After breaking up, do you want to be friends?

You should trust your boyfriend, after all, his ex-girlfriend is a thing of the past, even if they are still in touch, it's normal, you can still be friends after breaking up. If your boyfriend really likes his ex-girlfriend, then why should they break up, so it's all up to you.

It depends on what the mentality between them is, if it's purely a friend relationship, it's nothing, you can relax your heart, after all, it's before, it's in the past, I'm an example, I've broken up with my girlfriend for seven or eight years, and I'm in contact, but it's purely a friend relationship, and my wife also knows these things, I think there will be no misunderstanding as long as it is explained.

That can only say that you still lack trust in your boyfriend, even if you are separated, why can't you be friends? Everyone's inner thoughts are different, some are willing and some are unwilling, the one upstairs is obviously more extreme, believe him and continue to talk, if you don't believe it, there is nothing to say, it is better to divide it early.

Have a deep talk with your boyfriend and be clear about how you feel. However, even after talking, if he can't cut off contact with his ex-girlfriend, you can cut it off with him.

I know it's difficult, but, if you think about it, the quality of your ex-girlfriend is so poor, and your boyfriend doesn't care, it can be seen that this man's character, long pain is better than short pain, why don't you find someone who only looks at yourself wholeheartedly?

From the perspective of a person who has come before, if you continue like this, you will not be happy, but isn't falling in love just for two people to be happy? Please don't forget your original intention.

Don't be friends, just familiar strangers.

It's nothing!! SMS every day!! Completely disregarding your feelings!! She won't lie to you, or your boyfriend will contact her every day!! It's almost !! scolding her every day

Explain that your boyfriend still likes his ex-girlfriend, and he is also comparing and choosing between the two of you, and if you don't pay much attention to him, he will be back with your ex-girlfriend.

Being engaged means that you know him well. Now that they have broken up, didn't they also make it clear in front of you, cherish it It is easy to ask for priceless treasures and it is rare to have a lover.

It's not that you can't be friends if you're divided.

But it looks like their relationship is a bit of a resurgence.

You're going to have to watch it.

Broke up and couldn't be friends.

Don't contact you after you break up, it's not fair to yourself, to you, to your current incumbency, you're all adults, who leaves who can't live? Starting a new life is more important than anything else.

Every couple has really loved each other when they are together, those sweet memories are real, and the discomfort after the breakup is also real, only when the harm he brings you is greater than your sweetness, you will be disappointed and will die.

After the breakup, you will definitely want to call him ** countless times, in the face of the number that you are familiar with, all you hear are mechanical female voices again and again, he is really ruthless to you, and he will not look back if he leaves, so why do you still struggle and don't let go of yourself?

Don't contact after the breakup, make your embarrassment, take back your immortality, the breakup must be because the two people have irreconcilable contradictions in love, go on, you are alone in ** standing, you want to change something, you have no power to return to the sky, it is better to forget about each other.

I especially like the lyrics of "Decent": Break up should be decent, no one should say sorry, how to owe, I dare to break my heart if I dare to give.

Go all out when you love, learn to cherish when you have it, and learn to be decent when you have to separate. This is the love lesson we have to learn, breaking up is not to take away the best of you, but to give you a chance to choose again.

When you survive the most difficult, you will find that it is right not to contact at that time, love is the most reluctant thing, you lower your posture, not necessarily in exchange for the same love, it is better to be chic, and say goodbye to the past, meet a better self and love that does not need to be pleased.

It is necessary, one, to make it clear in person.

It means that both men and women are calm, sit in the corner, express their thoughts and thoughts about this relationship clearly, and at the same time let the other party understand why they want to break up, so that the other party can know their position and determination to break up. After that, it won't bother you again in the days of the breakup, which can allow you to start another relationship or life again. I think it's necessary for couples to communicate face-to-face, because in such a formal ceremony, both parties can analyze the situation based on their recent relationship, and then make the relationship stronger, and at the same time, they can better understand each other's thoughts.

If you want to end this relationship, I think it should be formal, and it shouldn't end in a text message or ** casually, because this way can make two people re-examine the relationship, and at the same time think about their decision to break up, so it has a certain saving effect.

Second, why most couples stop contacting after a breakup.

If two people really love, they will never contact each other again, and if they do, they will think of each other's past, and they will think of the time when they have lost happiness and go to pain, which is simply the torture of the spirit of two people. So they all want to get out of the shadows and find a new partner as soon as possible. Couples who are generally separated are reluctant to talk to their new partner about their past emotional experiences.

If you contact again, it is easy for the current to ask for embarrassment, and if you encounter a relationship that has to be separated, there is also the possibility of rekindling the old relationship, which is the biggest injustice to the incumbent, so not contacting is also a respect for the incumbent. And the pain of breaking up, only time can be relieved, and no contact can leave space for each other to heal and get out of the haze of breaking up. After breaking up, whether it is a man or a woman, don't look like Dou E, feel that you have been wronged wherever you go, so that you can only let others see jokes, or leave some dignity and heal quietly by yourself.

Hello! I'm very happy to have your problem, read your problem description, don't be friends if you break up, one is to avoid mutual embarrassment, and the other is to affect your future life and family, I hope mine can help you, I hope you can.

Don't, because after a breakup, both parties will be unhappy because of their previous relationship.