will be very happy.

4.For the kind of insatiable direct pointing, don't swallow it.

As for some of the cheaper ones that hurt their own interests, they can no longer tolerate it, and they must make it clear to them face to face that other cheapness can be given, but the current one is not good, this is the principle, and I hope they can understand.

If I meet someone who is stingy, there is nothing I can do, and I can only stay away from him in the future. Just don't have so many entanglements with such stingy people.

I think that a stingy person is generally a more selfish person. He likes to get other people's things, but he is not willing to contribute his own. Others may be happy to go when they have a treat, but they are not willing to spend their own money to get a treat.

They are also reluctant to help others, because there is a cost to helping others, and when there is a cost, they may not be happy.

But there are those who are stingy, but they are also kind, and we do not deny the other virtues of those who are stingy. But in most cases, it's really hard for stingy people to make real friends. I'm trying to play with those stingy people anyway.

If I encounter it, I will automatically distance myself.

Once, our club went out to dinner together. It's all a club, but there are a lot of branch friends. There is a person who is particularly famous, because he always counts himself as a rich second generation, especially rich.

usually drags, like the naïve male protagonist in the TV series. We ordered a lot of food that day, we chatted together, played games, and had a great time.

Time flies quickly, and it's time to settle the bill, and the president has already calculated it, and everyone AA pays separately. We all paid, and then this rich second generation quit, he said that he just ate a few green vegetables, why should he pay so much, it's not fair at all. So he and the president were in a stalemate there.

But we clearly saw the big fish and meat he ate. He is the most diligent in serving vegetables. This person is really not exquisite, too stingy, and he is not even willing to pay for food.

Since then, I have been very reluctant to see him and stop talking to him because I feel uncomfortable.

Everyone has his own characteristics, some people are more generous and some people are more stingy, I think these things can not determine something, he can't determine the person's character or other things, he has his own personal views and his own style of behavior, we can't deny a person because of generosity or not, a person's generosity does not mean that his personal problems are not there, on the contrary, a person is stingy does not mean that he is not righteous enough, I think if it is a friend, it is all adversity to see the truth, None of us lacks those small favors, what we lack is charcoal in the snow and friends who can really make friends. It can help you get through when you need it, and be your last wall when your heart is at its most vulnerable.

I think that when making friends, we should not look at whether they are generous, but whether their character is good and whether they are sincere to their friends. If you know her when you know her, but you still become good friends despite this, then you should adapt to her behavior, and you should not care about his stinginess, because in fact, he is stingy and he still enters your heart. I think that's the most important thing you should do, is to get used to him.

If you really can't get used to it, then you have two options, one is to tell him, tell him in a joking way, and let him know about his stinginess. The other way is to stop being friends with her, if you care too much about these things, you can't continue to be good friends, and I think that's the end of your relationship.

In my opinion, I don't think friends should care about these external things, it doesn't matter what is in front of you, when you really need help, he stands up, that is the friend you should really cherish, that is the friend you should protect, so keep your eyes open when making friends.

Generally, people who are more stingy will take care of everything, and if two people pay an extra dollar together, he feels at a loss, to be honest, I don't like people like this very much, or stay away, I want to do things with him.