It s not just middle aged people who can do it, but young people who can also do it, right?

Seriously, young people should be energetic and energetic, and they are not shocked, they have gone through strong winds and waves, and there is no benefit to young people who are not shocked by humiliation. Young people should dare to rush forward and dare to fight.

I think that's right, and those who have a lot of experience can also be pampered without being shocked.

Yes, pampering is a kind of mentality and attitude towards life, not only middle-aged people can do it, but young people can also do it.

Pampering and not being shocked refers to maintaining peace of mind in the face of praise or belittlement, honor and disgrace or frustration from the outside world, not being swayed by external evaluations, not being confused by external honor and disgrace, not being frustrated by frustration, and not being proud of success. This mindset can help people better cope with life's challenges and stresses, maintain inner peace and self-balance.

Young people can likewise develop a pampering mentality, such as:

1.Develop an inner sense of self-worth. Young people should be clear about their values and goals, understand their strengths and weaknesses, so as to form a stable sense of inner self-worth, and will not be easily swayed by external evaluations.

2.Learn to think calmly. When faced with praise or belittlement from the outside world, young people should learn to think calmly, not be swayed by emotions, and rationally analyze their own performance and the evaluation of others, so as to better cope with external pressure.

3.Accept failures and setbacks. When faced with setbacks and failures, young people should learn to accept the reality, reflect on their own shortcomings, learn from them, and keep learning and growing.

Therefore, whether it is a middle-aged person or a young person, as long as they pay attention to their inner cultivation and self-growth, it is possible to reach the realm of pampering and not being shocked.

Judging from the trajectory of the big shots throughout the ages, there is a certain truth in saying thisBecause the words of pampering and humiliation are not shocked, it means that this person's psychological quality is very strong, and he is sure of everything, as if he has prepared everything in advance, so when the opportunity comes, this kind of person can often distinguish whether this is a real opportunity, so as to decide whether to seize it, so this kind of person often uses the opportunity to change his destiny and walk on the peak of life, so I think this sentence is right, then this kind of pampered and unfazed character is not born with human beings, It is also very likely that you can only achieve it by experiencing some special training, if you are interested, you can consciously train yourself in the following ways:

1. Practice a calm personality

First of all, we have to consciously train our own calm personality, which is also the most difficult aspect, but as long as we practice it regularly, sooner or later we will reach this level, my method is to take a certain amount of time every day to meditate, and try not to think about anything in the process of meditation, only after letting the mind be relaxed can we gradually sit still for any major things.

2. Be prepared for everything

As the saying goes, people have no long-term worries, so it is very necessary to be prepared for everything, we can think about it from what we are doing now, or the position we stand in, that is to say, how to develop in the future, we must have a general direction in our hearts, and even what may happen we must try to think about it, so that when we expect things to happen, we can be prepared.

3. Read more

In addition, the accumulation of knowledge is also very helpful for our personal improvement, and there was once a sage who said that reading history makes people clear, that is to say, people who have read through history know everything about what is happening now, so this kind of person is usually very quick to identify and understand how to seize him when faced with an opportunity.

I think it depends on the situation, because joy, anger and sorrow are a person's normal emotional reaction, sometimes the release of emotions is more conducive to a person's physical and mental health, of course, if you encounter more important things, keep a calm mind to be able to deal with the problem.

I think so. Being pampered is the same as being insulted, we should not be glad to be overly pampered, people have to be aware of it, and to what extent you have done it, you will get the corresponding results.

I very much agree with this statement, people who are not shocked by insults, do things calmly and rationally, and will not be controlled by negative emotions.

I think so, because people who are not shocked by humiliation are not proud when they succeed, and they are not discouraged when they fail.

I think so, because you will not follow in the footsteps of others if you are not frightened, so that you can control your own life.