He s already engaged, should I wait for him?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you don't love him very much, don't wait, men care about responsibility (if he is a good person). Even if he loves you very much, after a year, then he is still married, is it fair to you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't wait, he's engaged, everything is a foregone conclusion, and waiting any longer will only make your youth go in vain! Find someone better for you! I think you've got it in your own mind!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Silly girl, if he really loves you, he won't be engaged to someone else, let you wait for him because he likes the feeling of being loved by two women, and he doesn't really want to be with you, such a selfish person, what else is there to be nostalgic for? Leave him, you will find that your world will be more wonderful, there will be people who truly love you waiting for you, love you, take care of you, and give up means happiness to start over

    I hope you wake up soon and get happiness

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forget it, it's still yourself who will hurt if you wait like this, long pain is better than short pain, let it go, maybe it's better for all of you

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't wait, when someone gets married, you will be a third party?!Find one that likes you and you like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you feel for each other, don't call so much, I support you to insist on victory.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't love others, and they have also ordered, so what are you waiting for?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let your boyfriend get engaged to you, but if he doesn't do it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, he may want to get married directly. In this case, communicate further with your boyfriend so that you can avoid less entanglement.

    How to get along with your boyfriend.

    Learn to be empathetic. Because everyone especially likes people who can understand themselves and understand themselves, only with such people can it be possible to have a heart-to-heart relationship. You have to learn to observe, you have to understand your boyfriend's mood, when you encounter a problem, you have to ask when you don't understand, and you have to learn to communicate in order to get along with your boyfriend properly.

    When you are with your boyfriend, try to keep your relationship as fresh as possible. Because people are born with the psychology of liking the new and hating the old, men and women are the same. Everyone is full of curiosity about new things, and they will want to know and explore.

    Love is like this, you stumble upon someone who makes your eyes shine, and you will be unconsciously attracted to it. Therefore, appearance is particularly important in falling in love, and those with high appearance are always more likely to be favored by the opposite sex and have a better chance of meeting love. But people who can really get love and spend their lives happily do not rely on their appearance.

    Appearance only provides an opportunity, and does not determine the success or failure of love, whether the relationship goes smoothly or not, it is still necessary to talk about emotional intelligence and fate.

    Since everyone likes freshness, it is necessary to keep the relationship as fresh as possible so that you can attract your boyfriend. Some things are too easy to see at a glance, too easy to obtain, and they will not be cherished, because there is no mystery and novelty.

    If a girl tells her boyfriend everything, she has no reservations in front of her boyfriend, and just blindly gives. It is very easy to make your boyfriend lose your attraction to you, and a boyfriend with a conscience will be grateful for your efforts; And a boyfriend who has no conscience and is more selfish may easily change his mind.

    If you compare a person to a book, you will let your boyfriend know all about your book at once, will he still be interested in reading it again? So you have to take it easy, in fact, you are also hanging him, showing him you step by step, so that he can understand you bit by bit. In this process of showing and understanding, love becomes more and more solidified.

    If your boyfriend is in a bad mood, but you cling to him at an inopportune time, spoil him, and ask him to love you and spoil you, then he will be very annoyed. Maybe once or twice, he will force himself to accommodate you and meet your needs.

    But if you do this all the time, then he will be annoyed. Empathy, if it were you, you would be annoyed too. Because it's annoying, I will slowly deny the relationship, feel that the two of you are not suitable, and propose to break up with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hurry up, immediately, immediately, go without looking back, you must be chic, don't feel that you have to him, without him, you can eat and have a good life.

    If he wants to go down with you, he will definitely go with you through the normal procedure, marriage proposal, meeting between the parents of both parties, getting engaged, getting married, if he doesn't want to get engaged to you for a long time, it must be that he or his family doesn't like you. In addition, it is best not to live in the man's house before the girls get married, which will lower their status, and the man's family will feel that your family education is not strict, and they will also think that you are not her son, and the boy will not suffer anyway.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What are you going to do if you're not engaged, now that people are having enough, what should you do while he still thinks about you now, and you are not pregnant. Tell him not to live together for the time being if he is not engaged.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, this situation is generally that the boy is determined that you will marry him, so he will become fearless. The current practice is to leave the man's house as much as possible and start a new life on his own, without paying too much attention to the man.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It may just be that I want to play with you, I don't want to be responsible for you, you think about it yourself, whether he doesn't marry or stop the loss in time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    One is not married, the other is not engaged, why do they live together? What to do? Drink only the sake you brew yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That should be left for him to understand more, you have to understand why he is this thing? Just figure out why.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My boyfriend and I were going to get engaged, and we both met each other's parents and relatives, but my boyfriend regretted it before we got engaged. My boyfriend told me that he didn't want to get married at all and asked me if I would like to wait for him for another two years. Faced with my boyfriend's sudden remorse, I was a little angry and more I didn't know what to do.

    My boyfriend and I have been together since we graduated from college, and we've been talking for almost three years now. I think I have a good relationship with him, I don't usually have a big fight, the most important thing is that now we are both old enough to get married, and if we don't get married, we will be thirty in two years. To be honest, not only did my parents urge me, but I also wanted to settle down and have a home with him.

    After we discussed, he told me to get engaged first and then get married after the year, which I thought was okay. Although engagement is different from marriage, it also has to have a sense of ceremony, my parents have informed their relatives of this, and we have made all kinds of preparations, but when there are still three days before the engagement banquet, my boyfriend regrets it.

    He told me that he didn't want to get married yet, and he said he thought we were still young and could wait another two or three years. When I heard him say that, I was angry. What does it mean that he doesn't want to get married?

    If he didn't want to get married now, why didn't he tell me at the time, and why did he promise me that he would get married after the year?

    My boyfriend saw that I was angry, so he wanted to comfort me again, saying that it really can't be done now, and then get engaged now, and then get married in two or three years. To be honest, I don't understand what he's hesitating about.

    My family conditions are good, and I don't care how much bride price he wants, the most important thing is that his family conditions are okay, he has a car and a house, and we don't have to worry about material life when we get married. He and I both have stable jobs, we have a stable income and a stable relationship, but why is he not willing to marry me early?

    When he said he would wait two more years to get married, I didn't agree, and the engagement banquet that had been scheduled didn't happen. I'm very entangled and conflicted now, he just doesn't tell me the reason why I don't want to get married now, I want to start a family now, and if I wait for another two years, I'm afraid I can't afford to wait. But if I leave him, where will my feelings go?

    In short, I am very entangled, and I don't know how to choose.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1.You haven't settled down yet, which means 1) you may not be together for that long, and there is still some time to get used to; 2) Your boyfriend wants to get more emotional feedback from you, such as deeper development; 3) Seek your late emotional attitude, and whether you are ready to marry him at this age. 2.

    After settling down, he will take you back to his house for the New Year, introduce you to your family, so as to get the approval of your family, officially take you as a marriage partner, and carry out the next step of engagement and marriage preparation.

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