What do I do after a breakup? It turns out that I am not that strong

Updated on psychology 2024-06-23
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Now that you're in love, get ready to break up. People will get divorced when they get married.

    The sea vows and the mountain alliance, the moon before the flower, the earth is long. These are all additives in love, don't think about it if you don't talk about it. Just when these spices are ineffective.

    To be strong or not to be strong, it's up to you to decide. If you are not strong, I guess you are afraid of loneliness. Many people can't stand the loneliness after a breakup.

    As the saying goes, if you don't think about it day and night, you won't miss it at night, everything is a process, just like two people coming together in love. But now it's time to adapt to a person.

    Good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh. Buy a bunch of snacks at home and take a good look at the blockbuster. It's painful. Then go to a crowded place, feel the popularity, and see those who are happy and unhappy, the world is not something that you can completely control, don't suppress yourself.

    Be strong, that's a sign of cruelty to yourself. Everyone has the right to be vulnerable, you still have memories after a breakup, memories are something that others can't take away, the emotions in the memories are all portrayals of your life, you can revisit your bits and pieces and write them into a diary. Slowly you will find that life is like this, there is no eternal agreement, only eternal memory.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's going to be a sad process At this time, don't be depressed, or there is a way to go, no matter how hard you think it is to let go, one day you will let go, talk to friends, don't let yourself alone, come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Lose love, but don't lose dignity!

    There is still a long way to go in the future, so the heroine should live strongly, and she must live better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What else can I do, since it can't be recovered, I can only grit my teeth and live strongly, do you think there is any other way? ?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Falling out of love is first and foremost a blessing, and then a misfortune. The person who can really give us happiness is waiting for you not far ahead.

    Falling out of love does not mean that you have lost everything, it means that you will have a fresh beginning.

    It's not for you, it's not for someone who really loves you, see it clearly as soon as possible, and get rid of it as soon as possible.

    Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery and original mood.

    If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to understand even if you get together, so let's let everything go with the flow!

    Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memory is beautiful or painful, it has happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should make it clear to him, don't cause unnecessary misunderstandings, you should tell him well first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Put your mind on the love for your family and your love for your work, and after a year or two, looking back, this is just a small wave in the journey of life

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    All you have to say a word can get back together with him.

    If the two of you are just lovers as you say, then you should let go of each other and not interfere with each other's life and work.

    If you're in love with him, then hopefully you'll both be able to get results, and you'll be justified in interfering in his affairs.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why bother to embarrass yourself, sometimes the person you love always enters a dead end, just because he is bad, so you can't extricate yourself! People are always dizzy, the more difficult it is to fully control, the more it arouses the desire to control in the heart, and the deeper it falls! Friend, let it go, it's enough to be sad for him one last time, it's not worth it, it's not worth continuing to consume your time and energy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

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